Last night our cat Rado (pronounce as in Silverado) died. We think he suffered a massive sudden stroke.
All animals are unique, God’s creations, and Rado was a very special gift for 6 years. A former stray, he came into our lives unexpectedly as a battle-scarred scruffy guy who had enough of the rough life. So, six years ago he took a chance on us, and from that moment to this we were forever grateful for his presence.
After the initial vet check and neutering, Rado immediately sought to find his place in our family and was uniquely gifted at expressing thankfulness. He lived his absolute best life for the past six years and was reciprocally cherished beyond all imaginings.
As his battle scars healed, Rado blossomed into his beautiful Russian Blue best. A truly handsome fellow, and incredibly unique in cat disposition. His heart was a feature of his personality that exceeded his good looks.
Each day Rado would check on his peeps, making his forever faithful patrol rounds to see what everyone was doing, a trait later called his ‘security checks.’
Once he knew his humans were in their appropriate and familiar places, he would go about doing cat things – napping and enjoying his best life, while remaining watchful and forever thankful.
It is said that pets generally will attach to one member of the household, and I have found that to be true in all cases until Rado. He received a middle name because he just seemed to need one. Thus, in his second year, Rado became Rado-Thomas.
As if he were forever as concerned about equitable devotion as he was for showing appreciation, Rado Thomas loved everyone equally with his full appreciation.
His intentional efforts were uniquely noticeable. Through each and every day of the six years he put time, effort and energy into making sure his adopted humans knew he was thankful.
In the life of Rado Thomas, perhaps an outcome of his origin, he never once took anything for granted. He loved very well. “Those outside days are over,” he would seem to convey, “this inside stuff is just way better.” With that expressed opinion solidly as his foundation he never once again looked wistfully toward the outside; nope, not even a twitch or a flinch. “Right here” was his place, right here.
Rado was an unexpected gift upon arrival and became a visible reminder of how to define ‘steadfast’. “You move, I move, that’s just the way it is human,” and with his companionship, even when it was totally undeserved, that’s just the way he was.
I am sure many readers will understand when I say he was more than ‘just a cat‘.
Rado Thomas will live forever, deeply in my heart.
Farewell my boy, I love you.
~ Sundance
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What a beautiful boy and so terrible to lose him at such a tender age. Most of our kitties have lived long lives and we’ve had time to get used to their eventual passing. Just know that you gave your boy the most loving home imaginable for his short but happy life…and that you will surely meet again.
The movie “My Dog Skip” has a very moving ending.
His parents notify him Skip, his boyhood dog, died and they buried Skip under the Tree in the backyard.
“But that wasn’t true.” He said. “Skip was forever buried, deep within my heart.”
I am so sorry, we lost our cat Grey Nose from a tumor a few months ago. These dear little creatures come into our lives and become part of our families. We planned on waiting longer as we were so saddened but saw that two kittens Felix and Oscar needed a home and adopted them. They haven’t taken his place, but have brought smiles and rekindled memories as well.
Losing a trusted friend it difficult. You have our condolences.
I find throughout the stresses and trials of life that I tend to love animals more than people. Sure my children will always have most of my heart and my wonderful spouse has the rest but there’s something about our loved fur faces that transcends all of that. The complete innocence or possibly our god like presence to them, they occupy a special place in an animal lovers heart that is directly connected to our soul. We feel your pain.
What a loving tribute. RIP to Rado. Regrets to the Sundance family.
Sorry for your loss. You were lucky to have found each other for the journey that you had. That is a blessing that is more valuable than nearly anything.
Did he get the jab? Only kitting. Sad to lose a loved one. Pretty cat.
Pet tragedies: George Carlins gift to the world.
So sorry for your loss. We had a neighborhood cat, a gray tabby, adopt us. She had a robin a day habit to stay fed, but was so happy to be inside and warm, with food and water available all the time. When we transitioned to a place with acreage, when I was walking up to the back of the property, she would go with me but circle me at about 20 feet and never get any farther away. Then when we moved to the South, she loved to parade every morning around the pool with our tiny toy poodle. Had to be done every morning. She did have to learn her lesson that when the weather turned bad, she had to make a run for the back door to get in and not try to tough it out. Only happened once. She loved everyone unconditionally and even let our granddaughter parade around with Miss Queenie on her neck like a stole. From her time outdoors, she liked to burrow under the covers and was an expert at getting under the blankets in the upstairs bed. You’d just see a lump right in the middle of it, and if you called, the lump would ease over to the edge and she would emerge to see what you needed. She died in her sleep one night waiting for us to get up and start the procession around the pool one more time. What a loving kitty.
