Happy New Year To All. I ask that you all join me in praying that we can all be UNITED in our fight against evil and that which is destroying our Great Country. Let us all be united.
What a wonderful way to start our new Prayer Thread GFC. And let us all be united in asking for God’s blessings and strength in the coming year. Thy will be done….
Very well put, GFC. As Paul begged us in 1 Corinthians 1:10, “I appeal to you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree and that there be no dissensions among you, but that you be UNITED in the same mind and the same judgment.” (RSV – emphasis mine) While we have differences, I pray that we may still, in a spirit of charity and forgiveness, remain close in our common love of Christ and each other, all this new year and beyond. And thank you, Ad rem, for setting up this 2nd generation prayer thread!
I am not sure about posting a song in the Prayer Request thread, but this is my prayer for all of us this year. Besides, I needed an excuse to post a Jim Reeves song. God bless you all, lovely people!
My surgery was a week ago today. My first post op appointment is today, so I am hoping to get some good news. The pain has been so much less than what I expected, and I think I am recovering well. Not being able to put weight on my foot makes it challenging to get around and do very much, but this also has been easier than I thought it would be. I want to thank all of you for your prayers, I know that you have all been a big part of how well things have gone and I sincerely thank you for that. I have a very long recovery ahead, and things are up in the air as far as how much improvement the surgery will make, so I ask your continued prayer for my healing. Please know that I pray daily for all Treepers, and I will continue to ask God for His blessing on you all. Thank you most sincerely.
Honey, let’s pray you can put all your weight on it, and do a cheeky hip-swivel and pivot, and get back to your fabulous runway modeling career on the catwalk (pout-step-step-step-hold-pout-swivel-pivot-step-step).
All kidding aside, prayers coming your way from ZurichMike.
Remember, you’ve already promised to dance the lead in the Treehouse’s production of Swan Lake, so you must continue to think positively… and be assured that our prayers are with you as always.
Without knowing exactly what you have going on (forgive me if I’m off base). I’ve been through foot injuries. No surgery but long recoveries. I never thought I’d get to wear my Ariats again. Patience is tough to conjure up but you can’t rush it. When it’s time you may need to go through a lot to get comfortable shoes. Zappos, Endless, Shoebuy (each with their free delivery and free returns become very handy). Don’t forget about quality over the counter insole replacements (SofSole, Sorbothane). Do your therapy. Have faith and persevere.
Thanks for the sources. I have tried Zappos, but none of the others. I really appreciate the advice, since comfortable shoes have become the most important part of my daily attire.
Hey, guys, it’s me again. Today is x-ray day and I really hope for good results. I ask your continued prayers that everything is healing well. Thank you.
The news was really good. Thank you all so much. I feel so happy right now. Thank you all. It will take a year to heal fully, but this first important milestone was good.
“I feel so happy right now.”………here’s praying that the next year flies by as quickly as the last one did here at the Tree. Now pour me a glass of your birthday Champagne!
Hey, save some champagne for me! Happy news, and on your birthday too! Just a few more weeks, and the Tree will celebrate our anniversary (Feb 1). We almost made it on Groundhog Day!
Glad to hear the good news! Physical pain can be discouraging. Read how Glenn Cunningham dealt with a horrible injury. When the pain gets to you remember it’s satan trying his best to pull you down. Spit in his eye and tell him…
“Say I won”t”.
Please pray for Cooper Savage. His father is on staff at a sister church and our pastor’s son is the worship leader at the church. Cooper had surgery for a hole in his heart on a couple of weeks ago and all seemed going well, until he developed an infection.
Here’s the link: http://andysavage.net/default.aspx?p=84018&beid=116524
One of my sons has the all important second interview with the Vice President of his company tomorrow. He is interviewing for promotion to branch manager. I ask prayers that he utilizes all the wonderful talents and abilities and intelligence that he has and has a great interview.
Thank you Menagerie. I think we can all appreciate this situation. Prayers being added today< on my side, for your sons elevation and God be with him today and always.
I worry about it all the time. Last month, I was asked to list all of the extra projects that I’m work on in addition to my regular work. I thought that was strange, being asked that question out of the blue. Now I know why.
A close family member is in need of prayer if y’all don’t mind. She is at a crossroads in her marriage, and with two young children and a business, it’s a very tough decision making process. Thank you…
Please pray for GFC’s family tonight. They are gathered in vigil around his father, who is at home in Hawaii, not expected to make it through the night. Dear St. Joseph, patron of holy deaths, join us in praying for this man, who has lived a good and faithful life and is loved by many, that he may come to the Father without struggle, greeted by Christ in perfection at last. Amen.
Just found out that GFC’s old man has passed away early this evening Hilo time. His mom is frail and distraught, having been married to him for 60 years, but they are both surrounded by a big, loving family and great peace. It’s late here, but I’m drinking a toast of Irish whiskey to the man I remember as the one who designed and built the now-ancient-but-excellent tracking telescopes at White Sands Missile Range. Sláinte!
Praying for GFC, his mother, and family members. This is a difficult time, but I pray that they will find solace in remembrance of the life of their beloved father/husband/grandfather.
Which whiskey? Or which telescope? I don’t have your email, so I can’t ask you outside the site, but ask away here if you like. Of leave a message on my blog, and then I can contact ya.
Thank you all so much for all your kind thoughts, prayers and taking the time to add a line. Today is kind of bittersweet for me (being my birthday) at the passing of my father. It is hard for me to share in such a small amount of time and space what kind of man my father IS. Father (of 15), Mans Man, Husband for 60 years to a beutiful wife who bore his 15 children, disciplined, inventor many times over, chess master (could play blindfolded and beat almost anyone and yes he beat the champion of Wes Point),, Faithful follower of Christ (Third Order Franciscan), Loving Grandfather, stoic (never heard him complain about anything {you know the type]), Father friend and GodFather to my wife and I can go on and on. Thank you all for your prayers for my family here. I am at a lost for words right now on how much that means to me.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
GFC, my brother, prayers and my deepest sympathies on the passing of your father. May God’s blessing be upon you and your family, and may you all find comfort in Christ Jesus during this difficult time.
GFC, thank you for sharing that with us. I know that having such a man as a father was a special gift to you, but the world itself is blessed when one such as he enters it and fulfills the tasks God puts before him with such faith and gallantry. His prayers and intercession for his family are now only being offered much closer to the Throne. I will continue my prayers for you all, and most especially for your mother.
Bittersweet doesn’t even begin to describe it, I’m sure… you and your family have been amazingly blessed – which, of course, makes your loss even greater… sending hugs to all
gfc – you and all of your family are in my family’s prayers. It has been many years now that I lost my mother. Thankfully my daddy is still with me. While I can never feel your pain, I do understand. Your family and your faith will certainly help you through the rough spots. Please know that you have many more right behind you. God Bless.
GFC, you and your family will continue to be in our prayers. It is never a “good” time to lose a parent. As Christians, we can take comfort in the fact that this is only a temporary separation, you will see your father again! God Bless you and yours!
Use your birthday as the “official” reminder of what a great man he was. What a wonderful life — and a beautiful legacy. Very inspiring, too. Many prayers.
i WANT TO ADD A SPECIAL PRAYER AND “THANK YOU” HERE FOR MY FRIEND GRUNT.
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FOR THEIR KINDNESS GRUNT. YOU ARE A BLESSING FOR THE TREE HOUSE!!
But if you check the box marked “Notify me of follow-up comments via email” next time you comment, you’ll be notified next time someone posts to this thread.
Thanks for clarifying, Grunt.
Welcome Shauna – thank you for your prayers – and yes, that’s what I meant (above) by being “subscribed”. That way, if I forget to check in here, at least I know I’ll hear about any new requests via email.
Dear Lord….please keep little Isabella Santorum and her family in your watchful care. Her life is such a wonderful testament to all those that choose life.
GFC — I meant to wish you a Happy Birthday the other day, and it kept slipping my old mind – so, belatedly, felicitations on your birthday.
Of course, I then read about your loss; and I want to offer you my most sincere coldolences on the passing of your father.
Know that you and your family are in my prayers.
Thank you Sol. That means a lot to me. I appreciate the prayers too of course. It has been a strange week and I have yet a ticket yo pay for concerning my father. I am sure that time will come though and hopefully all those prayers will kick in.
God Bless you and Thank you.
A dear friend of my dad has passed away today. He was suffering from severe diabetes and extreme financial difficulties unable to support his large family. But I had never seen him looking upset and disappointed. He had a cheery disposition. In fact, in recent times when my mother became very upset with her diabetes he had been very kind and had said encouraging words for despite the fact he had much higher levels of blood sugar than my mother. My parents had been taking care of his medical bills and his children’s education. Now they are very upset and as it has already been a difficult time for us, this has further demoralized my father.
I am requesting prayers for the bereaved family. For the children who have lost their father. Also, he was a Hindu. Please pray that God have mercy on His soul. He might not have known God like we do but he was a good man.
These are heavy burdens….praying for your family today as they continue to support this man’s family in this great loss. May God strengthen each of you today.
I pray for them, for your family, and especially for your father, who is obviously a very good and generous man who needs encouragement to counter the Evil One, who, I’m sure, is whispering many deceitful things to him about how futile all his efforts are. It is certainly not so. God bless you all.
Oh, Grunt … you said it so well… I’m adding my prayers to all the others. Shalini, thank you for sharing your family’s pain. I pray for comfort and peace to all concerned.
Shalini,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I will add your request to our prayers. Know that God is a merciful God and ALWAYS a good God. I truely hope and pray for all your prayers to be answered today. Thank you for asking this of us.
OK, in the grand scheme of things, this is not a biggie, but it is hard. Please pray for my son and his wife. They are soon to have a child, and their car may have major repairs needed. Finances are beyond tight for them. Any prayers would be appreciated. Thanks, Treepers.
Aloha Menagerie! I will certainly pray for them. There is nothing in this world more important than new life. Having a large family myself I can certainly understand the need for prayers in the circumstances they are in. God Bless them for bringing new life into this world. That is more precious than anything. I will add them to our litany of nightly family prayers. God Be With Them.
You are so right, Wee and Stella. Seems like Murphy’s Law applies more deviously to young families with babies and old cars. God bless ‘em, Menagerie. We’ll all pray.
