Last night our cat Rado (pronounce as in Silverado) died. We think he suffered a massive sudden stroke.
All animals are unique, God’s creations, and Rado was a very special gift for 6 years. A former stray, he came into our lives unexpectedly as a battle-scarred scruffy guy who had enough of the rough life. So, six years ago he took a chance on us, and from that moment to this we were forever grateful for his presence.
After the initial vet check and neutering, Rado immediately sought to find his place in our family and was uniquely gifted at expressing thankfulness. He lived his absolute best life for the past six years and was reciprocally cherished beyond all imaginings.
As his battle scars healed, Rado blossomed into his beautiful Russian Blue best. A truly handsome fellow, and incredibly unique in cat disposition. His heart was a feature of his personality that exceeded his good looks.
Each day Rado would check on his peeps, making his forever faithful patrol rounds to see what everyone was doing, a trait later called his ‘security checks.’
Once he knew his humans were in their appropriate and familiar places, he would go about doing cat things – napping and enjoying his best life, while remaining watchful and forever thankful.
It is said that pets generally will attach to one member of the household, and I have found that to be true in all cases until Rado. He received a middle name because he just seemed to need one. Thus, in his second year, Rado became Rado-Thomas.
As if he were forever as concerned about equitable devotion as he was for showing appreciation, Rado Thomas loved everyone equally with his full appreciation.
His intentional efforts were uniquely noticeable. Through each and every day of the six years he put time, effort and energy into making sure his adopted humans knew he was thankful.
In the life of Rado Thomas, perhaps an outcome of his origin, he never once took anything for granted. He loved very well. “Those outside days are over,” he would seem to convey, “this inside stuff is just way better.” With that expressed opinion solidly as his foundation he never once again looked wistfully toward the outside; nope, not even a twitch or a flinch. “Right here” was his place, right here.
Rado was an unexpected gift upon arrival and became a visible reminder of how to define ‘steadfast’. “You move, I move, that’s just the way it is human,” and with his companionship, even when it was totally undeserved, that’s just the way he was.
I am sure many readers will understand when I say he was more than ‘just a cat‘.
Rado Thomas will live forever, deeply in my heart.
Farewell my boy, I love you.
~ Sundance
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I’m so sorry. I’ve been there and done that and never want to go through it again, but I currently am owned by Toby, 15 years old, Saskatchewan aka Sassy, 11, and Marky Mark, aka Mark, 7 (my daughter didn’t know who Marky Mark was when she adopted him from a shelter when she was 19 and came to her senses when she was 20 and realized she couldn’t quite afford him). In other words, I’m sure I’ll experience this loss again but I wouldn’t give up the experiences with them for anything.
I’m happy you had those 6 years and that Rado was smart enough to find a family that loved him and let him truly live his best life.
I am so sorry for your loss. Our furry friends are members of the family. They are 100% love and always tend to make us laugh just when we need to the most. There are no words of consolation to lessen your grief. I will keep you in my prayers. God bless
Been a tough year Sundance. I hope that Rado will continue his rounds and look over all of you. Hugs to you.
RIP Rado Thomas. I have a Russian Blue who could be Rado’s twin. He has his morning routine just like Rado did. I hope Rado has found his little spot of eternal sunshine to lay in and enjoy 😊
People will let you down but our pet companions never do…
Condolences
Sorry to hear Sundance, as I have lost a few 4 legged kids, over time!
Sundance,
So sorry for your loss. What a beautiful cat!
Of course, as you described so well, the true beauty came from within.
My family has had, and lost, many cats over the years. All very cherished.
The last one we lost was Abby The Main Coon. Not purebred, but stunningly pretty. The single most well behaved cat I’ve ever had. We got her from Petsmart. Surprisingly, as a full grown cat, not a kitten, she had been there for about 6 months. She came to live with us and was a joy.
When she got cancer, we did a surgery. A month later my beloved Dad passed away. We counted on that kitty to be a distraction from the reality of the passing of Dad. Abby died a month later.
My daughter and I tried to cope without a cat. My wife sorta tolerates them. About a month after losing Abby, my daughter and I couldn’t take it any more, we went to get another cat. My daughter specifically said she didn’t want a Main Coon. Not because she didn’t like them, but because it would remind her of Abby.
We looked at literally nearly a hundred cats at this one place. One was in a cage because it had been sick. It was the last we looked at, and my wife saw it first. She thought it was cute.
My daughter also thought she was cute, and, when the cat was handed to her, it snuggled in, started purring, and lightly bit/nibbled my daughter’s chin.
