It’s that party time of the year. Although I married into a family of really good cooks in the grand old Southern tradition, and we really can put together an out of this world meal, I love party foods too. When our kids were young we used to save up so that we could order a family Christmas present of treats from Swiss Colony. Back then they had many luscious offerings, and although they were kind of pricey for us, they were sizable enough to feed a family of five generously. Now they seem to offer tiny quantities of not so appealing stuff, so we make all our own things, or put together our own charcuterie selections.
Anyhow, my husband and I still have what I consider to be party food or snacks instead of supper a couple of times during December. I like to make cheese balls and serve with summer sausage, dips, crackers, maybe meatballs, etc. Right now we have some of the best venison smoked sausage I’ve ever had.
Here is a recipe for venison meatballs. Of course you can use beef, but it isn’t nearly as good. I never have recipes, except for breads or cakes, so just have fun with this.
Saute an onion and several large cloves of garlic, finely chopped, in olive oil or butter until onions begin to be translucent. Add a tablespoon or two of red wine vinegar, salt pepper, and seasonings you like to taste. I use three onion seasoning by Epicure.
Mix a pound and a half of ground venison with a half pound ground pork, an egg, bread crumbs or almond meal, and the onion mixture. Shape into small balls and bake at 375 until brown, which should take around 25 minutes, but check on them to be sure. Every oven is different. Drain and serve with your favorite sauce.
Here’s the link to a recipe for mini corn muffins with a cheddar filling. Being a Southern gal, I absolutely refuse to put sugar in my cornbread, so I’ll be leaving that ingredient out, but that’s an argument for another day.
I would especially appreciate any crab dip or crab cake recipes, as well as easy to make recipes. What are your favorites cheeses and dips? And since I can’t find the small rye bread loaves we used to serve anymore, does anyone have a recipe similar? I used to find these little loaves of rye bread in the deli section of stores, especially at holiday time. They were bigger than crackers, but not by much, maybe about 2-3” square. Also, I’d love a tried and true recipe for lamb pops, an appetizer my favorite Greek restaurant serves.
Sometime later this week we will have our regular Christmas recipe post, and since I have grandkids coming over Friday night for cookie making, I might do a post on treats to make with kids. I really have put a lot of time into finding easy to make cookies and candies for the little ones to be hands on with. Several years ago I started making gingerbread men with my youngest grandson, but when it expanded to the whole crew, and other treats came into play, it became a huge mess and a lot of trouble. So now I limit what we make to easy stuff that hopefully won’t take hours to clean up after.
I hope your holiday season is filled with joy. Happy Advent.
Mom’s Crab Dip (a Christmas tradition)
Layer 1:
12 oz softened cream cheese
2 T worcestershire sauce
2 T lemon juice
1 small onion grated fine
2 T mayo
Dash garlic salt
Layer 2:
half bottle Heinz chili sauce
Layer 3:
6-7 oz crabmeat (canned is fine)
Layer 4:
generous layer dried parsley
Layer all ingredients, cover and refrigerate overnight. Serve with crackers.
This is the one I make too. We all love it.
I’m always happy to go hunting for food goodies for Christmas, but not this year. The prices are so high I opted to join Wild Fork for free, and get free delivery. I have already started munching through some of the meats (I am KETO) and the taste and prices are amazing, especially if you like beef! Delivery is so quick, no abuse at the check out, and these tired old legs appreciate that! My steaks and Lobster are ready for Christmas dinner!
I’ve also used Wild Ford recently and was pleasantly surprised.
It was great to buy butcher shop thick pork chops again, and get them delivered! My supermarket offerings are thin and dry little things, and the pork belly from Wild Fork is delicious. Cube it and roast at high heat. Caramelized, meaty, candy!
I make English toffee.. It’s really easier than you think.. I use the Land o lakes recipe you can find on the internet… The key is to get it to the right hardness stage
Rye recipes – Have used the first recipe frequently and it’s great, hoping to give the second a go before Xmas. It looks amazing.
https://www.simplyrecipes.com/recipes/georges_light_rye_bread/
https://www.kingarthurbaking.com/recipes/westphalian-rye-bread-recipe
My mom used to make this really easy dip.