Understand. Recently lost my husband’s boy of 14 years and then within weeks my girl of 23 cat years. I tell my children and self in these moments: love as strong as you can for as long as you can and then no regrets. They give us so much that allowing them to go when the time has come is our least gift for all of that heart.
Words can never express when we suffer a loss as Rado Thomas. Our Gift from God from the moment they enter our lives. Always a smile and unending love… my heart feels your pain SD. Love like this is from Heaven above. Rest in peace beautiful Rado handsome man… you’ll find him one day, waiting for you.
Always a dog person, I approached with trepitation my inheritance of a seven toed coal black nuetered female cat. My mother who I carred for the last ten of her ninety nine years loved this creature with the same gentle devotion that would be conveyed to any small child. I had always been a food source, changer of litter, and never rose past the status of a Queen Mary butler. I am now the only human this feline owns and have been the beneficiary of the transition.
I had no idea how devoted and affectionate cats are. It is almost as if mom left instructions about making sure I was not short of companionship.
Sorry for your loss Sundance.
RIP Rado
“Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened.” —Anatole France
Truth!🐾
Made me cry.
I think that was the intended outcome!
Now don’t get me wrong here, I love all of God’s Little Creatures & I think that there is a place for all of them… right beside the Mashed Potatoes! ROTFLMAO!
Sorry for your loss. We bury each of ours in a special, visible spot in the yard
Very sorry for your loss.
As one cat lover to another I understand how you feel.
Have loved and lost many in my lifetime.
It’s never easy. Never.
May your sorrow remind you how good a life you gave Rado and what it could have been without you.
Sundance, I am so sorry for your loss. We are going through the same with our ‘oh so loving’ 10-year-old Golden Retriever, Harlow. Trusting in God’s plan, but upon that heartbreak, I pray I can find the same strength and peace you have found. Thank you for sharing.
They say that in order to grieve you must know love, and your grief must be immeasurable because your love was endless.
R.I.P. Rado Thomas.
Condolences, SD
Wow, what a handsome guy!!! I’m so very sorry for your loss. As a cat lover I understand how much he meant to you and how much you’ll miss your special little friend.
So sorry for your loss! Last night while watching TV I mentioned to my wife how lucky and fortunate we are to be blessed by having our 2 Westies and 3 Persian cats. All of them get along well and love to play and chase each other around the house, we love them all and spoil them daily with treats and the best food. In turn they all love us and miss us immensely when we are gone from the house, even if its justod ble 15 minutes. The dogs always greet us at the backdoor as if we have been gone for weeks. the cats are far more subtle and join us after the dogs have calmed down a bit. We allow them to sleep with us at night and they love to cuddle while we sleep. The love of al of our pets help keep us calm and sane. They are truly a gift of God but we are also well aware that they are only on loan to us for a short time as we have lost lots of pets over our long lives. God bless Rato Thomas and your family for their love for him, JH and CH,
So sorry for your loss. I do hope we get to see our furry love ones in Heaven.
You will, I guarantee it.
There is a lovely poem called the Rainbow Bridge.
I think of it often when remembering my beloved departed pets.
http://Www.rainbowbridge.com
Fly free Rado Thomas….
RainbowBridge.com
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together….
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Ah, you made me cry!
Had to put my dear cat Stumpy down almost a year ago.
Still miss her, but am blessed to have a sweet boy kitty named Fuzzie to love.
What a beautiful dude. I am sorry for your loss, Sundance. We are cat folks at my home. Omar is our latest companion. He was six when he showed up. He’s nine now. Unfortunately, we can’t convince him that being inside is wonderful…and safer. So we do everything we can to make safe and comfortable places for him outside. RIP Rado.
Very soon, a rescue cat will find you. Time is malleable, and cats really do have “nine lives.” You will recognize the kitten or young teenager when you see him, and take him in. And, in this way, Rado Thomas will continue to be. And to be with you.
Very moving tribute, Sundance. Lots and lots of love shining through. Rado, you’re part of a miracle!
Beautiful tribute. Several years ago my old cat left the earth on Christmas, happy and herself until the end, I called it a “mic drop.”
