Sometimes it isn’t even safe.
I saw a post at Ace of Spades about women who love feminized men. They are calling them babygirl, and apparently both the young women who are attracted to these guys, and the men themselves consider it a compliment.
Here’s a quote I lifted from the Ace post, which I believe originates from his link to the NY Post.
A man who is “babygirl” comes across as sweet, charming, a bit bashful and seemingly in touch with their feminine side, ready to talk about their feelings or carry a purse to brunch at any point.
It’s exactly what women want and men want to become — the antithesis of toxic macho masculinity.
They are presenting it as “mental health.”
First of all, let me say without sarcasm, beware anything presented these days as mental health, and especially consider the sources.
I would like to make some comments which I hope will be shared to young women of dating age. I appeal to these young ladies to stop and consider, to think about what is important.
Not everyone you will date will be someone you want to consider for a long term commitment, or for marriage. That is as it should be. A wise young woman will spend some years learning what type of young man she will be most happy, content, and compatible with, and learning to judge people, especially men, who are trustworthy, loyal, and reliable, and those who are not.
But imagine yourself at the point of seeking a long term commitment leading to marriage. Let’s look only at the personal, most selfish aspects of the potential relationship first. Believe me, they have much wider implications.
No matter what kind of woman you are, your professions, education, race, religion, or politics, if you have the brains God gave a goose and some common sense and self awareness, you want a partner who isn’t high maintenance and doesn’t require undue effort and work.
In other words, you are looking for someone who will give as much as they take. And please note, this is a mutable, changeable, flexible give. There is no static 50/50 in a relationship. Some days it’s close, but other days, it’s all on one side, and then things swing back to a more centered relationship. Ah, and then there are, in committed, long term, stable relationships that build people, families, the world, the weeks, months, and years of one sidedness.
Those are the ups and downs of life, and not to be confused with selfishness or the shallowness of people who won’t commit.
For example, almost four years ago I had a serious fall which left me with a long term injury. Last year I had to have an ankle replacement because of it. These past years have been a trial for me, physically and mentally, and my husband bore a greater load because of it. I see that, appreciate it, and am so grateful for it. And I can honestly say, I’d bet he’s never even had that thought. We don’t have a running tally, a measuring system.
When our kids were young, it was necessary in the job he had and loved that he work and be away from home long, long hours. Sometimes there was travel. That put the burden of the day to day home life, kids, school, cooking, almost all of it, on me during the week.
A lot of men and women I know today measure that stuff rigidly, and boy, it’s important to them, but it was a way we had to live, especially since we needed the money so much. I saw it as a sacrifice on his part, not selfishness.
And so we went, year after year, back and forth, giving, taking, living, loving, sharing.
Back to your dating life. I hope that personal example illustrated my point. If you are just dating and having fun, it’s unlikely that you want to be the one who does all the work, compromising, and giving, even in a casual relationship. A babygirl, by the very definition of the word, needs to be pampered, cared for.
If you are looking for a partner for lifelong commitment, and allow me to say that if you look for a long term partner and don’t expect permanency and everything they have to give, stop there. You have some work to do on yourself. If you’re looking for real commitment, no one wants a loser, a user, a poser, a lightweight.
Let’s break this down into simple word pictures. Life is hard. Some days it throws the kitchen sink and the toilet at you. And then comes the bulldozer while you’re down. You’d better have a partner in those moments, those days, especially if you have kids. One who can stand his ground and push back hard at challenges.
One of the best feelings in the world is going to bed after an awful day and having the man you love, whose strengths see you through hard times, put his arms around you, settle you against his chest, make the world go away for a few precious hours in the shelter, yes, by golly, shelter, of his arms.
He’s stronger than you, bigger than you, harder than you. And that is reassuring, it’s a deep to the bone salve that tells you he won’t ever quit, give in, or whine when things get even harder. No, you won’t think these thoughts, more important, you will feel them.
And let me tell you this also, acknowledge it or not, you need those things. You were created to share those things with him, just as he was created to give them to you.
Throw them aside as toxic masculinity at your own peril.
Cute little harmless “babydoll” men are small fish, not big enough to be nourishing. Smile when you catch one, but throw it back in the pond because he isn’t a keeper. If you value men who overly share their feelings, who look so cute in their skinny jeans, man bun, and with their hollow chested androgynous figures and soft everything, including morals and character, then upon you will come misery, heartbreak, financial ruin quite possibly, and a lonely, lonely walk through a burden filled life with no one to share the load.
