Last night our cat Rado (pronounce as in Silverado) died. We think he suffered a massive sudden stroke.
All animals are unique, God’s creations, and Rado was a very special gift for 6 years. A former stray, he came into our lives unexpectedly as a battle-scarred scruffy guy who had enough of the rough life. So, six years ago he took a chance on us, and from that moment to this we were forever grateful for his presence.
After the initial vet check and neutering, Rado immediately sought to find his place in our family and was uniquely gifted at expressing thankfulness. He lived his absolute best life for the past six years and was reciprocally cherished beyond all imaginings.
As his battle scars healed, Rado blossomed into his beautiful Russian Blue best. A truly handsome fellow, and incredibly unique in cat disposition. His heart was a feature of his personality that exceeded his good looks.
Each day Rado would check on his peeps, making his forever faithful patrol rounds to see what everyone was doing, a trait later called his ‘security checks.’
Once he knew his humans were in their appropriate and familiar places, he would go about doing cat things – napping and enjoying his best life, while remaining watchful and forever thankful.
It is said that pets generally will attach to one member of the household, and I have found that to be true in all cases until Rado. He received a middle name because he just seemed to need one. Thus, in his second year, Rado became Rado-Thomas.
As if he were forever as concerned about equitable devotion as he was for showing appreciation, Rado Thomas loved everyone equally with his full appreciation.
His intentional efforts were uniquely noticeable. Through each and every day of the six years he put time, effort and energy into making sure his adopted humans knew he was thankful.
In the life of Rado Thomas, perhaps an outcome of his origin, he never once took anything for granted. He loved very well. “Those outside days are over,” he would seem to convey, “this inside stuff is just way better.” With that expressed opinion solidly as his foundation he never once again looked wistfully toward the outside; nope, not even a twitch or a flinch. “Right here” was his place, right here.
Rado was an unexpected gift upon arrival and became a visible reminder of how to define ‘steadfast’. “You move, I move, that’s just the way it is human,” and with his companionship, even when it was totally undeserved, that’s just the way he was.
I am sure many readers will understand when I say he was more than ‘just a cat‘.
Rado Thomas will live forever, deeply in my heart.
Farewell my boy, I love you.
~ Sundance
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Wow, Rado Thomas was a magnificent creature.
Wish I could’ve met him.
Ive never been without a kitty.
My current kitty is 17 years old.
My heart goes out to you, I know how much you will miss him.
God bless you Sundance and give you peace.
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What a beautiful story. Thank you for finding him- him finding you- for the love shared- animals, all animals, are truly unique, as you said, and truly a gift from God. I’m sad for your loss but so happy for the wonderful life you provided for him these past 6 years.
Sounds like the blessings flowed…every which way between him and each family member. That is…a blessing. Sorry he is gone.
Sorry Sundance
Plush silvery gray cats are so beautiful, strong, sweet and elegant.
My French Chartreux is in Heaven and my British Shorthair is getting extra pets right now.
My sincere condolences on the loss of your special boy.
My condolences. I can relate.
Perfect.
Beautiful boy! So Sorry for your loss….really, pets are family.
I have two 17 year olds teetering on the brink… both felines. blessings for your Rado Thomas and your family.
He’s not just a cat. I lost my dachshund on december 4th. he was my heart, with me for 14 years, when i had nobody. so many memories. im devastated. i feel your pain.
Sorry for your family’s loss. You gave that cat a great life!
I recently had a stray cat, who was looking for a mate, hanging around the building where I work. I let him in and I was afraid he’d get lost because it’s a big building. Nobody was around because it was late at night.
But, he didn’t get lost. He stayed by me most of the time. He had a collar with some kind of ID that I couldn’t read. So, I put him in my car to go home until I could take him to the animal shelter.
Oh, my gosh. He was so nice. He jumped on my lap while I was driving and was looking out the windows the whole time. He was very calm and friendly and I could tell he thought all the lights going by were cool.