Well, THAT did it! She went home with us, and even though it’s been nearly five years and my daughter grew up and moved out, she still loves Snuggles………the Main Coon.
It did not matter that she resembled Abby.
I told you that to tell you this:
Go get another critter, it’ll help deal with the passing of Rado. I speak from experience.
Conspiracy?Reality! made a kind offer. It may be worth taking him up on it.
But regardless…….get another kitty.
Cats ain’t nuthin’ but miniature lions and tigers.
And they sure love much larger than their physical size.
I really believe these creatures are gifts from GOD. “Rado” will be waiting for ya! Rest in Peace Good Boy
I also believe that cats are gifts from God. One afternoon, I told my son that I would never have another cat. My last cat had died 6 months earlier and 25 days before my husband passed away. Well, within 24 hours I had a cat, proving that God also has a sense of humor. And Percy has been with me for 3 years now. Sundance, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Rado.
God’s blessings rain down from many unexpected sources and stay forever.
Agree with all here with heartfelt condolences from us all SD.
Oh, we are so sorry. We understand and love your tribute. We lost our little Missy Moto after 17 years, and we still miss her every day. Thanks for sharing this tribute.
Sundance, I’m so sorry you lost your sweet boy. He was beautiful. It is hard when we lose our fur babies. He had the best life he could ever have when he found and chose you as his own.
My sincere sympathies and love.
Beautiful boy .
Sorry Sundance .
What a loving farewell and so deeply felt, brings to mind all those I’ve loved and lost. I am grateful for every single one, so grateful.
That was beautiful Sundance.
Cats indeed are very special creatures.
My two very best friends were mother and son, Duchess and Max.
They brought me great joy for their 20+ years.
They’re now in heaven, with the rest of my family.
Your words brought forth many memories as well as a few tears. But it’s all good.
Merry Christmas to all
I’m so sorry for your loss, Sundance…
You gave your beautiful boy a wonderful tribute and a fitting sendoff in this post today… Perfect.
RIP Rado Thomas….
What a gorgeous Kitty, I am so very, very sorry for your loss Sundance -and am weeping reading your beautiful write up of Rado’s time with you and your family.
No, never “just a cat.”
May God comfort you in your loss.
What a beautiful love story~ and that you would share it with us😌🙏🏻💔
Sorry Brother, it’s tough business.
Pets can provide comfort, stability, and unconditional love. (Cats get the wrap of conditional love, but none the less it’s still love). It’s hard to lose something we love whether it’s got 2 legs, 4 legs, or no legs. Sundance, I’m sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost mine just 3 1/2 weeks ago also. She was also a stray who chose us 13 years ago. A true gift from God. She came into our life a few weeks before i lost my mom. i’ve always said that God sent her to help me get through my mom’s death. I’ll always remember this beautiful creature that gave up so much love and comfort.
My heart goes out to you. I lost my friend and constant companion of 18 years this spring, a beautiful solid black long hair stray kitten that showed up on my window ledge during a terrible storm. She was always there for me, meowing at the door when I came home, sharing my recliner and nudging me to the edge of the bed sometime in the middle of the night. Rado, RIP, along with BlackCat and all the others that have left their pawprints on the hearts of grieving owners.
Had to say goodbye to our cat Schmoe 4 years ago, and still not over the loss.
I know how you feel and I’m very sorry for your loss.
Prayers
What a great name.
Hang tough with a big heart.
I am sorry for your loss. Our pets really are part of the family. Right now I am fostering a cat, Luna and she is laying on my lap as I type this. She is a former co-worker’s cat who needs someone to take care of her for a while so I volunteered. She is a good kitty and I am happy to have her around.
Sundance, I’m sorry for the loss of your beloved friend and companion. We all recognize and empathize with your grief. When I lost my beloved dog, Malone, a friend sent me a brief essay written by Eugene O’Neill. It was written from the perspective of his dying dog (a Dalmatian) named Silvadene Blemish O’Neil known to all who knew and loved him as Blemmie. That work of a genius playwright working through his own grief helped me through. I have had occasion to employ it several times since. I heartily recommend it to you. Written in 1940, every word rings true no matter the breed or species.
God bless.
Ohhh, so sorry for your loss. Our hearts attach to animals in a special way, and they demonstrate a unique devotion to us. Those who don’t understand that have missed out on a true blessing.
I am so sorry … wonderful story😢
“Then you cross the Rainbow Bridge together…
never again to be separated.”
My pet angels — Snicker, Socksy, Cricket; miss them dearly.