You’ll be expected to support him, emotionally always, and financially just about guaranteed during months and years when he’s finding himself, or really mentally ill. Or fired, addicted, cheating with who knows who or what, or just being his selfish, irresponsible babygirl self.
No man worthy of the title would give you a second shot if you came looking for whatever fluff sticks together such a missed the mark in every way male as this babydoll creature, nor should he.
Ladies, if you’re looking for merely pretty, for an entertaining toy, then go for it. Indulge yourself and go into it knowing the cost. Because really, you’re trying to combine two very different things. You need a best girlfriend, or several of them. That’s where you can make another type of deep emotional connection, share your fun times, your secrets, your hopes, and learn about life, guys, makeup, clothes, and yes, sex.
But if you have plans and dreams that involve marriage, babies, building a good, strong, happy, rock solid life, you’d better also look for a real man to build the foundation with. Anything less is your immaturity combined with imagination, fairy dust, and being so insecure that trooping along with the parade is more important to you than your own future.
Wanting a man secure in his own wonderful masculinity to share your life with does not make you less than him, weaker than him, though your own incredible, wonderful strengths are different than his. It doesn’t make you needy, selfish, immature, or, if you must, not a feminist or a modern woman.
It makes you a woman who knows her own mind and her own worth and demands her equal, and her due.
Amen!
One million “likes” !!
Media has been pushing feminized men since at least the 1970s. Women aren’t attracted to such men no matter how much the media tells them that they should be. Biology doesn’t change because of modern fads.
Ah, yes; but it does tell you quite a bit about the treachery of the media and of the Satanic Leftists that are behind it.
That’s very true _ remember the hippie / California flower “children “ 67-68 – counter culture reaction to Vietnam war/ with protests , the “ baby killer” shouters and spitters at the Airports -a poster boy physically was Charles Manson – how did that turn out …
Knowing what we now know about forever wars and the military industrial complex…
Isn’t it an odd irony that protesting that war, in retrospect was probably the right thing to do?
Not for their motives and spitting on soldiers was not protesting the war – rewriting history if you like -the irony is that many of those “protesters” are now running the Lawfare state …
And many of us are now fighting against them. We haven’t changed. They have.
Usurpers… became the leaders of that movement – they were assets from the begining; as they still are now, as you astutely pointed out…
{ https://www.winterwatch.net/2022/06/laurel-canyon-military-intelligence-family-backgrounds-of-the-iconic-60s-counterculture-rock-stars/ }
AND
Laurel Canyon by Dave McGowan
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same in smaller bites – absent forward & Preface (which can be read from the above)
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Great masses appear capable of succumbing to the latest depravities brought to us by the Intelligence Agencies, Hollywood, and Manhattan.
My male friend, good marriage, two biological young adult children, everyone is well educated.
My friend and his wife were married 25+ years, kids finally grown up and moved out. My friend is able to enjoy time with the spouse alone, first time in 25 years.
Along comes Covid + WFH and a slowdown in business. His wife binge-watches daytime talk TV. You know the hosts.
His wife filed for divorce within a year, and today they’re done, dissipating remaining assets and rebooting their lives in their early 60s, each with poor health to boot.
That is the power of culture and propaganda. Note that this mental illness is nearly entirely concentrated in wealthy and educated individuals and their communities. It does not appear to affect most working class people.
The USA communities I know this to be happening:
a. Highest income zip codes in every state
b. Highest educational attainment zip codes in every state
This is truth. We must identify who we are up against. These are they.
I’m pledging to you that the above two criteria are all you need to know to find the apex predators working against Freedom, Liberty and Justice where you live. Call them out by name. Call out their organizations they operate through. Find out how much Government money their employers secure and call them out as welfare queens.
For those of you who have become more anti-war, call them out for their military alliances and personal dependencies on USA violence throughout the world, as their source of personal income.
Most definitely call out the destructive NGOs.
Welfare Queens… Brilliantly astute observation, Itzbw.
Savage mockery of all manner of high-level “Welfare Queens” is an idea who’s time has definitely come – the way Trump nick-names his opposition.
Sunlight is the best disinfectant.