Now I tend to several ferals, who are ever-present but very-much outdoor cats. They sleep in my garage but I can tell that, at least for now, they seek the outdoor life. This story though causes me to hope/anticipate that one day they won’t just visit the porch but will venture in from the cold to give some weary bones some rest, and I’ll welcome them whenever they do. God bless.
The only people who say, “Nobody is irreplaceable!”, are folks who’ve never lost a soul-mate pet.
And for those who say there are no pets in heaven, well, answer me this: How can one be supremely happy without his scruffy, furry, fishing, best buddy? How, indeed?
russian blues are amazing
mine is seventeen and on her eighth life
please accept my condolences
Sorry your friend is gone Sundance. That breaks your heart every time. Thank you for your writings, your work is much appreciated. God bless you and yours, have a Merry Christmas, again, all of us know how you feel, I am sorry for your pain.
I’m so very sorry, Sundance. Losing a feline companion is really hard, especially when you realize he’s no longer lying in his favorite places. There’s emptiness there instead.
Your Rado is a twin to my Sam, although she’s still with me.
Really, really sorry — it hurts.
“Some people talk to animals.
Not many listen though.
That’s the problem.”
~A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
So very sorry for your loss. As a lifelong cat owner/lover, I echo all of your sentiments. They truly are a part of the family and their loss can be just as devastating as the loss of a family member.
I’ve never met “just a cat”….I’ve seen that each of the ones that have been a part of my life had their own personalities and quirks and each exhibited their own brand of unconditional love even if it was hidden behind an aloof exterior.
It sounds like Rado’s mission was to “rescue” you and yours, just like my current orange tabby was a rescue for me when our hospice foster suddenly developed an embolism and had to be put down. Alex too has earned a middle name, and it was the same middle name the originator of the tradition–Beaumont. (it’s an Elmore Leonard thing).
I take comfort in the belief that all of the felines of my life will be waiting for me when I cross over that bridge….I’ll find a way to bring some treats with me if at all possible.
Hang in there Sundance…we’ve got you on this!
Quite wrenching to discover how magnificent is the animal love once it is gone.
So good to know the treasure that was yours had a value undefinable while he was with you.
May the bond comfort you now.
Beautiful!
Sorry been through it a few times always tough for my wife especially.
God Bless your family Sundance during this time. We have a 10 year old Russian Blue, Pepper, who brings such joy to our family. He chose us at the shelter when he walked right into his carrier for us to take him home. Pets are family, not animals.
Sundance wrote this only one day after Rado died. It had to be so difficult, but he needed to pour out his heart! A friend once said that “people are more important than animals”! Not even close! I kept quiet to keep things civil! No, people are NOT more important than animals. There is nothing like animal love. People could never measure up!
Sorry for your loss, Sundance! Our Luna looks like a smaller version of Rado and until she showed up as a stray four years ago we were definitely NOT cat people but we’re converts with this little girl so I can somewhat appreciate your loss!!
I agree with Randy Alcorn. There will be animals in Heaven. Perhaps even your favorite pet.
Rado Thomas lives. God would not allow His greatest creations NOT to move from here to there, where He is.
You will see him again. Perfect body, perfect life, perfect love. Until you go from here to there, know that he waits.
How wonderful you had each other. There is no other relationship quite like it. A blessing.
I am so sorry for the void in your home & your heart, with his going on ahead. The pain is indescribable, as is the joy he brought into your life.
God’s Peace & Comfort
So sorry for your loss. I know pets are family. He’s beautiful and I can tell well cared for.
What a beautiful beast. He went peacefully in his sleep. A lot of our domestic pets suffer giving us the dire responsibility of putting them down. He went on his terms.
I am sorry for your loss.
There is speculation about our animal friends being taken into Heaven, but I am persuaded that the Lord loves them just as much as, even more than, we do.
If there are lions laying down with lambs in our eternal home, then I think your Dear Rado will be there waiting for you when you arrive.
I have a cat here that I adore. He is, without doubt, the most beautiful animal on the planet. And he’s taught me a lot about how to love. I inherited him from a friend who became unable to care for him, and to everyone’s surprise we hit it off big time. I took him outside on a leash, a first for him, and he fed on the allure and excitement of the outdoors, safely. As we walked I began to see the world through his eyes, and to act accordingly, which AISI is the working definition of a loving relationship. He’s 17+ and has slowed down, but love, prayer, and care has kept him going, and I believe he will rebound.
I’m sorry for your loss, SD. Rado looks like a real gentleman of a cat.
“Tears are the heart speaking……when there are no words”- from one pet lover to another.