A block of cream cheese covered with your favorite crab or shrimp or that fake crab, and then pour your favorite cocktail sauce all around the edges with a little on top and serve with crackers. So easy, but is better as cream cheese softens.
Another easy and tasty spread is a block or two of cream cheese w/ chives, softened. Add a couple of “squirts” of anchovy paste. Mix well and refrigerate for a couple of hours in a crock. Spread on wheat thins. Everyone likes this with cocktails, but can’t figure out the secret ingredient!
Supper – nice to hear. Sunday dinner was around noon time.
Maybe, Southern vernacular – before the invasion began.
Welcome to Florida.
That’s why my lunch box is actually a dinner bucket. 😉
Super easy but very elegant looking and always a hit at my house…(and can done up ahead of time)
Crab Melt-Aways
12 English muffins, sliced in half and then into quarters – arrange on cookie sheet
1/2 lb crabmeat (Use fresh Dungeness if you can get it)
1/2 lb butter, softened
1 jar Old English sharp Cheddar cheese
2 Tbsp Mayonnaise
1/2 tsp seasoned salt
Combine ingredients and spread onto English muffin quarters. Freeze for at least 30 minutes. Remove from freezer and place under broiler until bubbly and hot. Serve immediately – Enjoy!
This is an easy, delicious dish if you don’t mind using pre-made bread rolls. This recipe calls for Hawaiian Sweet Rolls and the 24-roll size package perfectly fits a 9 x13 casserole dish.
Baked Ham and Cheese Party Sandwiches
Ingredients
3/4 cup melted butter (1 1/2 sticks)
1 1/2 tablespoons spicy brown mustard
1 1/2 teaspoons Worcestershire sauce
1 1/2 tablespoons poppy seeds (opt.)
1 tablespoon dried minced onion
24 mini sandwich rolls
1 pound thinly sliced cooked deli ham ( I use Black Forest Ham)
1 pound thinly slice Swiss Cheese
Directions:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease bottom of 9 x 13 baking dish.
Lay rolls on a flat surface and slice with saw-tooth knife to separate tops and bottoms in a solid section each. Place entire bottom section into the prepared baking dish. Layer about half the ham (more or less as desired) onto this section of the rolls. Arrange the Swiss cheese over the ham, and top with the desired amount of remaining ham slices. Place the top section of the rolls onto the ham/cheese layer.
Melt butter. Add mustard, Worcestershire sauce, minced onions and poppy seeds. Mix well and pour over top layer of rolls in baking dish, using pastry brush to spread evenly.
Bake in preheated oven until rolls are lightly browned and cheese is melted. (About 20 minutes.) Slice into individual rolls through the ham and cheese layers to serve.
Our whole family loves these!
One of my all time favorites. I remember the first time I had these at a party, we could not stop eating them. Yours is the real deal recipe.
This is another dip we like. The ingredients sound like a strange combination, but my family always requests it for get togethers. I usually make 2 batches.
Bar of cream cheese
Blackberry jam
Cashews- chopped
Green onions- thinly sliced
(sorry I don’t have exact measurements- I just eyeball it lol)
Spread cream cheese on a plate. Spread jam over cream cheese. Sprinkle cashews next. Top with green onion. Serve with crackers.
I wish I could eat like I used to, lol.
Me, too! All I want for Christmas is the metabolism I had when I was in my 20s/30s! LOL!
(Okay, maybe that’s not ALL that I want but it’s definitely high up on my list!)
I had to give up wheat about 5 years ago. It changes your relationship with food and food cravings dramatically.
My wife is a fantastic old southern cook. Neither she or I (a native Texan) will touch cornbread with sugar in it.