There is someone here, whose name I don’t know, but the name they chose was one that for odd reasons I was pre-disposed to feel affection for. This guy is one of those people that I can’t believe comments on the same blog as me. . .I mean that in a good way, I think. He’s one of those people that make me feel insignificant in comparison to, a little bug. He’s so BIG, and I’m just this insignificant fat chick that writes about music and sometimes, half-baked theology and philosophy. While he’s . . . he’s so . . . him. Yanno? Everytime he writes something, I’m like “How did a guy as immense, as real as this, find this little ol’ place?”
. . . but I learned today that when he looks in the mirror, all he sees is the mud, the filth he’s been carrying us through. He sees only the scars, the bones that didn’t set right, or didn’t heal at all. He doesn’t see at all how brightly he shines for us– or at least, for me. He doesn’t see that while all he sees is flames, some of us see a star trying furiously to burn away the glowering clouds and falling night. And I want him to see, even a bit, of what we see. But I don’t know how to say it, in a way that he’ll hear. All I have are stupid jumbled platitudes, useless in the best cases. . .
So I’m hoping that the lot of you will join me in praying that Someone Even Bigger will show him, somehow, what I wish I could express.
Prayers for him right now. God knows that he is not what he is feeling. May he know it also. My heart is touched Z and I will continue to pray for your request.
Send him the second paragraph of your post. I don’t think it can be said any better.
And I think you need a dose of your own medicine, girlfriend: “insignificant fat chick” is so self-deprecating and so wrong on so many levels, it’s a good thing we are separated by several times zones and a huge ocean and a lack of funds for me to book a flight, or else I would hop the next one to your doorstep and smack you upside the head. To me, you are Wonder Woman.
That sentence has been bugging me since you posted it but I’m just getting around to addresssing it. You may have meant it as a joke but it stuck in my head.
Don’t ever say any of that again, ever ever ever. None of it is true except the chick part. You are beautiful and smart (like, really smart) and funny and thoughtful and amazingly clever.
Tilda is right. Don’t beat yourself down – ever. And don’t let anybody else do it either. Positive thoughts, my dear. The negative ones will be shunned! I am so glad that you have chosen to spend your time with us, because everything you contribute is positive.
P.S.: The Wonder Woman image (thanks Mike and Tilda) is a good one, but to me you are a shining star!
Okay, I must admit that my self image is not. . . positive. I know my strengths, but I abhor my weaknesses. I know that most of the weight problem kicked off from the steroids they gave me to buffer my system against the chemo all those years ago, and I know I’ve been slowly fixing the problem . . . But the outside still doesn’t match the inside, you know? And. . . denial is not something I want to five in to. . . it’s frustrating, but. . .
And . . . the “insignificant” bit . . . I suppose that’s really a product of my continual self-comparisons (yes, yes, I know! I should know better than anyone how false such things can be, but it’s a terrible habit I’ve yet to break!)
But I do thank you for your kind words. Just remember, I am a classically trained soprano, so I know a thing or two about ego! *snickers*
ZurichMike here. Personal request. For me. As you know, I am in a holding pattern for a job pending the lifting of a hiring freeze. It’s agonizing. I also just poured my heart and soul into another set of interviews for another company last week, and I am exhausted, can’t sleep, and have a feeling I did not do well enough. It’s all so depressing. As you know, when the Lord passed out patience, I was on the other side of the universe. Please pray that I have the patience to wait and see what is in store for me.
Many prayers coming your way, Mike, for patience, and for the job. God be with you. All Treepers are in my prayers everyday, but I like to come here and find the specific needs I need to pray for.
When you pray for patience, Our Lord – in His wisdom – provides you with opportunities to “learn patience”.
I shall, instead, pray that you find Strength, ZM, to withstand the slings, arrows and interminable waiting involved in your job search.
(The only things I ever pray for [for myself] — Strength, Honor, Wisdom, Courage. With them, all is possible.)
Please pray for my friend Edna. She recently lost her husband of over 43 years. I ran into her at 11:00 Mass today, and she told me. It breaks my heart because I know how deeply they loved each other.
Definitely. It’s always painful when you lose a loved one. My heart goes out to your friend. It touched me in more ways than one as my parents would be celebrating their 43rd anniversary next week.
Admittedly, I don’t come to this thread as often as I should and I have recently decided that is going to change. In any case, I want to ask for prayers for a friend of mine. This girl’s story is just amazing and so inspiring to me. First she had a son that was born at 24-25 weeks and survived! Through lots of faith and prayers he is one of the cutest things ever and had he been born when he was due would have been born right around the same time as my little guy. Anyway, because of this she could not have more children but had so much love to give, they adopted a little boy from China. Most of the time you hear about adoptions from China they are girls because you know how that culture values girls…not. But this little boy has special needs so he was also in need of some loving parents as well. He has some sort of hip problem and has just gone through another surgery just last week…this one being more invasive and hard on him than the previous ones. His name is JiaHao and I swear he is so darn cute my husband and look at the pictures and seriously consider adopting another one if he could be as full of happiness and joy as this little guy. Not sure if this picture is accessible as it’s from Facebook but either way, you can take my word for it. Anyway, here is the latest request for prayers after he’s gotten a staph infection at the hospital. Thanks all, I really appreciate it.
Prayers Needed for JiaHao’s Infection…
Hello All,
Over the past few days JiaHao has developed a staff infection from his time at the hospital (with a weak immune system). His poor little body is covered in sores and under his cast. He is in a lot of discomfort and is itching. It is very contagious and so that brings challenges for our family as well. We are doing our best to help him as the medicines start to work.
Please pray for him and for us. This is not what we had hoped for after surgery. We are just learning exactly what kind of staff infection he has. Pray that the antibiotics that they gave him are the correct ones so we can get this taken care of.
Pray especially for JiaHao’s itching and the cast discomfort. Also that Brett, Mark and I would not get the infection.
I forgot that they have a little blog for JiaHao on CaringBridge…anyway, he got terrible boils and blisters from the infection (they assume) and were referred to the ER but they didn’t want to deal with the ER in his condition…so they got him in with a referral from his doctors and here is the latest status posted today…poor little guy…Mom and JiaHao have not gotten much sleep as he is in a lot of discomfort and of course Mom is well…a Mom.
JiaHao was admitted to the Hosiptal this morning, he is doing ok they are giving him medicine, but he has hard veins and they want to put in a pic-line and that wont happen due to a backup until tomorrow. Please pray that somehow he can get moved up that they are able to get an IV and pic-line going. Please pray for all the coordination and wisdom to the doctors. Thank you all
My neighbors needs some prayers. She has non-Hodgkins lymphoma, which can’t be treated right now until she’s off blood thinning medication she took after throwing a clot after emergency surgery last year. This week her husband found out he has a spot on his lung — cancer. They are elderly, have only a few friends nearby, and their families live in the US and Germany — not an easy commute. I brought some brownies and just listened to their tales of hospital visits and bad news. My “project” (while waiting for a job to come through) just presented itself: I will drive them to treatment and doctor’s appointments, and do some cooking for them, and walk the dog if they don’t feel like going out. I also told them I know devout people who will pray for them. I know you won’t let me down.
While you’re praying, I am going to go outside for a minute and curse and scream at the evil of disease and disfigurement.
I add my prayers for this couple, and give thanks for all the assistance you are giving them. I will keep them in my daily prayers. You are such a good man. God bless you.
DH had two more biopsies done on his nose/face a week ago yesterday, as they still had not reached the c-cell-free area they are always seeking. Yesterday the surgeon told him they still have not reached cancer-free tissue, either on his nose or on his cheek. Therefore, they move to the next option: he filled a prescription today for a cream that is to be applied 2X daily with the intended purpose of creating a chemical burn over the area. When the skin peels as a result of that burn, it will sometimes then remove all the cancer cells with it. This process takes about a month as we understand it.
DH had some of this done several years ago – it will look terrible for awhile and he initially had a reaction to the salve (in our case, the lymph nodes swelled up in his neck and it looked almost as bad as mumps.) Prayers that it will finish it up for him; it’s been more than 10 years for us!
Ugh…I know the skin cancer well. So sorry to hear this. I just saw some YouTube video posted by one of my anarchist naturalist hippie friends about some salve that works for skin cancer and it sort of sounds like what Wee Weed describes in her post. I think this stuff was called black salve, or something like that. In any case, prayers are forthcoming.
Sharon, I can’t think of anyone with a more solid faith than you have. That said, I’m so sorry that it’s being tested in this way. Offering my own prayers joined with those of everyone here. and cyber hugs for good measure. xx
Thanks, all. DH also appreciates your hearts and prayers very much. We talked about it tonight, along the lines of, Yeah, we don’t like this much, but there will be a way through. Nobody gets to write out perfect details for their lives, and we know we don’t walk it alone. Thanks again.
Some good news about JiaHao…thanks all…they are definitely feeling your prayers!
Thank you Lord!
Hello all of our amazing and prayerful friends and family!
JiaHao got out of his procedure earlier today with two successes!
They were able to recast him with his hips staying in place. We even got to pick a new color (blue like “Blues Clues”). Now we can be sure that his cast is free from infection.
They also were able to find a strong enough route (vein? artery? I’m not sure what it’s called) to put in a picline.
He woke up out of anestesia very hungry so he ate 2 popsicles and a bag of Goldfish. We were so happy about this.
When we returned to his room he seemed like a new boy. A clean cast a a picline to now get the proper meds that he needs.
The wound care nurse came to give him a bath as well as change his dressings on his leisions.
At this time he is up and down as far as feeling good or not. He told me that it hurts where his picline is. Not at the IV site but where it is placed inside of him (in his chest) close to his heart. The nurse said it was normal to “feel” it inside of your chest. She gave him some Morphine just to help him sleep tonight and for his chest to stop bothering him.
We are so thankful and amazed to all of you who are keeping up on JiaHao and praying for him and loving him from afar. Thank you all so very much for everything!!!!!
When I am overhwhelmed I pray but I also remember all of you who are praying along with us and caring so much about him. A friend sent this verse to me.
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous hand.”. Isaiah 41:10
Thank you all and we will send an update tomorrow.
^__^ Poor kid– I had a pic line once, and it’s a totally weird feeling. You can indeed feel it inside of you, all the way up from the elbow to the chest, and it feels . . . well, danged peculiar. Not right.
Glad he’s getting the treatment he needs, and seems to be responding well to it!
I haven’t been able to write here often in the last few days, but this little one has been in my prayers. I am so glad he’s responding well to his treatment. Sending more prayers and love on his way.
Today I lay my fathers body to rest. Please say a quick prayer for my mother, that God give her physical strength to carry her through this very tough day. They’ve been married 60 years. God Blessed you All!