The wife will regret her decision, thee will be some 40-50 year old divorcee more than happy to have an older husband, while there are very few looking for w wife in their 60’s –just the brutal reality.
Another day, another ‘psyop’ .
Read any historic ‘home economics’ book…..easy to understand why women had to leave the home. Crazy place to find the POWER OF WOMEN. Governments, and kings, both, afraid of the power of women.
Who said the dystopian art & architecture, starting about 1970s, a ‘psyop’ too?
“In recounting the various influences which assisted the Americans to success in the War for Independence, such as the courage and integrity of the American generals, the generosity of the American people, the skill of Americans in marksmanship, their powers of endurance, their acclimatization, their confidence and faith, etc., we must never forget to add their independence in their own home of any outside help to give them every necessity of life. No farmer or his wife need fear any king when on every home farm was found food, drink, medicine, fuel, lighting, clothing, shelter. Home-made was an adjective that might be applied to nearly every article in the house.”
“NO FARMER OR HIS WIFE NEED FEAR ANY KING…..”, Teaching Home Economics, Cooley/Winchell/Spohr/Marshall .
Wow…I love that! Self-sufficient…
What’s hilarious to me is the reality that women aren’t actually attracted to these men. The moment a masculine man, with his back and shoulders straight, walk into the room, that’s where their eyes go. What women like about these men is they are an easy target and not in the least threatening. The “why can’t I find a good man” women out there are and will always be attracted to the “bad boys” who will thrill them but never bring anything that looks like contentment to their lives.
Well stated. Kudos for masculine men. The world needs more of them
The nuclear family is the bedrock of any civilization. One man, one woman, children. If one wants to destroy the civilization, they destroy the family.
Television, movies, and now Social media are used by the destroyers to push family-destroying ideas and lifestyles:
Pedophilia
Homosexuality
Feminization of men
Transexuality
The feminization of men began decades ago with the portayal of men on TV as stupid, shallow, manipulable shells.
There is nothing toxic about traditional masculinity.
‘The Soaps’ – anybody remember ‘the soaps’ (soap operas) that used to dominate daytime TeeVee?
Pepperridge Farms remembers them.
Don’t forget rampant free pornography.
Remember… “The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world” isn’t just a clever, well-intended poem – it’s God’s Truth recognized.
Usurpers…taking the proactive process of childbirth away from women – by twisting & defaming it, weaponizing it & making women afraid/terrified of it, as coercion to abdicate the power/empowerment of it to magical-thinking men aka”allopathic doctors”/hospitals/’medicine’/for-profit “experts” … and soon after that the raising of those children by unconnected outsiders/daycare… is the deepest wounding to women’s feminine strength & parental fortitude, and by extension of the nuclear family, that there ever has been.
By weaponizing women’s natural, inherent fear of their children’s demise/loss, and by demeaning & coercing women to believe that birthing, motherhood & homemaking is of lower value than “financial income & personal validation” from a paycheck/commercial job”, the usurpers have usurped the power/empowerment giving birth, raising children, & making a home life it all contains.
Sigmund Freud (Edward “Propaganda” Bernays’ uncle) called it “penis envy” in his treatise on ‘Paychoanalysis’; which was actually the projection & satanic inversion of Womb Envy.
The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world – so the manipulators usurped the position & the power it gives.
“…the deepest wounding to women’s feminine strength & parental fortitude, and by extension of the nuclear family…”
Yes. Men and women have roles which work. In a family those roles cross over at different places for different families. And that is fine and is up to the couple to figure those out and make it work.
But the traditional roles have worked for thousands of years, for a reason. Women and men naturally bring different and yet equally essential skills, attitudes and outlooks to the family.
This is a feminist iteration of the “Soviet new man.” At root, Satanic attempting to change God’s design and (falsely promise) to build a utopia on earth.
As the Bible informs, it won’t work in the long run.
Girls have an innate desire for masculine men; perhaps it can be suppressed for a while, but not forever. Especially when times get tough. I recall in the 1980’s that “Cathy” cartoon had one where the character pined for a “Jethro Bodine” type. And recall how teenage girls were repeatedly going to see “Titanic” when the “bad boy” stole the heart of a character, and then sacrificed himself for her.