My wife used to make cheese balls, beef logs, rum balls, and various other such goodies every year. Now that she is 80 and in poor health, she only occasionally fixes any treats and they are usually simpler things since she is unable to stand for any length of time. We are grateful for what we do have and I will occasionally fix something using one of her recipes. A lot of her basic cooking doesn’t use a recipe so I have had to try to develop one by watching her fix things. This is usually instigated by some of her offspring wanting a recipe for the dish. Her daughter was too busy to learn cooking when she was still at home. Now 30 years later she misses mama’s home cooking and it trying to learn long distance.
Wow, all this time I thought it was the Southerners who put sugar in cornbread! I’m a northerner and am of the anti-sugar persuasion too!
My father was a Southerner and my husband from NJ. Oh the doubles I made some meals! Cornbread stuffing and bread stuffing, cornbread and corn CAKE (my father disparagingly called corn bread with sugar “corn cake.”).
My dad loved fried sun fish and perch, hubs wouldn’t deign eat a “sunny” but caught plenty and likes my hush puppies.
Some how our children, raised Up North, prefer cornbread instead of corn cakes much to my husband’s unhappiness and confusion. So I’m still making double dishes (happily bc I prefer crispy on the outside, cooked in a cast iron skillet, no sugar cornbread too.)
“A lot of her basic cooking doesn’t use a recipe so I have had to try to develop one by watching her fix things. This is usually instigated by some of her offspring wanting a recipe for the dish.”
I knew an old German lady (WWII allied bombing teen survivor) who would bring food to the bar every Friday for lunch, she was a really good cook, my favorite dish of hers was “fried spaghetti”. She refused to give out any of her recipes to anybody including her daughter.
Went to her house once for Easter as she fixes food & hides eggs for the kids, got to talk with her daughter for a while, she was told in no uncertain terms by her mother that she would never get any recipes as they are not written down and that her daughter had the chance to learn them while growing up, also refused to let her “look over her shoulder” while making anything.
I was never able to make a reasonable facsimile of her fried spaghetti, tried many times too. (she gave a me few hints and yes it is fried dry spaghetti to start it)
Good thing I paid attention to grandma when she was in the kitchen cooking, she didn’t have anything wrote down either…. I’m in the restaurant business now, and while I do have recipes wrote down not everything is “wrote down” for every recipe due employee borrowing / selling to competitors.
After first opening ,ten years ago, learned that the hard way that competitors magically “duplicated” some recipes. Now the ingredients are pre-combined to just drop with its major ingredients. (those competitors that did the duplicating are no longer in business)
Speaking of crab, we normally have King Crab on Christmas Eve. Not this year. Last year $19.99 lb. was a really nice treat for everyone. This year, $45.99 lb. has made it a really nice memory lol.
Ma Mia! 😲
omg! That’s quite a price hike! I used to live in Northern British Columbia, Canada, just south of Alaska. My Dad had a boat and we went crabbing a lot. Dungeness crab. Drop the pots, wait awhile, pull up the pots with crab and head home for the best feast.
Unfornately those days faded due to commercial fishing, mostly depleting the area. Still have the good memories tho!
I didn’t think of this when I posted earlier, but in the spirit of the season, “The Crab of Christmas Past”….
The Christmas Carol is one of my favorites.
Oh no!!!! It’s our Christmas Eve treat too! FJB.
We had that last year on our 50th wedding anniversary-January 2. I bought it at Costco at $26 lb but will not be having this year. It is $40 lb here. Scallops and Sea Base have had big increases too. Phillips fresh crab for the dip has also gone up. $37 lb.
I assume crab for Christmas is an eastern thing? Curious which items are regional and which are ethnic heritage.
Native Texan, half Norwegian (both grandmothers). I refuse to eat lutefisk, though that is a Nordic Christmas thing, at least in MN where my parents grew up. Norwegian christmas cookies are great.
Smoked brisket, now that’s always a treat for any holiday.
My wife does a carmelized bacon where she coats the bacon with brown sugar and bakes it. Amazing. The kids call it diabetes bacon.