I wanted to thank all of you for sharing your prayers with me and my family We laid to rest my father this past Saturday on our property. I thank you from the depths of my soul for all of your kindness. I also wanted to share with you what my father has been for us as a community. He and my mother have raised “likeminded” children and walked in God’s path throughout my life. They have laid a great foundation for my brothers, sisters and I to, in turn, raise our children to also be “likeminded” in Spirit and soul. May I live to fulfill his legacy.
The following passage from the bible depicts more than any what my Father and Mother have been and done for us .
And I, brethren, when I came to you, came not with excellency of speech or of wisdom, declaring unto you the testimony of God.
For I determined not to know anything among you, except Jesus Christ, and him crucified.
And I was with you in weakness, and in fear, and in much trembling.
And my speech and my preaching were not with enticing words of man’s wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power:
That your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God.
The Wisdom of God’s Spirit
But we speak wisdom among them that are mature: yet not the wisdom of this world, nor of the princes of this world, that come to nothing:
But we speak the wisdom of God in a mystery, even the hidden wisdom, which God ordained before the world unto our glory:
Which none of the princes of this world knew: for had they known it, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory.
But as it is written, Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God has prepared for them that love him.
But God has revealed them unto us by his Spirit: for the Spirit searches all things, yea, the deep things of God.
For what man knows the things of a man, except the spirit of man which is in him? even so the things of God knows no man, but the Spirit of God.
Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is of God; that we might know the things that are freely given to us of God.
Which things also we speak, not in the words which man’s wisdom teaches, but which the Holy Spirit teaches; comparing spiritual things with spiritual.
But the natural man receives not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.
But he that is spiritual judges all things, yet he himself is judged of no man.
For who has known the mind of the Lord, that he may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.
It was our great honor to stand with you spiritually as you and your family paid your final respects to your father. Our prayers continue to be with you all, and especially your mother. God bless you as you complete the journey your father has so successfully completed.
I’m so glad you were able to clear all the permits and make all arrangements to start your family memorial site there on your property. As Menagerie says, it’s been our great honor to stand with you in this time. I will continue to pray that the Lord comforts your good mother. In the weeks after my mother was widowed, we tried to make sure someone was with her all the time, but there were a few days where she was alone. She claims that an experience during that time greatly helped her get through her grief. One morning, she awoke and sat on the edge of the bed, overcome by loneliness, completely unmotivated to pray her morning rosary. She missed him so much that she prayed to be able to know whether he was ok. Immediately a feeling of intense warmth came over her, and she felt the sensation of arms wrapped around her. For a long time, she felt nothing but peace. I pray that your mom gets this kind of comfort and more, in these next years and in the next life as well.
Thank you Grunt! And thank you for your friendship as well. Your mother sounds like a very blessed woman and you must be very proud of her. The Rosary has been a family way of life for us as my parents said one together every day of their married life together from day one. We continue with that as we stongly believe that the family which prays together stays together. My mother will always have one of us beside her all the days of her life. One of the blessings from her many years of raising 15 children to take care of each other as Christians should.
Thak you Menagerie, as well. You have been most kind.
God our Father, we give you thanks
for the gift of marriage: the bond of life and love,
and the font of the family.
The love of husband and wife enriches your Church with children,
fills the world with a multitude of spiritual fruitfulness and service,
and is the sign of the love of your Son, Jesus Christ, for his Church.
The grace of Jesus flowed forth at Cana at the
request of the Blessed Mother. May your Son,
through the intercession of Mary, pour out upon us
a new measure of the Gifts of the Holy Spirit
as we join with all people of good will
to promote and protect the unique beauty of marriage.
May your Holy Spirit enlighten our society
to treasure the heroic love of husband and wife,
and guide our leaders to sustain and protect
the singular place of mothers and fathers
in the lives of their children.
Father, we ask that our prayers
be joined to those of the Virgin Mary,
that your Word may transform our service
so as to safeguard the incomparable splendor of marriage.
We ask all these things through Christ our Lord,
Update on JiaHao…if you are a parent get a tissue…I can’t get through reading it without actually feeling the agony of this Mom. This is a very long and thorough story of what happened with this sweet child but I assure you it has a happy ending (and will uplift your faith for sure)…
Hello Everyone,
Hope this post is not too long or too informative… Hope you can hang in there for the whole thing…
As you know the past two weeks have been so much more than we expected for JiaHao. But as a friend reminded me they were no surprise for God.
Somewhere during the time of JiaHao’s 2nd surgery stay at the hospital he developed a Staph Infection. Unlike his 1st surgery, he was prescribed stool softener (which is supposedly normal after surgery). After 2 days of nonstop diarria Brett was finally able to convince the nurses to stop giving it to JiaHao. Not until we got home did we realize that there were reminisce of stool up inside JiaHao’s cast. Enough that it took me 2 hours to clean. JiaHao had what looked like a diaper rash as a result of this and so that is how I treated it having no idea it was the first stage of a very bad Staph Infection.
We have learned that Staph is all around all of us every day. But when your immune system is weak (Like JiaHao’s was) and you have an open cut or sores (like he did from the stool giving him a very bad rash) than you have a much greater chance of infection getting in.
The next day in every visible location JiaHao had sores developing. I called the surgeon but she said it was unrelated to surgery and to take him to his pediatrician. I did and right away he recognized it as Staph Infection. He started JiaHao on an antibiotic and anti-itch lotion.
The following day the sores were much larger and were multiplying. I called him to ask if it was supposed to get worse before it got better. He said no and scheduled us right away to go to a Pediatric Dermatologist. They also recognized it as Staph and added a couple more antibiotics to our pile of meds. That was Tuesday afternoon.
By Tuesday evening JiaHao’s sores had turned into large bubbles (the size of large grapes sitting on his skin). He was in extreme discomfort and unfortunately we did not have 3-5 days for the antibiotics to kick in. He was going mad for hours wishing we could itch his poor little skin. Brett and I finally (as you know) made the decision to take him to the Emergency Room in the middle of the night. I was afraid that they would question our situation too much and just send us home again with more meds. Thankful they did not. We knew to go to the same hospital where JiaHao had the surgery (and where he developed the infection :p) so that his surgeon at some point could see if his infection was under his cast.
After two hours of people scratching thier heads and the Emergency Room doctors giving JiaHao a drug to help him sleep (he had not slept for about 50 hours) we were admitted to the 9th floor of the hospital.
My father Ken came with me to the Emergency Room so he stayed with JiaHao in the room while doctors and nurses questioned me for nearly 2 hours. By the end of that day JiaHao had not just doctors and nurses coming in but teams of them to figure out exactly what it was and the severity that JiaHao had.
Once the decision was made that JiaHao needed strong antibiotics as well as a prescription anti-itch med the beginnings of trying to get an IV in JiaHao began. From past surgeries we know that it takes an anesthesia team 1 1/2 hours to place an IV on JiaHao when he is UNDER. Imagine trying to get one started on him when he is awake and already in so much pain.
That day JiaHao had suffered so much that I truly was in disbelief that a human could suffer so much and not give up. Honestly. I know it may sound dramatic but his eyes just kept starting at me usually crying in pain like I cannot believe that you are going to let one more person try to put a needle in me or try to shove a syringe down my throat to give me meds. I know that all sounds really detailed but that is how hour after hour was while the doctors and nurses were trying to get meds and IVs in him to stop this infection.
They tried 8 different people to start an IV on him. Even the best nurse they had from the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit and the one of the best anesthesiologists. They said our next step was to put a pic line in JiaHao. It is a long IV that runs from his forearm to his heart. He would have to go under for this and we had to wait in line because the hospital was so busy. The next day (Thursday) they would plan to put a picline in JiaHao. In the meantime we received a visit from his surgeon (who was in disbelief at the intensity of his infection). The Infectious Disease Team happened to be there in the room at the same time and Brett discussed with everyone about replacing JiaHao’s cast to check for infection as well as stool. They said that it was not a bad idea but a decision would have to be made.
Thankfully the next morning the surgeon agreed to squeeze JiaHao in to replace his cast while he was under for the pic line insertion.
As you know he received a new cast as well as a picline that day. They were able to start him on IV meds (which is the strength that he needed) right away. He also awoke to a new clean blue cast which he was happy about. It only took a couple of days for the infection to begin its way out of JiaHao’s body. We were so thankful for that.
Friday was a good day. JiaHao got some rest and was eating. Although he was not able to leave his room the entire stay he seemed to be entertained enough (even with a broken hospital TV). Thanks Dada for the laptop…!
Eventually he began to stop eating and drinking. Not until he started to show me that his stomach hurt did we realize that he was having acid reflux and an upset stomach from all of the meds that had been given in the past few weeks and especially all of the strong ones that he was now on for not only his hip and femur reconstruction but the Staph Infection. They started him on a prescription antacid but he still would not eat or drink for us. As you know he was also getting depressed. I hated to see this because the real JiaHao was long gone. He would just stare at me and hopelessly scratch his little arms and hands out of restlessness and feeling sick.
By Sunday we had to make a decision… Should we go home so that maybe a different atmosphere would help him to eat and drink. The thing was was that he would then have to take ALL of his meds by mouth. By this point JiaHao was so tired of having meds by mouth (it has been since Jan. 11th, his 1st hip surgery). I (mom) was so tired of trying more and more tricks to get him to take his meds. Every nurse he had had their own tricks as well. Everything from putting the syringe all the way down his throat till he was forced to swallow to a drop at a time while hanging out and talking, even if it took an hour per med…
We had the option to go home with the picline still in but I was too afraid the he or Mark may play with it or worse pull it out! Yikes! I did not want to do that.
So that we could go home without the picline we had to prove that JiaHao would take his meds by mouth (so that the Staph Infection would not come back). We had 4 different nurses as well as myself try to get him to take the meds to show that we could go home. All JiaHao ended up doing was throwing up for the next 2 hours because of everyone trying.
Brett was home with Mark when all of this was going on and so I was feeling really overwhelmed. JiaHao was getting depressed so we wanted to go home but we couldn’t unless he could prove that he could take his meds orally. I called Brett and we made the decision to stay one more night so that the doctors could teach us in the morning how to care for JiaHao’s picline at home. We figured we had no choice because we couldn’t get the much needed meds in him by mouth. I was still feeling overwhelmed because JiaHao and I would have one more sleepless night. I asked JiaHao if he wanted to pray with me and he shook his head no. By this point he knew that when we prayed over him something was going on and he was tired of it all. I prayed for God to help me because I was overwhelmed about everything that had happened.