The folks I feel sorry for are boys in today’s culture. I at least was blessed to grow up with John Wayne movies, and “Wild, Wild West” and “Voyage to the Bottom of the Sea” and such on TV. And then there was Jonny Quest, my fave.
I feel your sorrow for today’s boys as well. I have four young grandsons, and every time they “rip and snort ” and run wild as bucks, I’m their loudest cheerleader!
So do I. As a retired HS teacher, I saw first hand how boys’ natural inclinations are now drugged out of them as ADHD. Let them be hyperactive, damn it!
Race Bannon WAS the Man!
I have always thought the “Sheriff Andy Taylor” character is an ideal model of masculinity, but than again, I always thought “Andy” should have abandoned everyone in Mayberry and ran off with Barbara Eden’s character when she guest starred.
Jeannie and Audra (The Big Valley) came along just as I was deciding that girls weren’t “icky” after all. 😉
girly man as the pre-woke Arnold used to say
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Amen and amen!
28 years today I have been married to the best man God could provide for me and our family!
Blessed beyond measure!
Congratulations!
Menagerie, May we copy and pass this along? It’s so valuable and so well considered and written! Thank you just for posting it!
Please do!
Perfect post , Menagerie, for this leap year date.
Sadly, I have one daughter who loves the “babygirl” type. He is EXACTLY as described here. He even had the nerve to tell me, when I showed him the pantry so he could make something to eat, that it wasn’t PREPARED. I told him to get out of my house. Unfortunately, two babies came along quite close together, before my daughter figured out he wasn’t husband and father material, nor planning on ever being so. Now I am helping to raise two difficult toddlers when I should be enjoying my empty nest. Girls, your decisions hurt more than just you.
So very sorry for the poor choices others made.
The toddlers are not at fault and deserve a loving home; you are doing the Lord’s work and everyone involved deserves support and recognition.
Amen! If it weren’t for “poor choices” of one kind or another, I wouldn’t have a family past or present. Those “poor choices” are blessings with purpose, it’s just hard to see it sometimes when we’re living through it.
sad story. your daughter didn’t honor herself. i have a neice with four kids from three men but just one marriage. do the math. the reality is that women chose who they bed and men chose who they wed.
Reading that made me want to stand up and cheer. So very sorry over the rest, it’s very shameful how it came down on you anyway.
At least those difficult toddlers have you around to (at least try to) impart some old-fashioned discipline and good sense.
May God bless you and your efforts with the little ones. I understand your difficulty well and will say a prayer for you! My very young adopted child is a bright light in my life when I too might otherwise be empty nest.
Ladies, beware of a “man” who would rather hang out with you and your girlfriends discussing fashion and interior design than hang out with other men talking hunting and fishing.
gotta share that booger. great post.
WTB: Friends that like hunting and fishing. lol
I’d rather talk about fashion and interior design than hunting and fishing.
I’d rather talk about motorcycles and cars than fashion.
I’d rather talk about architecture than interior design.
Everything is relative I suppose.
Such a tough week at work….can’t wait to hang with my besties and get my hair and nails done, sip some white wine with them this weekend !!
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Menagerie
LOL !
I’ll be fifty seven next month. Your words are the gospel of womanhood. I often think of what my life could have been if I would have picked a man with character and Alpha strength.
Not to be personal, but what did you end up settling (is it okay to say that) for Lee Ann??
you were sold the lies of feminism. only you know who those women were in your life that did so.
BRAVO, Menagerie!!!! BRAVO, INDEED!!!
The jokes just write themselves.
All true!
Dating was brutal for dads, the process of separating wheat from chaff was excruciating for all involved.
So well said. I was heartened by the responses to the “babygirl” story, though. If I can find the article, I’ll post it.
That one paragraph – ‘One of the Best feelings in the world . . .” – says it all.
brought tears to this widow’s eyes. that was my Man to a T. Embrace those moments, they carry our heart through all kinds of hell, even when he is gone on to his true home.
Wonderful post.
Me too. I miss mine so much.
All is not lost!
https://notthebee.com/article/the-comments-from-women-on-this-hot-take-are-priceless-
and the next one is good too – ” My gosh. The West makes Sodom and Gomorrah look like Mayberry ” ~ ABStuckey
{ https://notthebee.com/article/guys-i-think-the-slippery-slope-just-turned-to-ice } – “
They even have a catalog for these soy boys at Lands End and LL Bean.