There were other drivers who saw him looking out to them. It was crazy. He stood up looking everywhere around and would not stay still. I put him back in the passenger seat but he’d go right back up on my lap and stare out the windows with excitement.
He was having so much fun! He had such a gentle nature and was very nice to me the whole time. I kept thinking about his owner who would be petrified once she couldn’t find him.
While he was staring out the windows having a good time, I said…..”What is up with you! Oh yeah, you are looking for a girl or for your home or BOTH!”
I could smell the perfume on him that was certainly from a lady owner. So, I took him to the shelter very quickly so she could call and find him.
Later, I went back to the shelter that same day. He was still there, but was sleeping so he didn’t see me. I’m not sure what happened to him. They said nobody had called for him yet.
But, I knew they would eventually. So, I left with a tiny broken heart. But, I think it most likely ended well and I’m sure there was joy when the owner finally called the shelter.
I had cats when I was young. I really do understand them and they seem to understand and trust me implicitly too. I’m grateful for that.
Sundance and all….I appreciate your postings today and as always, I’m with you along the dreary way.
Very hard. It’s truly very hard to deal with.
Give it some time and get back on the horse.
It took me a while last time around.
So sorry for your loss
What a beautiful cat. Funny how each one is unique and has specific behaviors, likes, etc. Strays are usually so grateful and lovey. So sad you lost him, Sundance. We have barn cats and an indoor cat, a mostly black runt rescued and brought inside for the good life. He definitely has his favorite in our family.
My cat-son, the famous goofball Calvin Climb, came into my life after the effects of gravity acted upon his right distal femur from 40 feet up in a tree, resulting in a supracondylar fracture, the bottom 1/2 inch just broke off from impact with the macadam . I think he forgot to look down. He was my very first orthopedic case in practice, and I learned how to run two k-wires up inside the bone to hold everything in place, while he spent 6 weeks in a cage. From Cal, I learned how to save many lives by keeping him strictly inside, putting bungees and covers on my trash cans, putting dental floss and fishing line into those covered cans(string peritonitis), and giving him wet food with lots of water in it(feline urinary tract obstruction(FUS)). He seemed to be a great reader in bed, but didn’t have the slightest idea what a mouse was. In the evenings he would hang out with his cat friends and at least one skunk in the cellar screens with cal on the inside and his pals on the out, separated by a piece of stout hardware cloth. You could rock him on your arm and he would just hang there in bliss. Twenty two years later was the end of him and also my practice, as I was ready to move to Maine. You do know that you are their property, don’t you? You belong to them.
We understand completely! Love to all of you.
So sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss.I lost my little love Brady 19 yrs in May.He never left my side when I came home from serious medical surgery.He was loving & so special a Himi Ham. I miss his little face in mine ! My fur boy !
Sorry to hear about losing Rado. I always loved the Russian Blue’s. They’re just cool cats.
Your story reminds me that I was once told cats pick their owners and not the other way around. I’m glad he picked your family.
So true…cats do pick their owners!
I’m very sorry for your loss. He’s a very handsome fella. I lost my Missy 2/1/22 after a 2 wk. illness. She was my girl, 17yrs.+8mos. old. Then, 10/18/22, my silly Billy passed on. He grieved terribly after he lost his lifetime partner. He was just 3 wks. short of 19yrs. old (92 human yrs.). I had them both since they were each 6wks. old. Billy died peacefully in my arms. He was my best bud. They’ll both always hold a place in my heart as I’m sure Rado will in yours.
“If, nevertheless, the strong conviction which we have of a real, though doubtless rudimentary, selfhood in the higher animals, and specially in those we tame, is not an illusion, their destiny demands a somewhat deeper consideration … Man was appointed by God to have dominion over the beasts, and everything a man does to an animal is either a lawful exercise, or a sacrilegious abuse, of an authority by Divine right. The tame animal is therefore, in the deepest sense, the only ‘natural’ animal – the only one we see occupying the place it was made to occupy, and it is on the tame animal that we must base all our doctrine of beasts. Now it will be seen that, in so far as the tame animal has a real self or personality, it owes this almost entirely to its master.” ~ C.S. Lewis
Prov. 12:10 Whoever is righteous has regard for the life of his beast, but the mercy of the wicked is cruel.