I walked just outside of his room after praying to just call my mom to ask her to pray with me. She said that she had to call me right back not realizing what was going on. By the time I walked back in the room (just minutes later) JiaHao had pulled out his pic line! All 6 layers of bandages, tape AND the actually tube that ran from his forearm to his heart.
I almost passed out from seeing the tube sitting on his chest covered in blood. I got the strength to run out of his room to call for his nurse. When I tried to call her name it was like a dream where you are calling for someone but nothing comes out of your mouth. I finally kept running towards her and calling her name. When she finally looked at me I told her that he had pulled it out! She and about 6 other nurses and one doctor went running into his room. I could hear his nurse saying as she ran to the room, “He’s going to bleed.”
When we all got to his room he looked up at us and said it the happiest voice, “I go Home!”
We all laughed burst out laughing! We all, especially JiaHao needed that laugh. He ended up not bleeding as a result of pulling it out. He kept looking at all of us with a smile (that we had not seen in a long time) like he was so very proud of himself!! It’s like he knew that if he pulled it out, he got to go home! What a little bugger! He has a very good record now… He has pulled out 3 IVs (each one in the middle of the night while Brett and I are sleeping for each of his 3 surgeries) and 1 picline!!!
Needless to say were discharged that night because there was nothing more they could do at the hospital. By the time we got to the lobby of the hospital he was eating a bag of Baked Lays and waving at everyone. There was my JiaHao!!!
We are home now and he is doing wonderfully! The doctors were able to give us as many meds in “powder form” as possible so that we can sneak it in his foods. Even really strong powdered meds I am able to sneak into ice cream. Praise the Lord for powdered meds!!!
Each difficult step that JiaHao had to go through was so unsure and scary for us. Each time we had to depend on God to show us what His decision was. For example it felt like we were running out of options for how to get the meds in him by IV. There was a chance that the picline placement would have been unsuccessful. God made a way for this to happen.
As a mom going through all of this you look at God and say, “Why are we going through this? Look God I am right here begging you to make this pain stop in JiaHao and yet we are running into more and more troubles as we go. I just continue to pray to you Lord even if it’s just thoughts in my head for what I want to happen so that JiaHao can get better.” There is a Christian song that I been listening to this past week that says.
I can’t find the words to say
Life gets in the way
Lord You know my heart’s desire
When it all comes down
To what You are
Words cannot convey
When it all comes down
To who You are
Words get in the way.
That is how I felt. I said, “God it is obvious what JiaHao needs right now. You know that and so do we. Please show us why he is going through this. We know that times like this make us depend on you every minute and that makes us as close to you as we can be.” This is a difficult but such a strong time with God. We don’t know why JiaHao had to go through all of this but maybe someday we will.
Well anyway that is JiaHao’s story from the past couple weeks. If you read all of this thanks and thank you for praying for JiaHao and keeping up with everything going on.
This is the Bible verse that a sweet little friend sent to JiaHao in a card.
Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 5:2
Abbreviated version: Little kid is sick. Doctors do what they can. Not enough without prayers. Treepers pray with concerned family. Kid kicks butt in the hospital and is home. Mom and Dad and kid still need our prayers.
Neighbor updates as of 30 minutes ago:
1. Wife’s non-Hodgkins lymphoma is in inactive status after splenectomy, meaning no treatment needed, only check-up every three months. She is also off the blood thinner regime. Yippee! A prayer of thanks, please!
2. Husband has a procedure Monday to open chest, take biopsy of upper chest tissue that had an odd reading from radio isotope test, keep him under anesthesia until biopsy results come back. If results are negative for upper chest tissue, this means cancer has not spread, so continue operation and remove lower lung lobe where the cancer is isolated. If upper chest tissue results are positive for cancer, close chest and arrange chemo / radiation therapy. It’s not the best news, but there is hope and at least progress. He is very upset, and she is upset for him. I did my best to cheer him up and be an optimist. A prayer for healing and strength, please!
ZurichMike update:
Going back for second round of interviews on Monday. A prayer for strength and illumination, please!
ZMike, you are a prince among men. Prayers for your (lucky to have you) friends and for you as well. Thank you for the updates! I know you’ll be amazing in your interviews!
I am asking for prayers for my husband. He has been very sick, and unable to sleep all week. I pray for healing and rest for him. Thanks so much for all your prayers.
Was wondering what was keeping you away this week! He may be faking. That’s what I always do when I have to take care of Mrs. Grunt for an extended illness, like your wounded paw. Usually fake a little pneumonia or a minor chainsaw accident afterward to get a little wifey love. He deserves it, though. Asking for St. Joe’s prayers right now and will say a rosary later after work.
I am deeply grateful to all of you. Short term, he has a bad cold and cough. He also seems to have some other problems going on too, though, and I am just very worried about him. Thanks for the prayers, and know that I return all of them to you.
O Lord,
The house of my soul is narrow;
enlarge it that you may enter in.
It is ruinous, O repair it!
It displeases Your sight.
I confess it, I know.
But who shall cleanse it,
to whom shall I cry but to you?
Cleanse me from my secret faults, O Lord,
and spare Your servant from strange sins.
–St. Augustine of Hippo (AD 354-430)
Much better on the cold, but the possible gall bladder problem is worse. Trying to work on the diet to improve that. Thanks to all for the prayers. He is in quite a bit of pain.
A friend’s mother was visiting my friend and the mother had what she thought was just a fever and a cold, and then collapsed. Found out she has breast cancer that spread to her lungs. When she was stabilized, my friend flew her home and the doctors are having a “family consultation” tomorrow to discuss next steps. Doesn’t sound good. Just got back from my interview (went well, thank the Lord and you Treepers for your prayers), but haven’t found out how it’s going with the neighbor with the lung cancer spot. I tried calling, and no one is home, which may be a good thing — meaning he had the operation to remove the localized cancerous lobe. Will keep you posted, but I am surrounded by stories of cancer lately, which helps keep my own issues in perspective, but we need a lot of prayers for my friend and her mother and family, as well as the neighbor.
Of Course, ZM. You and all those you care for are in my prayers. The Friend, the friend’s Mom, the neighbor, you. . . I do hope it’s not something in the environment.
O Blood and Water, which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a fountain of Mercy for us, I trust in You!
Eternal God, in whom mercy is endless and the treasury
of compassion — inexhaustible, look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us, that in difficult moments we might not despair nor become despondent, but with
great confidence submit ourselves to Your holy will,
which is Love and Mercy itself.
- Amen.
OK, GREAT NEWS coming your way! Just checked with the neighbor’s wife (wife got good news last week that her non-Hodgkins lymphoma is inactive after the splenectomy, therefore no treatment needed). Her husband had the surgery yesterday afternoon, and the nodule on the lung and the funny-looking tissue at the top of the lung were removed and full biopsy done. It’s not cancer. IT’S NOT CANCER. It’s a rare but easily treated fungal infection that gives a false-positive reading for cancer during radio-isotope tests. They are so happy, and when the wife told me I starting weeping in thanks. This is a wonderful “present” just before Lent. Thank you, Lord Jesus, for getting them (and me) through this. Thank you, dear Treepers, for your prayers.
Giving thanks for the blessings to you and your friends and my prayers go out for your friend’s mother. I hope that her news will be just as good. Thanks to you and keep us updated please.
My daughter in law needs prayers please. Her baby is due in less than 3 weeks, and the doctor says she may have to have a C section. This is very upsetting to her, and she is afraid. Please pray for her and the baby and doctor. I myself do not trust that the doctor legitimately has diagnosed a need for this. I pray he will make a correct determination, with the needs of mother and baby first, and for strength and comfort for my DIL.
Oh, Menage…. I am sorry. Prayers of course for all of them, but why, suddenly? It will be so hard on her. She’s in my thoughts daily – now I will pray harder.
Will do, Menage. That’s scary stuff. Oldest son had them when he was very young. Had to carry him out of church once during a bad seizure (think it was the choir – they’ve almost given ME a seizure a couple of times). But he stopped having them and hasn’t had one for over 10 years. Hopefully, your niece’s daughter will also grow out of them.
Thank you all so much. I really appreciate it. Remember last year when I asked everyone to pray for my niece because she went into labor early, and Sarah Isabella was born 3 months early? You guys prayed before and after her birth. I’d like to share the results of your efforts now, and thank you again.
Please say a quick prayer for my oldest daughter who is having surgery to remove a wisdom tooth with the roots up against that little tube between ear and mouth. It is painful and touchy situation. God Bless You All.
Update: Thank you all for the quick response of prayers. My daughter’s surgery went very well. She is home and confortable. Infection is the enemy of healing (kinda reminds me of politics) but the good Lord hears all of our prayers. Mahalo, and God Bless You All!
Thank you all so much. My brother called me for comfort and reassurance and I pray that I was able to give him words of comfort. They are very afraid, just finding out what they will have to deal with, and of course, everyone fears any trouble for their child or grandchild. Thank you so much for praying for my family.
9 people in our area sent to the hospital with injuries, one by Lifeforce flight. Many people homeless. I pray for victims of the storms today, wherever they occurred. Many people in other areas were affected, and we had no deaths in our immediate area.
We come together to pray for our neighbors – south, west, east and north – who are suffering from storms. Yesterday we saw many communities face the fury of wind. May the winds and the rains spare them further trouble as they come to grips with the storms’ aftermath. Today may they know the kindness of strangers, the help of neighbors, and the courage to continue. Amen
Fortitude, please. Trying to help (long distance) guide some elderly guardians of the severely disabled to take legal action to protect their rights against an encroaching liberal state (need I say more?). The state is sending out misinformation by the truckload that only serve to frighten, confuse, and dishearten the guardians about housing choices for their wards. It is shamefully immoral as it is illegal. I know the new rallying cry is “I am Andrew Breitbart” — but I’d rather cry out to these nanny-state do-gooders “Get thee behind me, Satan!” Need some power from on high for that.
ZM, you are doing God’s work! If you need legwork done in Louisiana, I’m happy to help in any way that I can. Praying for strength for you, and those that you are helping!
I didn’t know where to post this, so I am sharing this here. My talks about Patrician brothers reminded of my years of singing this song at school. Prayer of St. Francis.
We are leaving soon for the hospital where Sadie will be born at noon. Her mother is having a C section, and I ask for prayers for a safe procedure for mother and daughter. And could you guys maybe say a little extra prayer that the grandmother will behave well and stay calm? No use wasting your time on dignified.
