Stop for a minute. Stop and breathe….
Stop and sit in peace… Just stop, and join together.
All around us is this great sense of foreboding ugh, and it’s not just connected to an election; it’s everything. Everything is weird, everything is not comfortable, everything is less joyful and requires an intensity of thought just to carry-on ordinary events.
Christmas, the day we celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, is a week away; and yet everything around us seems less focused on joy – and more focused on what joy we are missing. At the heart of that anxiety is this sense of foreboding. A sense of fear and worry; a sense of trepidation.

In our daily lives we encounter ordinary disconnects now. Masked faces are disconnecting our sense of interaction, our human connection. Unfortunately, and as a natural outcome of these challenges, we are accepting disconnect and creating a void inside ourselves. At the same time COVID is physically disconnecting people from their family. Many families will not gather this year to celebrate the joyous event of Christ’s birth. Many parents and grandparents will not see their adult children for the first time in years, perhaps ever.
Amid all of this flux and ugh, even simple tasks like decorating the Christmas tree somehow feels, senses, seems less joyful. Perhaps financial worry stems the joy in shopping for family and friends. Perhaps the shine within cheer is slightly dimmed because all around us is something we cannot quite describe, yet we feel it.
Perhaps tears flow at times and we struggle to understand what this unusual anxiety is all about. Then, we begin to struggle with the feeling of shame or guilt for being weak and allowing our humanity to pour out of our human-selves. Then, at the worst possible time in the year, our faith organizations are slow to understand the importance of fellowship and community amid an upheaval that takes our center from under our feet.
Regional leaders make the anxiety worse. As our grip on our familiar surroundings becomes more tenuous, we are faced with dictates and mandates that only exacerbate the issues. The media drumbeat an incessant noise that destabilizes us and yet we cannot quite put our finger on why the impact is worse now…. it is all ugh.
It is all just, ugh.
If you find the assembly of these words familiar to your current sense, first understand YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Second, understand there is nothing wrong with you. This blanket of anxiety is laying across our entire nation, and we are all sensing a various level of this ‘ugh’ with some familiarity. However, that said, it is important to know this is transitional. We will not be in this place long. This too shall pass.
How do we shake these destabilizing feelings and emotions?
How do we reconnect to the core-spirit we carry in our lives?
These are the questions we should use to leverage ourselves back to a center of peace and hope. These are the questions that empower us to recharge of our sense of purpose and life within the lives of others, including our community, family and friends.
♦ The first way we shake this ‘ugh’, is to give to others without reservation. Giving with purpose is the true spirit of human contact. The giving is not related to money or wealth; the giving is related to our human purpose. Perhaps we give a smile. Perhaps we give a kind word. Perhaps we give a compliment, or perhaps we just give time to another.
You could give a gift to another or perhaps send an email; or better yet write a letter to a dear friend or family member. Reach out and tell them they matter and express why their place in this life of yours is important. Remind them of your specific thankfulness, and connect to the purpose of why we endeavor in this thing we call life. The important thing is to give, and to do it without any other intent or purpose than to fill your own heart.
♦ Within the giving, remind yourself what this journey is all about and look around to recognize how fortunate we are to have this life. Choose to cherish the ultimate gift from a loving God who wants joy and hope to permeate our human sense.
Hope is the one necessary human element beyond all other facets of life. Give the gift of hope and light to those you love by first reminding yourself of the gift that a loving God has given us all. It is too easy in our human sense to forget the biggest gift we have been granted, the gift of life. The ability to live and choose how we engage in the lives of others.
Remind yourself of the kind of purposeful HOPE that would leave a throne to be born into a manger as a baby only to grow into a Man willing to lay down His everything for the wretchedness of humanity.
No politics or false sense of security can overwhelm the message of HOPE that a loving God has provided. No effort of man or human disposition can surmount the greatest love of all. The message of Christ’s birth is bigger and greater than any legislative battle. “No power of hell, nor scheme of man” can come close to the purpose of God’s intent and love for you as a unique person qualified to receive that love.
Wrap yourself in the blanket of that unconditional love. Stop what you are doing.
Pause in the peace of this moment… set down your troubles, LISTEN and FEEL.
“Long lay the world in sin and error pining, til He appeared and the souls felt its worth. A thrill of HOPE; the weary world rejoices, for yonder breaks a new and glorious morn…”
Let the tears flow, and with them release the foreboding. Engage in the next moment with a loving purpose filled with the HOPE that He provides. Fall forward to the centered purpose of your life, a very special life, and reflect on the gift we are too quick to diminish.
“Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth; for the first heaven and the first earth passed away, and there is no longer any sea. And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, made ready as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne, saying, “Behold, the tabernacle of God is among men, and He will dwell among them, and they shall be His people, and God Himself will be among them, and He will wipe away every tear from their eyes; and there will no longer be any death; there will no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain; the first things have passed away.” And He who sits on the throne said, “Behold, I am making all things new.” And He said, “Write, for these words are faithful and true.” Then He said to me, “It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. I will give to the one who thirsts from the spring of the water of life without cost.”
Revelation 21:1-6
Abiding love to all.
Steadfast,
~ Sundance

Beautiful.
Thank you Sundance, as Children we were never involved in a church.
The rise of PDJT and your terrific site have encouraged me to pick up a bible, and start reading it.
Thank you and your posters..no mater what, I am better for this experience.
I just read about Tommy T in Alabama. He may be in on the start of a new chapter in politics.
God bless PDJT
Seriously beautiful and uplifting. Thank you and Peace.
Just what I needed. Thank you ?
Be still and know that I am God. Exalted among the heathen, exalted on all the earth.
I needed that. Thank you. God Bless Us.
Thank you very much. I needed that. Wishing you and yours all the best this season.
All glory to god. All things are possible with god.
Thank you. This was a very much needed read.
courage is just fear hanging around a minute longer. Merry Christmas to the treepers
Romans 5:1 ¶ Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ:
2 By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.
3 And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience;
4 And patience, experience; and experience, hope:
5 And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.
1Thessalonians 4:13 ¶ But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope.
14 For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.
15 For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep.
16 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first:
17 Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord.
18 Wherefore comfort one another with these words.
What I’ve found is HUMOR and LAUGHTER is the light of the world. Laughter erodes fear, worry and tension. I recommend Impractical Jokers but honestly, anything that makes you laugh.
Jesus is in charge.
Let go, Go God. Know God, Know Peace. No God, NO Peace.
It is what it is and I choose God
Amen, bro. And thank you SD!
Love this, first time poster.
Good Lord, Sundance – thank you from the depth of my soul. God Bless
Merry Christmas.
Def brings me back to why the joyous season starts with acknowledging the beauty and hope!! Thankyou SD
Excellent post Sundance.
Reflecting on one’s inner self does not hurt and can be very revealing.
My only question is when wearing a face diaper how can one – “Perhaps we give a smile.” ?
Just kidding.
AMERICA FIRST – while we can.
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your understanding acknowledge Him in all your ways and He will make your paths straight
Thank you Sundance.
Thank you, Sundance for being our guide on this roller coaster ride we are currently on. God bless you and yours this holiday time. Has anyone heard from Grandma Cofefe? I hope and pray she is well.
When optimism fails HOPE prevails – it just does. PDJT will be President in 2021 at 12:01 on 1/20/2021
Really nice post. Kelly Clarkson does a nice job on this song-very moving.
I just finished a long family discussion tonight with my children – adult and teens – about this very thing. Our trust is not in President Trump, the Supreme Court, Congress, or anyone else. It is in Jesus. We know that we face uncertain times, but in reality what we previously saw as certain times was just an illusion. Nothing is certain but the Word of God. Everything in this world can and will be taken from us at some point. That which is eternal can not. May God richly bless you for doing His work in this world. Merry Christmas to all.
Refreshing.
Thank you Sundance.
Thank you for that, Sundance. Beautiful.
Amen and Amen.
Amen
Thank you Sundance and everyone behind the scene of this site that has become such a wonderful fountain of hope and community. God bless you and all the people, including the commenters, that make this such a special place.
Yours in Christ, Rosie
Found in the bin… 🙁
God Bless you Ad rem, Stella, Menagerie, and WeeWeed!!! And a special thank you to Sundance, amazing writing as always sir!
May you all enjoy peace and harmony this Christmas season and above all the love of family and friends!!
God Bless you, Sundance- and those you love, and everyone here.
Thanks Sundance, the Truth that matters most puts everything in perfect perspective…we are blessed.
“And when you feel afraid, love one another
When you’ve lost your way, love one another
When you’re all alone, love one another
When you’re far from home, love one another
When you’re down and out, love one another
All your hope’s run out, love one another
When you need a friend, love one another
When you’re near the end, love one another
We got to love one another”
“Love Is The Answer,” England Dan & John Ford Coley.
A favorite from the past. Thanks for the memories, Kenneth!
“Everyone needed at least the illusion of hope to survive.” — Scott Fitzgerald in a letter to one of his wife’s doctors.
Sundance, this post is a most excellent gift, thank you. Wishing you and yours and Treepers on all branches a Merry Christmas. ❤️??
Found in the bin…. 🙁
Thank you, Sundance. I needed this.
Thank you so much for this inspirational Advent reflection, Sundance!