Pork Candy yum.
Dungeness crab season starts Nov 1 in NorCal, so it is pretty popular during Thanksgiving and Christmas. The “experts” in Sacramento have delayed the commercial season, so only those of us lucky enough to have crab gear can get it.
I live on brisket whenever I’m in TX. Those Rudy’s BBQ joints are way too convenient :-). Tri-tip roasts are more common in the meat cooler here in CA so I usually smoke those at home, instead of a brisket and it’s good enough.
Someone in another forum, many years posted about going to a boyfriend’s place in N MN for Christmas when she was younger. I diagnosed its location as he Red River Valley based on menu and sure enough, Red Lake Falls. I lived in that area for a year when I was younger and am told the best way to cook lutefisk was to triple wrap it in waxed paper, then wrap in tinfoil, put in the top rack of the dishwasher and run the cycle.
My family makes a clam dip served with plain potato chips.
1 block cream cheese
1 can minced clams drained
Juice from whole lemon
Dash of Worcester sauce
Mix with electric mixer
Some of the clam juice can be added back if too thick
https://www.food.com/recipe/hot-dungeness-crab-dip-152908
Dungeness crab and artichoke dip.
Out of this world
Sounds incredible! I have made an artichoke/crab dip using similar ingredients, except I use marinated artichokes, which cuts through the “fat” of the mayo and adds a little tang.
This recipe has its origins at a Washington State restaurant, Stanley and Seaforts.
Keep clam. 🙂
Yummy! Love the presentation! So creative!!
Sunday my wife is having some of her friends over for a kitchen day. They will be baking goodies, sipping wine, telling stories, laughing and having a good time. I will be out of the house and hopefully the weather will not be so bad that I can’t get a good hike in or maybe some snowshoeing.
This is an easy Cold Crab Dip –
I came up with it back in 1989 while stationed at Ft. Campbell, Ky – Air Assault!
1 block of cream cheese
1/2 bottle of Tiger Sauce (https://tigersauce.com)
2 Packages of Crab Delights or real crab, whatever you like.
Mix Cream Cheese and Tiger Sauce with a blender until you reach a consistency you like.
You vary the amount of Tiger Sauce depending on how spicy you like your food.
Fold in chopped up crab delights or real crab, or keep blending it with the mixer.
Spin it how you like, everyone I’ve made this for loves it.
Chill until you’re ready to eat.
It is each family’s Christmas traditions that make the holiday special.
While our children were younger, each year we made Christmas cookies of various flavors, the same thing that happened when I was young. Now grow, our kids bring their husband/significant other and they are part of the cookie-making tradition. Our youngest’s fiance even asks when we are going to make cookies (they did not have these same types of traditions).
One of the doughs that we make contains no eggs and is delicious to eat before cooking. We wrap it in waxed paper prior to rolling it out for cut-out cookies.
One story is our oldest now lives out west and we live on the east coast. She took a large chunk (about 1-1/2 lbs) of dough with her to board a plane to go home. She gets to TSA and they go on “high alert” because the package looks like it could be plastic explosive. They pull her aside and take it out of her carry-on, with a bit more inquiry. They ask: “what is this…” with the laughing reply, cookie dough! They said we train for this and promptly test the dough to make sure it is not harmful (to anything other than possibly your waistline). Now she just places it on top of her carry-on to save time.
Merry Christmas everyone.
Thanks for the tips and links. 🙂
Love to see what other people like to snack on! Don’t forget the always amazing ROTEL dip with Velveeta Cheese. Sometimes I will replace the Rotel with a picante sauce. Either one makes Corn Chips worthwhile. In the olden days my dad’s brother in Louisiana would send us a supply of Rotel. Today it seems to be available everywhere.
Since I’m now in Western New York, a close second would be the Buffalo Chicken Dip. There are variations but here is the basic recipe from Franks® Red Hot website. Especially good IMO with veggies. Who knew that I would learn to enjoy blue cheese?!