I pray, in the name of Jesus Christ, for the doctors, nurses, and staff perform their work with wisdom, knowledge, and understanding. I pray that mother and daughter emerge safely from the procedure and that everyone in your family experiences joy today.
May God Bless the entire family today. Give them all a taste of Your Sweet Milk and allow them to savor it. And medicate Grandma with the perfect joy of her new grandchild, Your Gift to this world. And Bless this child that he/she may carry out your will fervently in life. Amen
Thank you all for your beautiful prayers. Sadie arrived beautiful and perfect, dropped into our lives by the hand of God, who gives gifts beyond measure in their value. Seeing your child holding his baby with wonder and tears swirling together in his eyes is one of them.
Will you please add my sister Tracy to your prayer list. She is fixing to have spinal surgery and has been told that if she even moves wrong she could be paralyzed from the neck down. They are going to remove part of her spinal column. She is 55 years old. Thank you! Loopyloo305
You betcha. Oh noes that doesn’t sound anything except scary. Will add her to our prayer list for sure. The cracker family will all be sending up thoughts and prayers for your dear Tracy, and she will remain in our prayers for as long as it takes.
Please keep us updated. God bless you and your families.
I just learned from her daughter on Facebook that my cousin Elaine had a bad fall and broke her leg, requiring surgery. Please say a prayer for Elaine, and for her daughters, Ann, Laurie, Marcie, and Ruthie. Ruthie is a special needs adult who lives with her mother.
Thanks, guys! Elaine is a good egg who has had a tough life, but she never complains! She lost her husband quite young to a heart attack, and she raised those girls on her own, including a special needs child. She’s a good Christian woman, who lives in an evil liberal town, Davis, CA.
Not just evil and liberal. Davis is situated very close to Hell. That’s why it averages about 200 degrees in the summer time. Will pray for poor Elaine. Thank goodness Obamacare isn’t fully implemented. Pretty sure a broken leg is treated as a “lead deficiency” under Obamacare.
From cousin Anne, about an hour ago regarding her mom, Elaine:
“Please pray she is in surgery right now. It will be 3 to 4 hours surgery, recovery could be as long as 6 months or longer. Please pray for wisdom for my sisters and I.”
There is a small devotional book, named ‘God Calling’, that I read whenever I feel the need to comforted and encouraged. I got this message while praying for Elaine and Tracy.
Gleams of Sunlight
Because you have both longed to save My World I let you have that training that shall fit you to save.
Take your pains and sufferings, difficulties and hardships — each day, both of you, and offer them up for one troubled soul, or for some prayer specially needed to be answered.
So the beauty of each day will live on after the trouble and distress, difficulty and pain of the day have passed.
Learn from My Life of the suffering that saves others. So, you will sing in your pain. Across the grayest days there are the gleams of Sunlight.
But rejoice, inasmuch as ye are partakers of Christ’s sufferings; that, when his
glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy. 1 Peter 4:13
Prayers please for my little sister…she has an infection from the c-section so she has to spend the weekend in the hospital. It’s hard for her to have to spend this time away from her brand new little guy (though her fiancee can bring the baby to the hospital during the day). Throw in a little prayer for the new daddy too, he’s got a lot on his shoulders!
Praying for her right now! Your emotions are all over the place as it is right after your baby is born, and this will just make it harder. The new dad may discover new talents and new pride through it all! I’ll pray for that for him.
Ouch…as someone who has had 3 c-sections even without an infection they are not fun to recover from…with an infection I can’t imagine. Hope she gets treated and all better soon! Sorry if I’m late.
My cuz Elaine had her surgery, and is in the recovery phase now. Here’s the report from daughter Laurie:
“Mom is out of surgery. A lot out of it but doing well. They have her on oxygen and she is sleeping. Doctor said the surgery went well. Her bones were shattered but they were able to put in a rod and plate. Long recovery.”
I think I’ll send her flowers this morning. Thank you everyone for your prayers.
Mom stood up on one foot with a walker 3 times this morning. The doctor is having to re-evaluated his plan for her because she is doing so well. I believe she is being lifted up by your prayers.
They are moving her to skilled nursing today.
Ruthie and I did exercises with her this morning. She is going strong and we are wiped out. Way to go Mom!
Good news indeed!
“But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.”
Isaiah 40:31
I am at the hospital where my son David is having emergency surgery for gallstones. He also has an infection and some type of calcium deposit. I don’t knoe if that is in the gallbladder yet. Appreciate prayers.
Thanks everyone. He came out of the surgery fine, and he is in the room now. He was able to get down some liquids and also eat lunch. Now he needs to walk a little and keep ice on the incision. He’s doing really well for now.
Ouch. Glad things went well. Here’s a crackerville wish for a speedy recovery. Jello is your friend, and nothing is more fun than slurping jello. Well, maybe cherry flavored pez from a spiderman dispenser, or really fresh McDonalds french fries, or…. well, nevermind.
Just saw this Menage. So glad that he is doing well. He’ll be better in no time! My Jen had that surgery a number of years ago. Gall stones really hurt, I know!
I don’t feel comfortable asking for prayers from you guys because I don’t know you and you don’t know me. But I want to pray that I find people like you in my life that understand what love means. You guys get it.
Dude, I pray that you find them too. Hang around with us, if you want to. I have found that even “imaginary friends” (not really, of course) make the world a better place. People here will befriend you, pray for you if you ask (and even if you don’t), share your happy and sad times with you. Seriously, I will pray for you.
That’s a wonderful thing to say. We hope you will stick around. Many of us feel as close to our internet friends as to someone next door. We will pray for you as well.
Let us pray to our dear Lord that the evil that has sunk it’s teeth into our beloved America is soon defeated. Let us return to the freedom and liberty our Forefathers intended.
While my situation isn’t as serious as most I see here, I would ask you to say a quick prayer for my baby sis. She was diagnosed with Bell’s Palsy a few weeks ago. Nothing life-threatening but I am more concerned than she is.
It’s a distressing thing to have happen to you. My daughter had it when she was first married, and thought at first that she had a stroke or something. Your sis will be okay, but it will be a little while, probably. Women are more worried about how they look, too. I’ll pray for her!
I wanted to let you know that my sister Tracy came through her surgery pretty good today. They had to keep her in recovery for three hours because they couldn’t get her blood pressure down, but she is finally in her room and resting. Thank you again for all your prayers. They are greatly appreciated.
My 77 yr old sister is spiraling downward and out of control with her anger, dementia and isolation, refusal to allow her 50′s-age loving daughter and son to help. Again this week, the ambulance took her to the hospital after she called 911 and they figured out she had not been eating or taking her meds for several days. Again the hospital could not identify a reason to keep her so sent her back home. So now the guardianship process that was already in place has been put on the fast track. She has repeatedly called 911 for nonsense situations–so I do NOT understand why they can’t act on that aside from family directives. She has screamed at the police — actually hit the one that came to her condo on Flathead Lake in the last couple days….hit him, and told him he was too fat! My niece has done terrific loving service, but is exhausted. My brother (a widower) is a terrific resource for niece as well, so all the pieces are in place to move the situation along. It’s just distressing–big sis who told me stories and funny things when I was 7 and 8 and 9 is losing her life irreparably and irretrievably. Please pray for her and my niece. Niece’s husband is a fine, fine man, and is currently recovering from an extensive surgery required to repair a seriously broken wrist, so niece has had a lot to walk through. She’s doing it. God bless her. In a note from my brother this morning, he did share a lighter thought: His 4 year old granddaughter brought the following bit of praise liturgy home from nursery school this week: “Hosanna Bananas, Jesus is coming!!” My brother acknowledged that his Grandpa status perhaps colors his undiscriminating enjoyment of the line, but he loves the Lord as well. Actually, I think it’s a pretty good line. About as complicated as I can deal with today anyway.
My sister is 10 weeks pregnant with her second child and her manager is a being a veritable she-dog! (Pardon my language, especially in a prayer thread but I don’t know what else to say!) My sister has always had difficulties in pregnancy. She couldn’t get conceived for a long time and when she finally did, we were so happy for her. But it didn’t last long. She had two miscarriages and the third time it was an ectopic pregnancy to which she lost the baby and one of her fallopian tubes. It was one of the most horrible days of our lives, not only because of her loss of child but she almost lost her faith. After years of prayers (especially my wonderful mother’s), she finally had her first son. Sunny is special because he was a miracle child. A pastor told my sis she would have a son but she had no hope. It was my mother who kept the faith and soon my sis found out she was pregnant. Even that pregnancy wasn’t an easy on as she started bleeding profusely around the 7th week, like every other time. She hadn’t told us, as she was scared and depressed. But my mom subscribes to a Jesuit priest’s magazine and he always has a special prayer for the month. That month it was pregnant mothers and the unborn babies. We said the prayer regularly without knowing my sister’s condition. My sister had gone to her regular ultrasound check-up, fearing the worst but only to found out that not only was the baby’s heart-beat was normal but also that he was so energetic!! God always keeps His promises. Little Sunny is our own Samuel.
Sorry for the back story! But as I mentioned my sister’s troubles with pregnancies has been many. She’s had a miscarriage since Sunny. But now he boss is deliberately making her life hell. She’s had heavy work for the past month and the boss for seems to like to yell at her for no apparent reason at all. Ever since my sis told her that she’s pregnant and though she doesn’t mind the work she could do without the yelling, her boss made it a point to yell at her all the more.
I did ask my sis to complain to the HR but she’s not willing to risk the confrontation that would follow. Her boss is a vindictive lady who even calls workplaces of people who had quit and joined different companies, just to complain about them.
I am troubled for her but unable to to anything beyond praying for her. I am utterly useless. We can’t tell our mother right now, for reasons some of you know, and she has only told me so far. I know, I can’t give her the comfort of our mother. Would you all be so kind to pray for her? She could do with the comfort of your prayers while we wait for our own mother’s comfort.
Will absolutely pray for your sister, the baby, her doctors, your family, and for the boss – that she may, by the grace of God, have a personality transformation.
Today, right now, I am going to stop and say a rosary for your sister and her baby, and for a conversion of heart for her boss. Thank you for sharing this need with us, and please give us updates on your sister’s health.
Shalini,
I don’t think you could ever be “useless” especially because of your Trust and Faith in God. I will add your request to my prayers gladly. Thank you for askin and sharing that beautiful occasion in your life with all of us here. God Bless and Keep You and Yours Always.
I will pray that God watches over the unborn life of the child, and that He will also grant her the poise and serenity to remain calm during these confrontations.