It’s the season of giving indeed, and you’ve given us quite a gift just now.
Jesus is the Reason for the Season …
May He bless us all this Christmas.
Thank you Sundance. We pray, we trust, and find peace in our all powerful sovereign and loving God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. If it ends up being God’s will that we are stuck with Biden (in other words, we received justice instead of mercy), we who are Christians know that our God will bless us with his limitless grace. P.S. As for me, I am really going to try to not question God’s ultimate will in this matter. I don’t think I can endure the potential that God would confront me as he did Job: “Who is this that darkens counsel by words without knowledge? Dress for action like a man, I will question you, and you make it known to me.” When I get down about things not going the way I think they should, I check myself and read Chapters 38-42 of Job. It puts me in my place and gives me peace.
Thank you so much, Sundance. That was very well said, and I needed to read that. By the way, “O Holy Night” is my absolute favorite Christmas song.
I listened and I cried. I cried tears of extreme gratitude because the Lord came to this world to seek and save a people for His pleasure.
I am so blessed in my life to know that our Lord and Savior is faithful and all His promises are sure and certain.
I want to wish Sundance and all the team of wonderful people behind the scenes a most blessed and wonderful Christmas.
Merry Christmas, Treepers!
Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas! May this be an unforgettable and wonderful Christmas!
Flyover, that was beautiful! Thank you for sharing.
Merry Christmas!
I’ll agree wholeheartedly that we’re living in BIZARRO WORLD.
Just a few days ago, I’m alone in the mailroom, UNMASKED, while doing my normal sweeping and cleaning task at the senior housing complex where I’m the maintenance dude.
Suddenly, one of the tenants, an old gal, MASKED, burst into the room, see’s I’m UNMASKED, and screeches out with what seems to be genuine sincerity,
“You don’t love us! You’re showing us you don’t love us!”
It took all my fortitude to restrain myself from responding with,
“Wow, it’s taken you all these months to to finally get that???”
I truly care about these old folks but, I have to admit that my response time may modestly increase the next time she needs her toilet unclogged.
Mikey don’t tolerate these masked marauders very well…
UGH !!!
The Joy of the Lord is our Strength.
Rejoice and again I say Rejoice.
In everything give thanks for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you
Thank you Sundance. Beautiful and much needed.
God Bless you.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for addressing this. It makes me less alone.
The outcome of this election has consumed me in so many ways that sometimes it’s hard to focus on what I need to be doing in the present moment.
Dear Sundance, you are such a light that the world needs at this time.
“Behold, I am coming soon, bringing my recompense with me, to repay each one for what he has done” Rev 22.12
Thank you, Sundance, this is why we love you and love the Conservative Treehouse. Your words touched all of us who share those often unspoken fears, but who also share that glorious hope. Sometimes circumstances tilt our fears up and our hopes down. We all need to be reminded of our blessed hope in Christ Jesus. A fellow pilgrim.
Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future. ~ROBERT H. SCHULLER
Thank you.
Good insight from Ephesians 4:20-32 concerning one’s walk and conduct:
But you have not learned Christ this way, if indeed you have heard Him and have been taught in Him just as the truth is in Jesus. You are to have put off, concerning the former way of life, the old man, which is being corrupted according to its desires of deceit, and to be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and to have put on the new man, having been created according to God in righteousness and holiness of truth.
Therefore having put off falsehood, let each one speak truth with his neighbor, because we are members of one another. “Be angry, and yet do not sin.” Let not the sun set upon your anger, neither give opportunity to the devil.
The one stealing, let him steal no longer, but rather let him toil, working with the own hands what is good, so that he may have something to impart to the one having need.
Do not let any unwholesome word go forth out of your mouth, but only good, for edification of the need, so that it may give grace to those hearing.
And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, in whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.
Let all bitterness, and rage, and anger, and clamor, and slander, be removed from you, along with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, as also in Christ God forgave you.
What a beautiful rendition of O’ Holy Night.
Thank You Sundance and MERRY CHRISTMAS.
Peace and Love to all.
at the turn of the tide…..:)
The Savior was born in order to be the ultimate sacrifice for all to accept him as their personal savior, and to confess your sins unto him as he offers his forgiveness. He was beaten beyond our comprehension, and carried that heavy wooden cross on his shoulder with everyone’s name on his mind, so we could have everlasting life with him in heaven.
He loves us all that much, and would like us to show the same love to those we despise. I struggle with that daily. His shoulders are long and wide for everyone to lean on for comfort in times of despair. Thank you Jesus for being there for me throughout the years, even when I did not deserve it.
Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give
us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us, and lead us
not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
For thine is the kingdom and the power, and the glory, forever and ever.
In Jesus name I pray, AMEN