Rado will be at the bridge waiting on you. Prayers sent for God’s Healing Mercies. I am so very sorry for your loss,
Prayers for all who will miss him, until you meet again! ❤🙏
Hugs and Love. Our fur babies are so precious. Condolences.
Sorry to hear that.
I’m a cat person. We always had them. In Saudia – anyone who’s lived there knows stray cats are everywhere – I had a Vet that would come to my place to fix them when I had caught a few – then I’d put them back out in the compound when they’d healed. Saved kittens when their mom couldn’t feed them. It was interesting…
It’s painful when they go – especially if you’ve had it a long time.
Prayers for your family…
Here is a video from when some kittens I rescued in Saudi 1st came out of the spare bedroom where I’d let them acclimate for a couple of weeks.
This just gave me an idea for a non-political page for the Get Involved site… Millions of people keeping in mind that we can make a difference in small ways if all of us try it would be great to see… It’s easy to focus on the problems….and nothing more…
My condolences on your loss. I’m writing this with my Schoxie lying on my leg, sleeping comfortably. Our pets are more than pets, they are an important part of our lives and we love each other. Non animal lovers sometimes, have a hard time understanding what these four legged creatures do to our hearts and day to day lives.
Such a love is so difficult to put into words. Your beautifully written tribute to Rado Thomas gave justice. Rest In Peace, brave, beautiful boy!
You just know this cat, Rado Thomas, has counciled our Sundance on world matters. May he rest in peace with the weight relieved from his big shoulders.
There is no such thing as “just a cat” (or “just a dog”).
Bless that boy, Sundance, and bless your family for taking him in. He gave as much as he got, for sure.
I’ve been blessed in my life to have had parents who allowed me to have pets at an early age.
One is curled up next to me right now. The story of how I got her at approx. 7 weeks old is an amazing one, but suffice it to say, there isn’t a single dog or cat I’ve had in my life that hasn’t
given me great love, comfort, and joy.
I’d like to write more, but this topic is a really hard one. Every loss just piles up.
Bless your family.
Thank you for the pictures of your boy. May the good memories always be with you.
Very sorry for your loss; thank you for sharing this treasure with us of having Rado Thomas adopt your family and home.
Oh my,Sundance. What can I say as an animal lover, I too have walked this road. They come into our lives and leave much to quickly. I know some don’t believe but sorry, I have hope we see them again. They are pure love.❤
Goodnight, sweet Fluffball. Thank you for taking care of our friend.
xox
Our “animals” are always family members and all leave their indelible memories with us.
How sad it would be if we didn’t have them.
I’ve been retired over a decade – and our dogs have been my constant daily companions while my wife and children go to their respective jobs!!
My condolences Sundance and thank you for sharing your loss with us.
May you have further chances of assisting future strays in enjoying a loving home until they too, retire.
I am so sorry Sundance..My thoughts and prayers for solace are with you.
So sorry for your loss SD.
God bless Rado and your family.
Sorry for your loss Sundance. Thanks for sharing. I’m sure Rado will live in your memories. Some of our best cats has been those that show up at the door ‘cause they chose us.
I am so sorry for your loss 😞💙 I can’t send you flowers but I can send a donation in Rado Thomas’s name! Hitting the donation button in RTs memory. Thank you for sharing yourself with us all – we are blessed to be a part of your treehouse!
Losing a pet is a humper. That’s a beautiful cat sd. My deepest condolences.
Sorry for your loss, Sundance. He was a gorgeous cat.
Freely given by Creator Rado freely loved his ‘retirement’ family in his pensionable phase of life. Thus the Master’s command to love was honoured between the families of ‘animal’ & ‘human’ in the poetry of being true to the presence at the heart of all things
So very sorry
A most Handsome Spectacular cat;
& he was absolutely a MEMBER OF YOUR FAMILY!
I send my most heartfelt condolences because you’ve lost a LOVED one,
who gave you and your family unconditional LOVE, as I’m sure he received in return.
I enjoyed reading about Rado and his personality, his checking to make sure all family members were doing what ‘he expected of them’
and then moved onto his day, of napping and possibly doing another round of welfare checks on his humans.
Cats are incredible creatures.
Rado had a very LOVED life and in return gave you his ALL!
GODSPEED Sundance to you & your family.
May you live with Warm, Joyful memories of this splendid ‘SilveRado Thomas’
Gone, BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN.
I wish you well; thank you for sharing.
KAF
I am very sorry for your loss. Pets hold such a special place in our hearts. 🙏🙏🙏