Shalini, Since Gerard is my middle name I offer this prayer for your sister.
Prayer to St. Gerard Majella for a Safe Delivery
Saint Gerard Majella is the Patron & Protector of Expectant Mothers. The Feast of Saint Gerard is celebrated on October 16. Here is a prayer to St. Gerard which can be used by expectant mothers for a healthy & safe delivery.
O great Saint Gerard, beloved servant of Jesus Christ, perfect imitator of thy meek and humble Savior, and devoted child of the Mother of God, enkindle within my heart one spark of that heavenly fire of charity which glowed in thee and made thee a seraph of love.
O glorious Saint Gerard, because when falsely accused of crime, thou didst bear, like thy Divine Master, without murmur or complaint, the calumnies of wicked men, thou hast been raised up by God as the patron and protector of expectant mothers. Preserve me from danger and from the excessive pains accompanying childbirth, and shield the child which I now carry, that it may see the light of day and receive the lustrial waters of baptism, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Recite Nine Hail Marys.
I will continue to pray for your sister and that God grant our request and let His Will be done.
Shalini…praying for your sister these days. May God cause her to know strength and peace, and protect the life of the wee won.
UPDATE on my sis: today the Montana courts have approved an emergency/temporary guardianship (which simply expedites the inevitable). She has a couple of days to “prove them wrong” and it may be as early as this Wednesday that they will be coming to her door and literally taking her away. My brother is going to be with my niece as it all unfolds on the scene.
It is what it is, and the entire situation is now long past the handwringing/”do you think we should” stage. It is now out of the hands of anyone who cares about her (and many do). Pray for grace and peace and strength for them as they walk these events out.
All of your notes a couple days ago were a comfort–even though I’m not “in the midst of it” like my niece or brother, I’m better able to pray myself for them if I don’t feel quite so alone. Thank you.
UPDATE: Today (Thursday 4/11) was the day they went with the court orders and support from various agencies and it all went very badly. My sister was profane and violent and horrible. The end of the day was that she was taken by force, by the police, to an ambulance and transported to a psychiatric facility in a town about 65 miles away. She will very likely end up being admitted to some type of locked facility before the weekend’s over. Thanks for your thoughts.
UPDATE: Yesterday (Saturday 4/14) the situation finally came to a resting place. She was hospitalized for assessment for 2 1/2 days, released yesterday morning after being placed on long term (and additional for short term need) anti-psychotic meds. After much checking and evaluation, my brother and niece found a beautiful senior care/dementia facility in Kalispell (MT) and spent Friday night disassembling her condo on Flathead Lake, moving her treasured (and valuable) art prints, books, personal belongings to her room at the Kalispell facility, actually not knowing as they did that how she was going to be functioning yesterday. By 11 yesterday morning, they had her new room perfectly arranged and appointed, familiar things all around, and had left town headed south. Per the staff and doctors, it was better for them not to be around when she was transferred there.
Late in the day yesterday, my niece got a text from the facility saying that her mother had been released from the hospital, transported by ambulance, arrived in the facility smiling, had absolutely loved her new room with private bath and all, and was getting ready for dinner. This is the mercy of God. This is all mercy…mercy for her and for all of us. Niece said that when that text came, niece, niece’s husband and my brother just all broke down crying. She related how she had had to stand through Thursday, being screamed at as a group (“You bastards!”) and directed at her “You bitch!”) again and again. That is pain. Utter pain. She said that yesterday was, finally, their Easter. She describe Thursday as a day of facing the fury and the pain “because we were there for love and justice.” Now, knowing my niece’s tender heart and trust in the Almighty—that right there is a RED HOT POKER that could be poked in the eye of the left—they know NOTHING of such love and justice. Nothing. (And by “justice” she simply meant that even when your mother hates your guts and screams profanities at you, if you are standing in the right place, you simply keep standing there, because it is right.)
They are all utterly depleted and driving home to Utah today. It is mercy also for our nephew, who loves his mom and because of his proximity has had the responsibility of trying to manage the week to week destruction and hostility for the last 6 months as he has been the “family contact” for the home care workers whom she finally locked out a couple of weeks back. Nephew was not on the scene this week because he just started a new job about two weeks and it was not possible for him to be absent. In any event, it was better for him not to have to deal with this, and all the family was in full support of him NOT having to be there. He would have been bitterly targeted, and it just may be that he could not have sustained through those three days.
My brother relates this morning that even though he has assisted with other parental situations which were similar….they were nothing like this. “It’s different when it’s a sister,” of course, and he also said, “This was in a class by itself.”
He’s my bestest closest brother (he’s actually perfect ) and I’m so grateful for is care for her and so grateful that now it is past and he can begin to rest and recover in the secret place, under the shadow of the Almight. (Ps. 91:1).
Sorry for such a long narrative, but there it is.
Forgot to include–this is a facility that has closed circuit wired in for the families, so they provide an access code, and we can go online at any time and watch the activities they are doing and watch for her involvement and see her. That just makes me cry, that finally I can look in on her and lovingly watch–because I have not been able to have any contact with her at all for the last two years. Any contact at all just made her so angry, and then my niece would get a screaming phone call from her, demanding to know “what the hell Sharon thought she was doing”…..that as a result of a 10 minute generic phone conversation. Dementia is not for the fainthearted, I’ll tell you that!~
Sharon, Thank God that your sister, brother, niece, and the rest of the family have come to a better place. I am hopeful that this is a good thing for all of you. It must be devastating to have a dear loved one “leave” you like this. I don’t know that I could deal with it, and I am so grateful that I never had to find out.
Sharon,
Thank you for sharing the update. God be Praised for His Mercy. And what a great sign of His Mercy on this Mercy Sunday. I am HAPPY that they have dome peace and will continue the prayers for everyones HEALING.
Sounds really positive – and what a neat thing for the family, to be able to look in on her daily!! I’m so glad that things are better and calming down for all of them.
I apologize for not having stopped in here lately to let you all know that – in spite of appearances to the contrary – I do keep you all in my prayers daily – with the petition that the Lord be mindful of the specific requests that each of you have laid before HIm.
God bless you and keep you and all your loved ones in His tender care. Love you!!!
A prayer of thanksgiving. A long-term freelance position has opened up for me, and it will give me a bit of breathing room, and — who knows? — perhaps a new career direction as I make contacts.
Thanks to my online legion of guardian angels’ helpers for seeing me through my whining and complaining (you were at least spared the caterwauling, gnashing of teeth, and rending of clothes).
I am asking for the prayers from all here for a good friend who is suffering from cancer. My friend, a man who devoted his life to the service of our nation (career Air Force), who has always been the first to show up for anyone who needed help and the last one to leave, who has devoted his “retirement” years to educating others on the greatness of this nation and who has been the driving force in getting, and keeping, our high school Navy ROTC, needs our prayers for a total recovery.
There are few people in this world that I think will truely be missed. He is one of them.
Just found youse guys. I will have to make an encampment here, set up a firepit, get the cast iron dutch ovens going and dole out the beans and bacon the good Lord has given me. I likes the tilt of your hats, the tenor of your voices and your all around good cheer as you do a bodily function from a great height on the devil. Giddyup, ya’ll.
Well, I’ll let someone else have my share of the beans, as the Good Lord did not see fit to give me a liking for them. The bacon however, I shall enjoy with great relish!! Welcome!
Well, shoot, I like the tilt of your hat, too!! We must have good cheer while dispensing genuine justice for the American Way. Welcome! ‘smores around the campfire of an evening….
I’m requesting prayer for my cousin, Elaine. She’s the one who had surgery for a broken leg a while ago. She’s in a rehabilitation facility, and has contracted an infection of some kind.
Elaine has been taken to the hospital from the rehabilitation center. She has some kind of septic infection, and it may be very serious, from what I was able to gather from her daughters. Please pray with me. She is such a sweet person.
My heart is heavy, my BGF’s Daddy went home Sunday. We knew it was coming, but that does not make it any easier. Please keep Terri and her family in your prayers.
Just a short update on my sister. She has finally found the courage to talk to her director about the emotional abuse and now she’s been shifted to a different department. She sounded so happy and relieved but still a little wary as her previous manager is a little vindictive. That lady had called a former employee’s new work place to complain about her. But I am not too bothered. I am pretty sure my sister did the right thing and is now in a better place. Thank you all for the prayers. She read them and is very grateful.
But there’s this thing. I don’t know why, but my sister’s colleagues who worked under previous boss seem too scared to take the step my sister did. There’s another lady who suffered a miscarriage because of constant emotional abuse who’s service was terminated by this manager when she was recovering at the hospital. Another of my sister’s colleagues confided in my sister about attempted suicide. My sis has talked her out of it. But there are these people for some reason too scared to get out of there. I’d appreciate it if we can all pray for them to find the strength and courage to deal with this like my sister did.
I will continue to pray for your sister, and add her colleagues as well. I am very glad that she was able to talk someone out of suicide. Perhaps we must pray for this manager as well, that she will find it in her heart to care for the well being of those entrusted to her supervision.
Woman can be some of the hardest people to work for….been there. Is there perhaps a person ABOVE this manager that your sister could confide in? It would help your sister to have someone acting as a “mentor” in order to keep this other woman in line. Will continue to keep her and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
In a way, it did. Her father-in-law passed away just recently. And she promptly blamed my sister for it. I am feeling guilty to be angry with her now. But the fact that so many people live in fear of her is troubling me. She needs help. She shouldn’t be in a position of power.
Happy New Year To All. I ask that you all join me in praying that we can all be UNITED in our fight against evil and that which is destroying our Great Country. Let us all be united.
What a wonderful way to start our new Prayer Thread GFC. And let us all be united in asking for God’s blessings and strength in the coming year. Thy will be done….
Amen!
Very well put, GFC. As Paul begged us in 1 Corinthians 1:10, “I appeal to you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree and that there be no dissensions among you, but that you be UNITED in the same mind and the same judgment.” (RSV – emphasis mine) While we have differences, I pray that we may still, in a spirit of charity and forgiveness, remain close in our common love of Christ and each other, all this new year and beyond. And thank you, Ad rem, for setting up this 2nd generation prayer thread!
I am not sure about posting a song in the Prayer Request thread, but this is my prayer for all of us this year. Besides, I needed an excuse to post a Jim Reeves song. God bless you all, lovely people!
Well done. God Bless.
Thank you for sharing this Shalini. Very nice and kind of reminds me of Marty Robins voice.