INGREDIENTS2 cups shredded cooked chicken
1 package (8 ounces) cream cheese, softened
1/2 cup Frank’s RedHot® Original Cayenne Pepper Hot Sauce
1/2 cup ranch dressing
1/2 cup blue cheese crumbles
DIRECTIONS
Being a Southern woman, I completely agree with no sugar in the cornbread, or deviled eggs as my mother-in-law does.
A very simple dip that’s easy and popular in our family is Sausage Dip.
1 pound sausage, cooked and drained
2-8 ounce packages of cream cheese
1 can Rotel tomatoes
Blend together and bake at 350 for 30 minutes. Serve with Frito scoops or tortilla chips.
I haven’t thought about “Swiss Colony” in years! We too used to splurge during the holidays for some of their specialties, but haven’t done so for quite some time. Your beautiful table and story caused me to pause and reflect. I am so grateful for the blessings in my life. Merry Christmas to all Treepers.
I like the Swiss Colony catalog and always hope to get a gift from it but my sister and brother usually buy gifts out of Harry and David. That means fruit.
Lobster Stew here on Cape Cod. Stew=Chunks of Lobster
🥂
Great thread! We need this kind of happiness!
I plan to have sardines on toast, Jack cheese, and nuts with my wine.
If I make a dish it will be my imitation crab meat and pasta salad. Looks kind of like this:
When we were recovering from the effyou flu last summer, our daughter made us pasta salad that looked like that sans crab. Now when I see it, it means love. 🙂
Here is an actual picture of my imitation crab meat and pasta salad.
My old boss had a son who was an avid hunter and fisherman and a fantastic cook. He made venison balls every Christmas for our office party. The sauce he made was outstanding with venison.
One can of cranberry jellied and one bottle of Heinz chili sauce. Both into a pot and heat until smooth and bubbly.
One more tip- buy what items (excluding fresh produce) you need for Christmas celebrations this week. With the spotty shortages, it may be too late next week.
Our stores were very low on cream cheese, of all things, last week.
I totally understand about the 0% sugar cornbread.
A few fun and festive ideas to dress up your platters:
Form cheese balls into holiday ornaments by using various coatings like chopped nuts or parsley and veggie cutouts. Try rolling cheese ball mixture into small bite-size balls, roll in various coatings and insert stick pretzels for easy pickup.
You can also form cheese balls into a snowman or Christmas tree. If you don’t want to do a stand up version, flatten one side of the snowman and lay the flat side down on the platter. Tree can be simply made by forming a triangle on the platter. Decorate as desired.
An igloo cheese ball is easy and cute, use white grated cheese to coat it, then press lines into it with the blunt side of a butter knife. Add penguins — 2 black olives, one large or extra large, one medium, ball of cream cheese and one slice of carrot for each. For body, cut large olive in half vertically, press halves into cream cheese ball. Let cream cheese show between halves for body between olive wings. Cut wedge out of carrot slice. Place body on top of carrot slice, add medium olive sideways on top with open end facing out for head. Insert skewer from head through body and into carrot ‘feet’ to hold together. Cut wedge removed from carrot slice in half, insert 1 piece into opening of head for beak. Much easier than it sounds and there should be pics online.
For cheese trays radish mice are really cute. Use oval radishes with long roots (tails). Trim the green end down to a green nub for the nose. Cut a thin slice off the bottom so the mouse doesn’t roll, how you position the cut determines how the mouse sits. Cut two slits for ears, use small round slices cut from side of another radish and insert into slits for ears.
And if you have kids, add grinch skewers to your fruit tray. Fun for the kids to make too. Green grapes, get the oval ones. Trim a strawberry to a cone by cutting off the stem end, slice a banana into rounds and dip in lemon water to keep from browning. To assemble, thread grape, banana slice, strawberry and mini marshmallow onto skewer to form grinch head and Santa hat.
Cream cheese brownies with tawny port is a match made in heaven. Yum! I used the recipe in the Cook’s Illustrated Baking Book, and used only Guittard Akoma extra semi-sweet chocolate chips. Home-grown eggs add extra richness.