Sorry Brother
Handsome guy. So sorry. Adopted strays are special companions.
I am very sorry for your loss. I too have known the love and companionship of “more than a cat.” Mine also died suddenly, probably of a stroke. He was very, very old.
I was told by many, including my vet, that his last “gift” to me was the way he died, at home, not sick; he just stopped. So many pets go out ill at the vet. Everyday I had with him was a gift, truly.
I know you will grieve Rado for a long time, but I’m glad you had your friend for as long as you did.
A beautiful cat that lived in a wonderful home.
There is nothing sad about this.
We all come to an end.
This instance is too soon.
Sorry for your loss and congrats on your cat’s wonderful life.
RIP Rado! Hopefully he’s getting a good snuggle in heaven with my English Bull Terrier, Stax who passed earlier this year. 🙏
It is also said that we don’t own cats, they own us.
Oh My! This baby looks identical to my orphan farm baby [she is 4 now]. I was a little surprised to
see the picture on your site. Our ‘Lil Kitty’ lives a similar life here – and we are also grateful. She
joined us 1 year after we took in another farm baby who was the only one left in his litter. They have
added a lot of life to our lives. My Condolences. RIP Rado-Thomas.
My dear Rado what a special boy and gift you were. Quickly now find your place among all the other good boys and girls over the bridge. We will see you soon
Sorry for your loss. I lost my cat a while back. He too found us after his original family left him behind. My heart aches for you. I know how you feel. One day you’ll be reunited again.
They come into your home and takeover your heart. It’s always tough to say goodby whether they go on their own or must be helped to end their pain.
I believe they will always be with us as long as their memory is alive in our hearts. They truly are one of God’s gifts.
Sorry for your loss Sundance. RIP Rado Thomas.
We remember the moment we fell in love with our pets.
Sometimes it’s when that ONE cat or dog approached you
from the litter. Like that little fur ball chose you!
Or you were at the pound and that one little fur ball
had the spark in it to come nose your finger through a kennel wire door.
Im crying again, so I’ll stop.
SD, our hearts are breaking with you.
We know how it feels, and know your pain.
Pray, celebrate , and cry.
God bless you and your boy Rado
My heart goes out to you and your family, Sundance… 😔
My Russian Blue was exactly like that. We swore he had been raised by dogs. Now you’ve made me cry.
Fine and handsome cat. I live very close to my youngest daughter. We have several cats. I have an old, disabled barn cat that one of my grandaughters brought to me 10 yr ago. Her name is Possum Cat Wall. She has physical issues, but is my partner. She was really my deceased husband’s cat. He love her dearly. When he passed, she mourned him much the same way I did. She would come to me and sit or lay right next to me. We have been very close since 2015. We understand each other. She has difficulty seeing, and bad legs. I don’t move furniture and make sure she has night lights. Animals are special companions and family members to their humans. We love our cats. Every member of my family has at least 1 cat. They accept us the way we are and bring a contentment that I cannot explain. I am happy your family and Rado-Thomas were able to be a part each others lives. Blessings, Sundance.
Our Mr.Wiggles (big black cat) came to us from a shelter, lived indoors for 7 yrs, adventured out and lived a dual existence for another 4 before he locked up with a stroke out of nowhere. Never once was he anything less than magical. I’ve had many pets but he touched my soul like no other. Been gone for almost 2 years and I still think I catch glimpses of him in and around our house.
Sundance, so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Rado Thomas. How fortunate it is that you found each other and shared a bond and memories that will last forever. God bless.
So sorry for the loss of Rado, Sundance. There’s now and empty spot in your heart. Prayers for healing.
Sincerest condolences Sundance.
Truly sad when a family member passes and our furry friends are indeed part of our families.
Condolences, losing a 4 leg family member is never easy.