My surgery was a week ago today. My first post op appointment is today, so I am hoping to get some good news. The pain has been so much less than what I expected, and I think I am recovering well. Not being able to put weight on my foot makes it challenging to get around and do very much, but this also has been easier than I thought it would be. I want to thank all of you for your prayers, I know that you have all been a big part of how well things have gone and I sincerely thank you for that. I have a very long recovery ahead, and things are up in the air as far as how much improvement the surgery will make, so I ask your continued prayer for my healing. Please know that I pray daily for all Treepers, and I will continue to ask God for His blessing on you all. Thank you most sincerely.
I will pray for good news for you, and swift, continued healing as well.
Continued prayers and patience, Menage! Let us know what the doc says.
Honey, let’s pray you can put all your weight on it, and do a cheeky hip-swivel and pivot, and get back to your fabulous runway modeling career on the catwalk (pout-step-step-step-hold-pout-swivel-pivot-step-step).
All kidding aside, prayers coming your way from ZurichMike.
So glad to hear it’s going well. Praying for full-time 2wd soon!
Remember, you’ve already promised to dance the lead in the Treehouse’s production of Swan Lake, so you must continue to think positively… and be assured that our prayers are with you as always.
Prayers for continued recovery, Menage!
Without knowing exactly what you have going on (forgive me if I’m off base). I’ve been through foot injuries. No surgery but long recoveries. I never thought I’d get to wear my Ariats again. Patience is tough to conjure up but you can’t rush it. When it’s time you may need to go through a lot to get comfortable shoes. Zappos, Endless, Shoebuy (each with their free delivery and free returns become very handy). Don’t forget about quality over the counter insole replacements (SofSole, Sorbothane). Do your therapy. Have faith and persevere.
Thanks for the sources. I have tried Zappos, but none of the others. I really appreciate the advice, since comfortable shoes have become the most important part of my daily attire.
Hey, guys, it’s me again. Today is x-ray day and I really hope for good results. I ask your continued prayers that everything is healing well. Thank you.
I pray everything looks wonderful!
You don’t have to ask! I’ve never ceased to pray for your health. It’s going to be good.
The news was really good. Thank you all so much. I feel so happy right now. Thank you all. It will take a year to heal fully, but this first important milestone was good.
“I feel so happy right now.”………here’s praying that the next year flies by as quickly as the last one did here at the Tree. Now pour me a glass of your birthday Champagne!
Hey, save some champagne for me! Happy news, and on your birthday too! Just a few more weeks, and the Tree will celebrate our anniversary (Feb 1). We almost made it on Groundhog Day!
Better than Apr. 1st. right?
Glad to hear the good news! Physical pain can be discouraging. Read how Glenn Cunningham dealt with a horrible injury. When the pain gets to you remember it’s satan trying his best to pull you down. Spit in his eye and tell him…
“Say I won”t”.
http://www.sayiwont.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/thumbnail/5e06319eda06f020e43594a9c230972d/c/o/conceptsq-dis-t-nav-web-b2.jpg
Champagne for everybody!
You iz a good dawg, Menage!! Great news, though I know the road is long and bumpy! Thanks for the champagne!
so happy that your recovery is going well… continued prayers.
Please pray for Cooper Savage. His father is on staff at a sister church and our pastor’s son is the worship leader at the church. Cooper had surgery for a hole in his heart on a couple of weeks ago and all seemed going well, until he developed an infection.
Here’s the link:
http://andysavage.net/default.aspx?p=84018&beid=116524
On it right now.
Will gladly say prayers.
One of my sons has the all important second interview with the Vice President of his company tomorrow. He is interviewing for promotion to branch manager. I ask prayers that he utilizes all the wonderful talents and abilities and intelligence that he has and has a great interview.
He got it!!!! Thanks for the prayers.
That’s wonderful, Menage!!! Congrats to him – he obviously earned it!!
Great news, Menage!
Really great news! So happy for you all.
congrats! so happy for him (and his proud family!)
Thank you Menagerie. I think we can all appreciate this situation. Prayers being added today< on my side, for your sons elevation and God be with him today and always.
The company I work for just laid off 63 employees, please pray for those who lost their jobs today.
I will. It’s a terrible feeling when you lose your job, even when it has nothing to do with you personally.
My heart goes out to them. My prayers also.
Amen. Glad you’re doing ok so far, Freedom.
I worry about it all the time. Last month, I was asked to list all of the extra projects that I’m work on in addition to my regular work. I thought that was strange, being asked that question out of the blue. Now I know why.
Keep proving yourself to be invaluable….because you are.
Valuable is a state of being! And Freedom your are VALUABLE! I will add you to our prayers for protection and job security. God Bless
Please pray for John and his family, in Kingman, AZ, just diagnosed with cancer. Thank you so very much.
We will, Shauna. At this point, praying for people who need God’s help is my only consolation.
We will, Shauna. And for you. Thank you for asking.
Thank you so much,…it means so much to me, Thank you
I will pray too. It is a shock to receive a cancer diagnosis.
Adding my prayers as well. Thank you for sharing this with us.
A close family member is in need of prayer if y’all don’t mind. She is at a crossroads in her marriage, and with two young children and a business, it’s a very tough decision making process. Thank you…
Of course, MRM. I’ll add her to my prayers.
In my prayers.
Certainly. Prayers for her and her family.
Thanks so much you guys. It means a lot.
Of course, MRM. I pray she has good guidance.
thank you.
Sorry I am late, MRM. I shall pray that your friend finds guidance and strength in our Lord at this difficult time.
Sorry I’m a little late to the dance. I only check this page once a week or so.
Prayers coming.
I didn’t realize I wasn’t subscribed to the new prayer thread. Am adding all the above to my prayers as well.
Belated prayers MRM!
Thanks Puddy … I appreciate it!
Please pray for GFC’s family tonight. They are gathered in vigil around his father, who is at home in Hawaii, not expected to make it through the night. Dear St. Joseph, patron of holy deaths, join us in praying for this man, who has lived a good and faithful life and is loved by many, that he may come to the Father without struggle, greeted by Christ in perfection at last. Amen.
Amen.
adding my prayers to yours.
The Lord be with you all…
Amen.
Amen.
adding my prayers as well… thanks for letting us know, Grunt
God bless and sustain them all through these hours.
Amen.
Amen.
Just found out that GFC’s old man has passed away early this evening Hilo time. His mom is frail and distraught, having been married to him for 60 years, but they are both surrounded by a big, loving family and great peace. It’s late here, but I’m drinking a toast of Irish whiskey to the man I remember as the one who designed and built the now-ancient-but-excellent tracking telescopes at White Sands Missile Range. Sláinte!
My prayers go out to GFC and his family, most especially his mother, and I pray for the repose of the soul of his father.
Amen.
Praying for GFC, his mother, and family members. This is a difficult time, but I pray that they will find solace in remembrance of the life of their beloved father/husband/grandfather.
He was part of that? wowie, whadda guy . . . It’s too early for me to toast, so I’ll send up some more prayers . . .
Amen. We’ll be thinking of all of you, GFC.
Amen…
Grunt, which one?
Hit me outside this site.
Which whiskey? Or which telescope? I don’t have your email, so I can’t ask you outside the site, but ask away here if you like. Of leave a message on my blog, and then I can contact ya.
Telescope.
Thank you all so much for all your kind thoughts, prayers and taking the time to add a line. Today is kind of bittersweet for me (being my birthday) at the passing of my father. It is hard for me to share in such a small amount of time and space what kind of man my father IS. Father (of 15), Mans Man, Husband for 60 years to a beutiful wife who bore his 15 children, disciplined, inventor many times over, chess master (could play blindfolded and beat almost anyone and yes he beat the champion of Wes Point),, Faithful follower of Christ (Third Order Franciscan), Loving Grandfather, stoic (never heard him complain about anything {you know the type]), Father friend and GodFather to my wife and I can go on and on. Thank you all for your prayers for my family here. I am at a lost for words right now on how much that means to me.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
GFC, my brother, prayers and my deepest sympathies on the passing of your father. May God’s blessing be upon you and your family, and may you all find comfort in Christ Jesus during this difficult time.
GFC, thank you for sharing that with us. I know that having such a man as a father was a special gift to you, but the world itself is blessed when one such as he enters it and fulfills the tasks God puts before him with such faith and gallantry. His prayers and intercession for his family are now only being offered much closer to the Throne. I will continue my prayers for you all, and most especially for your mother.
Thinking of you.
Bittersweet doesn’t even begin to describe it, I’m sure… you and your family have been amazingly blessed – which, of course, makes your loss even greater… sending hugs to all
gfc – you and all of your family are in my family’s prayers. It has been many years now that I lost my mother. Thankfully my daddy is still with me. While I can never feel your pain, I do understand. Your family and your faith will certainly help you through the rough spots. Please know that you have many more right behind you. God Bless.
GFC, you and your family will continue to be in our prayers. It is never a “good” time to lose a parent. As Christians, we can take comfort in the fact that this is only a temporary separation, you will see your father again! God Bless you and yours!
Use your birthday as the “official” reminder of what a great man he was. What a wonderful life — and a beautiful legacy. Very inspiring, too. Many prayers.
i WANT TO ADD A SPECIAL PRAYER AND “THANK YOU” HERE FOR MY FRIEND GRUNT.
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FOR THEIR KINDNESS GRUNT. YOU ARE A BLESSING FOR THE TREE HOUSE!!
You’re a good man, Bruddah. Mahalo.
How do I subscribe? I would like to add my prayers also to those needing help. I thank everyone for their prayers for John and family.
Thank you, Shauna – that is kind of you. You don’t have to subscribe – you’re already here with us.
But if you check the box marked “Notify me of follow-up comments via email” next time you comment, you’ll be notified next time someone posts to this thread.
Thank you, I will do that now.
Dittos on the welcome!
Thanks for clarifying, Grunt.
Welcome Shauna – thank you for your prayers – and yes, that’s what I meant (above) by being “subscribed”. That way, if I forget to check in here, at least I know I’ll hear about any new requests via email.
Dear Lord….please keep little Isabella Santorum and her family in your watchful care. Her life is such a wonderful testament to all those that choose life.
Amen. Praying for the Santorums …
Add another one from me Dear Lord. Please lift them up to you bosom and hold them close to You.
Amen definately. Hope she is able to get off the respirator soon. Poor kid. Praying for the whole family, must be horrid worry for them.
GFC — I meant to wish you a Happy Birthday the other day, and it kept slipping my old mind – so, belatedly, felicitations on your birthday.