Both of these businesses have lost me as a customer…long ago….here is a triggered thought though…
“Skinny jeans” for ladies came out a while back…so I wonder if there was not a longer term plan to push it as a women’s fashion with the intent of attracting the ‘babygirl’ soy boys?
I really find skinny jeans horrible. Especially the ones that stop at the ankle. Talk about purposely making your legs look short and squatty. I like to wear SOCKS with my shoes which does not work with skinny pants.
For the past 7 years (at least) you cannot find a woman’s suit that has pants that look like trousers. They are all skinny pants which means that I am supposed to wear them in stiletto high heels. I do not understand how I earn respect wearing stilettos in a business environment. The other choice is to wear oxfords and the sockless look. Yuck.
On a man, even if he is in fine form, I do not want to see him in skinny pants because it reveals more than I should see. It subtle-y forces me to look at men the wrong way and I do not want to be that kind of woman. I would rather see looser fitting clothing on everyone. Modesty is a nic look.
Our culture has taught most people to flaunt what they have be it good or bad.
Exactly the opposite, most likely. By comparison, I’ve worked with a few nice ladies who occasionally or often wore clothing that was maybe a little too revealing for work. But that was nothing at all compared to wearing 3-4″ spikes. Just sayin’… like you did at the end. Our culture teaches people to just throw it out there and see what happens.
Look on YOOX for Italian trousers. They still know how to make ‘em.
They have lost me as a customer as well….pushing biracial everything and effeminate men –sickening. One recent catalog from “Marine Layer” featured a subsaharan African Male and blonde White woman together for the entire catalog. Ugh.
It seems as though in advertising USA that 95% of mixed race couples are Black men with White women. That’s OK by me because the Black women abandoned by the Black men are making my dating pool that much larger. I won’t be happy until Candace Owens begs me to take her back which might be a long time seeing how I haven’t met her yet.
You’ve earned a giggle from me with that one!
Wow. I can’t imagine any woman being attracted to a “babygirl” quasi man. It boggles the mind. Thank you for your post. I don’t know anyone I could send it to. It upsets me that our culture has attacked men to the core. God made them strong like a roaring lion when their family is threatened. I want that lion to get in between me and my family. I don’t want an emotional, weak, narcissistic, baby!
Maybe when women asserted themselves in the workforce and became equal providers for the family they inadvertently emasculated their men? Here is my backstory: My mother was left to raise three children with virtually no help from our absentee father(s).
My takeaway from my upbringing was that husbands and dads are often unreliable and I may have to go it alone someday. I didn’t want to be left stranded like my mother, so I became self-reliant at a very young age. I always had a bank account.
Fortunately, I was born with brains and beauty, so I had no trouble attracting the men I desired. I wanted a provider, but not one so career-oriented that he prioritized work over his family. For this reason, I passed on the wealthiest suitors.
I wanted a “masculine”guy who would provide for his family, make it home in time for supper, attend church services on Sundays and coach our children on the weekends. And that is exactly who I found.
My blue-eyed, blond Adonis lost his hair at a young age and my hips got quite a bit rounder after birthing babies, but our love endures. Our children are now happy, well-adjusted adults.
These “baby girls” sound like the closeted gay teenagers who became our friends and confidantes back in high school. Kid stuff. The boys we dated, however, didn’t relate to us in the same way (thank God!) It was sometime later that we realized our HS “buddies” were actually gay.
Not the real men, just so you know. We began to be “confused” as to how to act around women for sure, but OTOH when we held a door open we were pleased to find that many women would still show appreciation. It was hard at the beginning of it all, but after just a few encouragements we knew we were in the right and it was worth the risk of an occasional “rebuke” for being “anti-feminist”.
Bravo regarding the rest of your story, should make any young man feel encouraged, emboldened even. Just like he should be.
Same reaction here.
As a man I can attest that just being in the same room with any “man” wearing skinny-pants would make my skin crawl. And I’m 100% sure I speak for a whole lot of other MEN who are nothing but happy over how God made them. Straight up.
Yesterday’s eunuchs are today’s babygirls?
I printed this out and intend on giving it to my granddaughters.
And, also, my grandsons. Because it applies to them also.