So sorry for your losing sweet Rado. Two weeks ago, I lost my beautiful 23 year old Paint mare to some combination of heart failure/stroke. Mercifully for horses, they tend to fail quickly. She was strong, fast, big hearted yet tender with the grandkids – these tend to leave us too early. As for cats, never purposefully went and got one – living rural means they just show up and choose you. I have a green eyed one that is 20 and now losing her health to thyroid failure, difficult – I can still see her meowing loudly as she navigated 2″ of new snow across our pasture toward us after she was tossed out down the dirt road at the junction. Of my current ones, I have a black male with round gold eyes that must make that patrol twice a day around the ranch, “loading up” to ride as co pilot on our Gator, tasting all the different species’s food to make sure it is “good,” and always with a deep purr expressing his companionship. The Lord blesses us with animals to make us aware of the different goodnesses we too should show our fellow man, to help us grow to be better humans.
I know the feeling…
“Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened. ”
– Anatole France
What a beautiful kitty.
Someday you’ll rejoice because you’ll be together again.
“Home is whenever I’m with you.” –Edith Whiskers (Tom Rosenthal) “Home”
Sorry for your loss Sundance
We are so sorry to hear that. He is so majestic.
We completely understand your sorrow. A month ago we had to let our beloved orange tabby go to sleep. He was down to four pounds from 18 and stopped eating. He had cancer. He didn’t want to go and was purring as he went to sleep. When they stop eating is when we let them go. We will always miss him and our other furry friends that have gone before him. They are part of our family.
Sympathetic regards.
It’s a pain I have not dealt well with in my life. Each passing of a pet has left me mostly stunned and seemingly, way more effected than many humans. We have two shelter cats Mixxy and Millie, I do not like to think about them no longer with us. Sorry for your loss SD, Peace Brother.
How God cares for the animals he has given us:
PS. 104:14-30
14 You cause the grass to grow for the livestock
and plants for man to cultivate,
that he may bring forth food from the earth
15 and wine to gladden the heart of man,
oil to make his face shine
and bread to strengthen man’s heart.
16 The trees of the Lord are watered abundantly,
the cedars of Lebanon that he planted.
17 In them the birds build their nests;
the stork has her home in the fir trees.
18 The high mountains are for the wild goats;
the rocks are a refuge for the rock badgers.
19 He made the moon to mark the seasons;
the sun knows its time for setting.
20 You make darkness, and it is night,
when all the beasts of the forest creep about.
21 The young lions roar for their prey,
seeking their food from God.
22 When the sun rises, they steal away
and lie down in their dens.
23 Man goes out to his work
and to his labor until the evening.
24 O Lord, how manifold are your works!
In wisdom have you made them all;
the earth is full of your creatures.
25 Here is the sea, great and wide,
which teems with creatures innumerable,
living things both small and great.
26 There go the ships,
and Leviathan, which you formed to play in it.
27 These all look to you,
to give them their food in due season.
28 When you give it to them, they gather it up;
when you open your hand, they are filled with good things.
29 When you hide your face, they are dismayed;
when you take away their breath, they die
and return to their dust.
30 When you send forth your Spirit, they are created,
and you renew the face of the ground.
Sundance, you and your family did not only give Rado his best life. He gave y’all the best of life you could imagine. I cannot imagine my life without my Zoe. She is the most precious being to me. We all cry in our hearts for your loss.
I’m not a cat person, I’m a dog person, but a couple who are friends of mine have two cats, both were found as strays, and they are not only beautiful looking cats, but they are nearly as friendly as dogs. I could handle cats like that.
Maybe initially being a stray makes a cat more appreciative of humans after they are rescued?
Rest easy, Rado T…
Deepest condolences, Sundance. Rado was a beautiful and wonderful beast.
Life would be diminished without the continued presence of these furry angels. I believe they are sent to us for spiritual purposes. Or purr-poses.
Security checks, indeed.
Sadest day in my life is when we …parted ways…with our Tony. See him again over the Rainbow Bridge.
So sad….