So many of these recipes have cream cheese in them…I can’t eat cheese or dairy of any kind, lactose intolerant..but I drool over these treats and feasts….I enjoy your recipes vicariously!
Old time easy peasy festive snack that looks pretty on a table.
1 block cream cheese
1 jar hot red pepper jelly
Spread jar of jelly over cream cheese and serve w/plain crackers like Carr’s.
My family loves that, and we would never have thought it would be good until someone else served it to us. We also like cream cheese with Tiger Sauce over it. This is so easy, and surprisingly good.
Artichoke Crap Dip, many tweaked versions out there, but it is the one I have always preferred.
1 large can artichoke hearts (15 oz).
1 cup of Hellmans mayo. (I reduce to 3/4 cup as personal preference)
1/2 cup grated parmesan cheese
1 8 oz bag of shredded mozzarella cheese
1/2 cup chopped green onion
1 clove garlic crushed
1 can lump crab meat
dash of black pepper
bread crumbs
Drain artichokes well, and mash. Mix all ingredients except bread crumbs. Put in a small casserole dish, top w/bread crumbs. Bake at 350* for 20 minutes or until heated thru, lightly brown on top. Serve warm w/crackers or baguette.
*Crumbled bacon can be added on top.
Found a Pillsbury recipe for cream cheese sugar cookies that looks very similar to what my Mom made 50 yrs ago. Picked up some non pariels and plan to take a walk down memory lane this week.
Maine Crabcakes
1 1/2 cups crabmeat
1 cup saltine cracker crumbs
3 eggs
1/2 teaspoon salt
Dash of pepper
2 teaspoons lemon juice
1/4 cup butter melted
2 teaspoons minced green onions
2 teaspoons finely chopped celery
Oil for frying
Separate eggs and lightly beat the yolks. Then in another bowl, lightly beat the whites. Mix egg yolks with crabmeat, cracker crumbs, salt and pepper. Add the lemon juice, butter, onion and celery. Mix well. Fold in the egg whites. Pat out crabcakes. Heat the oil in a skillet. Fry the crabcakes over medium high heat until deep golden brown and thoroughly done. Serve with drawn butter or your favorite sauce. Enjoy!
Tim’s Crabcakes:
Mix together 2 beaten eggs, 1/2 tsp mustard powder, 1 tsp worcestershire sauce, 1 tsp fresh lemon juice, 2 T mayo. Add 2 T chopped parsley, 1 lb crabmeat, 1/2 c breadcrumbs, and salt and pepper to taste. Mix gently. Each portion is about 1/3 c, makes about 6. Heat butter and olive oil and fry on both sides.
To all who shared, memories or recipes, I thank you, and especially all who shared your crab recipes. I don’t live near the coast, but I sure love crab! Also, good to know that so many people appreciate the excellence of no sugar cornbread!
I’m late to the party, but beautiful table decor, looks untouched. 😉 Not too fancy, festive, and fun(imo). I’m gonna cheat and borrow it. Shh.
I’ve always messed up venison, but blending sounds better, I do that with meatloaf.
Favorite cheese for Christmas…Burrata.
https://www.cheese.com/burrata/
https://www.belgioioso.com/Products/Burrata (pic with cream and curds inside exposed)
My old basic recipe for crab/salmon cakes was getting bland. A few years back I started using this one, adding or subtracting depending on what I have on hand. I’ve used this crab cake recipe with flaked and canned salmon, as well as tuna.
https://palatablepastime.com/2017/04/09/crab-cakes-tartar-sauce/
*waves to Christmas pumpkin*
Merry Christmas!
Thank, you, Menagerie!
My mom used to put together a pickle, or some call a relish tray at every big gathering of super rich foods. The vinegar and spices would blaze a trail through the palate to cleanse it for more grazing.
She always had the little pickled red beets, gherkins, dill pickles, pickled okra, some olives, it always looked pretty.