Who wants a baby girl for a girlfriend or wife?
men don’t chose who they bed…that’s called rape. women chose who they bed and men chose who they wed and marriages are dropping like a rock in water, along with birthrates, testosterone in men and the results aren’t pretty. the question is…is feminism destroying women or men or both?
Why buy the cow when the milk is free…way old saying…
Men give love for sex, women give sex for love. Probably as old.
I recently was talking to a friend who’s son is getting married this year to a Catholic girl. She was left at the alter once before so was very careful about finding someone that she could spend her life with. They are going through pre-Canan classes in the Catholic Church. There were 28 other people going through the same class with them. All is not lost! There is hope out there that young folks want to find a suitable mate, make sure of their choice, and plan to stay together for the long run (and stay faithful to God and spouse).
I too get very discouraged when I see what is happening to society now. But my Lenten focus this year is to try to be more optimistic. There is hope for the next generation.
So wise you are. this is exactly what I tried to instill in my daughter.
Unfortunately, most wisdom gained thru pain is lost on youth.
They have not experienced the pain, so they cannot understand your wisdom. Combine that with rebelliousness for the sake of rebelliousness and your words can just make things worse.
Historically, some have observed that brains do not fully mature until age 26………..as past this age true discussions of serious issues seems, well, tolerable at minimum.
If only humans had evolved the ability to pass on wisdom gained in life thru their genetics….. alas…….
I see them everywhere. Man buns, colored hair, glossy nails, metro jeans, handbag. Mental illness.
Yuck. I questioned the man buns but forgot about the painted nails and the hair. They just look silly.
If your not swinging a Samurai sword. Loss the man bun.
that’s loose. not enough coffee.
or maybe even ‘lose’ – smiles!
Wonderful. Lots to reflect on. This is like a Great Aunt’s wisdom.
Mom had 11 Aunts and Uncles on her side. What a family, they grew and dispersed from homesteading on the Nebraska plains somewhere after the Civil War.
There is zero cohesion today. The men are various shades of non-masculine, a few employed in soft jobs for the government as a lifetime career, and society took care of the rest.
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Maybe a comma or edit for clarification? Thank you again.
Calloused hands ! Strong-willed. No ponytail. Tougher than dirt!! Real men!
Ask to borrow his pocket knife.
That’s a tell for me.
Real men carry a pocket knife. So do hillbilly women like me and my gal friends!
I have one in my purse.
Retired Magistrate here: I can’t tell you how many couples I divorced over the years where the “man” was a “pretty boy” and the first time his wife got sick, he wanted to bail. I would then give a lecture on how marriage isn’t like it is in the movies. One of you, or both of you, will wake up with bad hair, bad breath, be sick, lose a job, gain weight, etc, etc.
Typically it would fall on deaf ears. if the grounds were divorce were there, and they usually were, I would grant the divorce.
Thirty five years ago, I was fortunate to marry a man who is compassionate, understanding, hard working, can fix things and most importantly has stuck by me through 35 years of one health issue after another and still tells me I am the love of his life. We have both lost jobs, sometimes at the same time, had financial difficulties due to the job loss, had family members die and go through all the other issues that life brings; we have gone through them together as a team.
Now my husband has health issues also, so we take care of each other and are thankful that we are in this adventure called life, together.
I am so blessed to have my wonderful husband.
Retired Magistrate here: Sorry, really tired this morning. Should be “If the grounds for divorce were there”.
Don’t sweat the small stuff (says this self-annoying perfectionist). Your comment was an effortless read.
I used to work around magistrates (IT for law enforcement and several “attached-at-the-hip” offices) and I also knew one magistrate personally for a good while. So I have some insights (and lots of respect for) the vital work you did.
Don’t care raised my kids right they know men are men and women are women and God is great …so I’m covered
Brilliant.
Absolutely spot on and so very true. No, soy boys don’t make good husbands.
As men become feminine, and women masculine, when we reach stasis who runs the snake thru the sewer clean out?
I believe that the more men become feminine and women become masculine the phrase ‘who runs the snake through the sewer clean out’ takes on quite a different meaning!
Is this:
A) A man
B) A woman
C) It doesn’t know, so how are we supposed to know ??
D) Why did I look ?? I’m BLIIIIIIINNDDD !!!!
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Do you remember “Madcow Disease”? Now you know how the name came about.
I love this and as we all know, any women worth having a relationship with wants a masculine real man.
This just saves the best for us and eliminates the useless.
The most irritating voice is that of a feminized male. Listen to the male lawyer for Fani Willis. The only thing missing is a “Gimp” leather outfit and riding crop. Totally annoying and weak.
The girls that like these beta males: Closet Lesbians.
This is so perfectly expressed. Very well done, Managerie!
Other than the “date around” idea (which typically means “have sex around,” too, and is destructive in a number of ways), this is good advice. The sad truth is that many young women aren’t sure of themselves, so they go looking for assurance in someone (even a male) who is “like them.”
I rejected several wimps precisely because of their wimpiness.
I said exactly what I meant. I never advocate casual sex and sleeping around. When I was a young woman, we had dates. If I were a young woman today, I would expect dates.
I say what I mean, and mean what I say in my posts. If you wish to add something, then you have chosen to miss the point of the post.
Concur 100%. It is absolutely necessary to get some “experience” (ergo date) so we can glean what to look for AND learn to avoid. We also (hopefully) learn some important things about ourselves along the way.
Your post is meaningful and instructive in many ways.
I was most taken in by the love that you and your husband share.
Your post, to me, is a tribute to him.
May you be forever blessed.
Smokey Robinson sang about it in “Shop Around” . Don’t be sold on the very first one now. My Mama told me you better shop around.
There should be no mistaking what you meant.
I heard a strategy for finding a good man. Walk into a bar and ask, “Can someone help me with my flat tire?”
Now, I am not sure if you must purposely let the air out of one of your tires, but the strategy seems sound.
I LOVE it! You go!!!
No, no no! Send an old man into the bar to ask if someone will help HIM change a flat tire. The man who helps is the keeper not some alcohol soused loser who can get the energy together ONLY because he thinks he might get lucky with a desperate female.
Father’s…I think it starts with us: being an example of a “Man” to our daughters (and son’s). Give our daughters an example of what they should be looking for (and our sons what they should be). Loving, protective, sacrificial, treating your bride like how you want a man to treat your daughter(!), forgiving, and on your knees before the Lord every day, searching His word for His direction on how to navigate life. Life is hard, and I hope and pray my daughters see a “Man”, not perfect, but strong and striving to lead our family in the path of our Lord’s will.
I’m not a “babydoll” full stop.
Menagerie on🔥🔥💯💯🥰
This goes just fine over covfefe this morning!
Both my kids will be reading this one- God Bless you ♥️
Some grandmotherly advice…
…for the young ladies, ideas to meditate upon…
…it takes about 20 dates to determine if you feel truly compatible with the individual and get to learn about them.
Some ‘men’ use love to get sex while women often use ‘sex’ to get ‘love’…Celibacy removes that dilemma.
Just because he is the boy next door, and you have known him all your life…and his family…be patient…sometimes things/people are not as they seem. I found out the hard way…
JMHO
Next article should be for good men and the ‘sociopathic’ narcissistic women out there who have ruined many a good man’s life.
Men certainly have no monopoly on high maintenance.
Amen! As a grandmother of SEVERAL young women from ages 21 to 35, and 2 daughters this particular fetish has not shown up in any of them! Thank God. Each one of the young grand daughters has a plan, career, job. Some are married, some have their own children. Some are single. Some have college degrees. The one who does not have 4 yr degree, frankly, is the most happy, with the most well rounded children, and a very good paying job. A couple have been divorced, remarried. All of them have healthy impressions of men. Not that they understand ALL the magic of men. None of them are “into” these pretty males. They live in Tucson, Madison, Idaho Falls, Bentonville, AR. Their professions involve major trucking company, international logistics company, traveling RN, managership, biology, animal sciences. Their men or boyfriends are men. Look like men. Polite, kind, and sometimes not so much fun. But they are men. I simply do not see much of these girl/men around this rural area, even though it is fast growing with outsiders.
For that I am so thankful. Thank you for such enlightenment.
Menagerie, very well put. It also works in the other direction for men. The cultural promotion of a “princess” is ruining it for men. My two young men find it difficult. Culturally perpetuated “girls”. Too many “takers”. My bride (God rest her soul), is what my boys seek. A WOMAN: Strong, compassionate, caring, funny, serious, doing yard work or sitting on the couch in her fuzzy socks.
The real culture of our humanity has been broken, torn asunder and defaced by those seeking a utopia. A false hope. Life is hard. Growing a family is hard. But in those hard times are also the most joyful times. Both men and women need to “grow a set”. Stand up strong and proud as God has made you and not as the current culture is trying to mold you.
Gotta go, get’n dusty in here thinking of my bride, gone seven years tomorrow…slowly steps off soapbox…
May God bless you, your boys, and your memories. Your bride sounds like a wonderful woman.
Not surprised at all about this. Pushed, like transgenderism, by the CCP’s TikTok perhaps?
Dr. Gad Saad on The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast
The Male Socila Justice Warrior’s Sneaky F*cker Strategy
https://share.snipd.com/chapter/fa295fad-f8d6-42bb-9be4-4e73300ada8a
Gad: You might remember in The Parasitic Mind (fantastic book! – W), although I remember, I think I first proposed this theory to you in our first conversation when you came up my show. Remember, I talked about male social justice warriors as sneaky f*ckers.
Peterson: Yeah, yeah. That’s an actual term, right?
Gad: Well, sneaky f*ckers is actually not a term that I came up with to be profane. It’s actually a zoological term that captures in nature the idea of kleptogamy, where you’re trying to steal mating opportunities. For example, let’s say you have a type of fish where there are two phenotypes of a male. There’s the dominant physically imposing male. Then there’s a whole bunch of other males that actually pretend to be females so that they can sneak by the dominant males and then have a surreptitious coupling opportunity with the females. That became known as the sneaky f*cker mating strategy. And in the parasitic mind, I argue that male social justice warriors are instantiating a form of sneaky f*cker strategy: “Look, I’m very sensitive. I hug trees. I cry when I watch Bridget Jone’s Diary. See, you don’t have anything to be afraid of. And then hopefully that can allow me to have access to some willing and available females.”
Peterson: Do you know their literature on orangutans? So you know, there’s two forms of male orangutan in any given eco, like what would you say, roughly tribal local ecology. So there’s one form of male develops. He’s like the quarterback orangutan. He gets so big he can’t even really be arboreal. He has the huge fat pads around his face that make him round, makes his face round. And he’s very physically powerful and the females come to him to mate. But then there are other male orangutans in the same area that for a long time anthropologists, primatologists thought were juveniles. But it turns out they’re not juveniles. They’re males who don’t undergo the complete transformation into the non-arboreal male. And they use exactly the mating strategy that you described.
Education in America: 6. The Perpetual Adolescent
March 1, ***1969***
https://fee.org/articles/education-in-america-6-the-perpetual-adolescent/
Excerpt:
The American child is famous throughout the world for having never confronted authority in his entire life. He typically is raised by parents who are permissive beyond belief, is educated in a school system in which the teacher is known to have no power to compel order, and is entertained by a television set whose programming and advertising constantly cater to the most childish of fads. Perhaps the poor parents of such children should not be held fully accountable. Not only are they contending against the spirit of the age in any attempt to assert discipline, but in late years parents have been informed by the child psychologist that attempts to impose standards of discipline on their children will interfere with proper “development.”
Not only are we bending every effort to make spoiled brats of our young people; we carefully prolong this anti-training period by keeping our children in school far longer than do most other societies. The nature of that schooling seems to aggravate further the whole situation, directly interfering with the transfer of ethical and cultural traditions from one generation to the next. The parents are told that the schools will do the job, and then the schools do nothing of the kind.
Fascinating Sneaky F-er strategy! Ladies BEWARE!! The Winston post should be widely shared among today’s young women.
Excellent observations, really well put. My son has 2 friends that are recently married, and while neither is a babydoll, both adhere 100 % to their wives every whim or utterance,they even put up with public verbal humiliation. I’m shocked by this, these are young people. I’ve talked with my son about this and was relieved and gratified when he told me he’d counseled both his buddies that they better get a grip fast or very soon they’re lives won’t be worth living. By the way ,my wife and I are going on 30 years of marriage and I thank God every day for it. ( Even the crazy sh!t).
My wife gave me one verbal dressing down in front of a friend because I accepted a recliner with a frayed power cord. After I politely saw my friend out while making apologies for her behavior, I settled that score. We’ve been together 25 years since the age of 18.
one only has to look at the women or girls I should say, that like these types. perfect for each other