Of course, I then read about your loss; and I want to offer you my most sincere coldolences on the passing of your father.
Know that you and your family are in my prayers.
Thank you Sol. That means a lot to me. I appreciate the prayers too of course. It has been a strange week and I have yet a ticket yo pay for concerning my father. I am sure that time will come though and hopefully all those prayers will kick in.
God Bless you and Thank you.
A dear friend of my dad has passed away today. He was suffering from severe diabetes and extreme financial difficulties unable to support his large family. But I had never seen him looking upset and disappointed. He had a cheery disposition. In fact, in recent times when my mother became very upset with her diabetes he had been very kind and had said encouraging words for despite the fact he had much higher levels of blood sugar than my mother. My parents had been taking care of his medical bills and his children’s education. Now they are very upset and as it has already been a difficult time for us, this has further demoralized my father.
I am requesting prayers for the bereaved family. For the children who have lost their father. Also, he was a Hindu. Please pray that God have mercy on His soul. He might not have known God like we do but he was a good man.
I will certainly pray for him and his family. How hard, to loose a father so young! And to loose a husband when the children are so young!
And of course, I will pray for God’s Mercy on his soul . . .
I will pray for your father’s friend and his family. What a comfort your father’s friendship must have been to him in difficult times.
These are heavy burdens….praying for your family today as they continue to support this man’s family in this great loss. May God strengthen each of you today.
I pray for them, for your family, and especially for your father, who is obviously a very good and generous man who needs encouragement to counter the Evil One, who, I’m sure, is whispering many deceitful things to him about how futile all his efforts are. It is certainly not so. God bless you all.
Oh, Grunt … you said it so well… I’m adding my prayers to all the others. Shalini, thank you for sharing your family’s pain. I pray for comfort and peace to all concerned.
I thank you all for your kindness. It really means a lot to me.
I am praying for your father, and his friend’s family. Your father is a kind and generous man.
You and your wonderful family and friends will always be in my prayers Shalini. You are loved.
Shalini,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I will add your request to our prayers. Know that God is a merciful God and ALWAYS a good God. I truely hope and pray for all your prayers to be answered today. Thank you for asking this of us.
Also remember that God is never outdone in generousity. Your father sounds like a very good man and a wonderful role model. You are truely Blessed.
You all are such a comfort to me. God bless you all.
OK, in the grand scheme of things, this is not a biggie, but it is hard. Please pray for my son and his wife. They are soon to have a child, and their car may have major repairs needed. Finances are beyond tight for them. Any prayers would be appreciated. Thanks, Treepers.
Poor kids …. Murphy’s always lurking, isn’t he? Will keep all three in my prayers, Menage.
Absolutely, will do.
Aloha Menagerie! I will certainly pray for them. There is nothing in this world more important than new life. Having a large family myself I can certainly understand the need for prayers in the circumstances they are in. God Bless them for bringing new life into this world. That is more precious than anything. I will add them to our litany of nightly family prayers. God Be With Them.
Prayers absolutely on the way….
As Wee says, we are all familiar with Murphy. I will definitely be praying.
You are so right, Wee and Stella. Seems like Murphy’s Law applies more deviously to young families with babies and old cars. God bless ‘em, Menagerie. We’ll all pray.
Thanks to you all. It is such a special comfort to know that prayers are being offered when we need them. You are wonderful, all of you.
Oh my… yes, of course… praying that all things will work together for good for the three of them, and for your peace of mind, Menagerie.
There is someone here, whose name I don’t know, but the name they chose was one that for odd reasons I was pre-disposed to feel affection for. This guy is one of those people that I can’t believe comments on the same blog as me. . .I mean that in a good way, I think. He’s one of those people that make me feel insignificant in comparison to, a little bug. He’s so BIG, and I’m just this insignificant fat chick that writes about music and sometimes, half-baked theology and philosophy. While he’s . . . he’s so . . . him. Yanno? Everytime he writes something, I’m like “How did a guy as immense, as real as this, find this little ol’ place?”
. . . but I learned today that when he looks in the mirror, all he sees is the mud, the filth he’s been carrying us through. He sees only the scars, the bones that didn’t set right, or didn’t heal at all. He doesn’t see at all how brightly he shines for us– or at least, for me. He doesn’t see that while all he sees is flames, some of us see a star trying furiously to burn away the glowering clouds and falling night. And I want him to see, even a bit, of what we see. But I don’t know how to say it, in a way that he’ll hear. All I have are stupid jumbled platitudes, useless in the best cases. . .
So I’m hoping that the lot of you will join me in praying that Someone Even Bigger will show him, somehow, what I wish I could express.
Thank you.
Amen, Zophiel. He IS a hero.
Amen. My prayers join yours.
“But I don’t know how to say it, in a way that he’ll hear. All I have are stupid jumbled platitudes, useless in the best cases. . . “
Ditto. My prayers are going out as well.
I can’t find the words, Zophiel, and if you can’t either, then we had better pray about it! I will.
I think I might have missed something, and yet I’m pretty sure I know who you’re talking about. Can somebody e-mail me a link? Thank you.
My prayers go out to him.
Look at “Thought”
Thank you!
Prayers for him right now. God knows that he is not what he is feeling. May he know it also. My heart is touched Z and I will continue to pray for your request.
Let me add my prayers to those of my friends, prayers that he’ll someday realize “how brightly he shines”… for all of us.
Adding mine as well. And since “where two or more are gathered….” I have faith that our prayers are answered.
God works in mysterious ways and if enough of us tap into that energy it can’t do anything but lead to good things.
Well said, and all true, Zophie. Thank you for this.
Prayers added.
Amen. May be I should learn to shut up and learn to read before.
Send him the second paragraph of your post. I don’t think it can be said any better.
And I think you need a dose of your own medicine, girlfriend: “insignificant fat chick” is so self-deprecating and so wrong on so many levels, it’s a good thing we are separated by several times zones and a huge ocean and a lack of funds for me to book a flight, or else I would hop the next one to your doorstep and smack you upside the head. To me, you are Wonder Woman.
Big hugs from ZurichMike
As usual, you have the pulse of the Treehouse. We love our ZMs. Both of them.
To that I add a big AMEN.
Consider me smacked! ^_^
And here’s the theme song for Wonder Woman (get up and dance!):
my sentiments exactly, Zophiel…
The Lord doesn’t care much about medals. HE is big however on scars.
Prayers up!
“I’m just this insignificant fat chick ”
That sentence has been bugging me since you posted it but I’m just getting around to addresssing it. You may have meant it as a joke but it stuck in my head.
Don’t ever say any of that again, ever ever ever. None of it is true except the chick part. You are beautiful and smart (like, really smart) and funny and thoughtful and amazingly clever.
+100%
Dittos from ZurichMike, who himself is not exactly Adonis.
Tilda is right. Don’t beat yourself down – ever. And don’t let anybody else do it either. Positive thoughts, my dear. The negative ones will be shunned! I am so glad that you have chosen to spend your time with us, because everything you contribute is positive.
P.S.: The Wonder Woman image (thanks Mike and Tilda) is a good one, but to me you are a shining star!
You lot shall swell my ego beyond all bounds!
Okay, I must admit that my self image is not. . . positive. I know my strengths, but I abhor my weaknesses. I know that most of the weight problem kicked off from the steroids they gave me to buffer my system against the chemo all those years ago, and I know I’ve been slowly fixing the problem . . . But the outside still doesn’t match the inside, you know? And. . . denial is not something I want to five in to. . . it’s frustrating, but. . .
And . . . the “insignificant” bit . . . I suppose that’s really a product of my continual self-comparisons (yes, yes, I know! I should know better than anyone how false such things can be, but it’s a terrible habit I’ve yet to break!)
But I do thank you for your kind words. Just remember, I am a classically trained soprano, so I know a thing or two about ego! *snickers*
ZurichMike here. Personal request. For me. As you know, I am in a holding pattern for a job pending the lifting of a hiring freeze. It’s agonizing. I also just poured my heart and soul into another set of interviews for another company last week, and I am exhausted, can’t sleep, and have a feeling I did not do well enough. It’s all so depressing. As you know, when the Lord passed out patience, I was on the other side of the universe. Please pray that I have the patience to wait and see what is in store for me.
Thanks.
Dear Mike – I will definitely be praying for you. Things will work out for the best, I’m positive of it!
Many prayers coming your way, Mike, for patience, and for the job. God be with you. All Treepers are in my prayers everyday, but I like to come here and find the specific needs I need to pray for.
Prayers for your patience, ZM, because I’m sure you’ll get the job.
I have been there my brother from another mother. We are all gonna keep you in our prayers.
Prayers from one ZM for another ZM, buddy! Definitely praying for you!
I am keeping you in my prayers. He must have passed me on too, when it comes to patience. God has the best plans for you, don’t worry. It’s the truth.
When you pray for patience, Our Lord – in His wisdom – provides you with opportunities to “learn patience”.
I shall, instead, pray that you find Strength, ZM, to withstand the slings, arrows and interminable waiting involved in your job search.
(The only things I ever pray for [for myself] — Strength, Honor, Wisdom, Courage. With them, all is possible.)
Oh, I like that Sol…. and am joining in prayer for the same. Keep us posted ZMike!
Please pray for my friend Edna. She recently lost her husband of over 43 years. I ran into her at 11:00 Mass today, and she told me. It breaks my heart because I know how deeply they loved each other.
Adding to prayers today. May God carry her through the sand and let her recognize the footprints as being His, Amen
Will do. But, what a blessing in these days, to have a marriage and a love that lasted so long!
Definitely. It’s always painful when you lose a loved one. My heart goes out to your friend. It touched me in more ways than one as my parents would be celebrating their 43rd anniversary next week.
I’m so sorry… adding my prayers as well.
Admittedly, I don’t come to this thread as often as I should and I have recently decided that is going to change. In any case, I want to ask for prayers for a friend of mine. This girl’s story is just amazing and so inspiring to me. First she had a son that was born at 24-25 weeks and survived! Through lots of faith and prayers he is one of the cutest things ever and had he been born when he was due would have been born right around the same time as my little guy. Anyway, because of this she could not have more children but had so much love to give, they adopted a little boy from China. Most of the time you hear about adoptions from China they are girls because you know how that culture values girls…not. But this little boy has special needs so he was also in need of some loving parents as well. He has some sort of hip problem and has just gone through another surgery just last week…this one being more invasive and hard on him than the previous ones. His name is JiaHao and I swear he is so darn cute my husband and look at the pictures and seriously consider adopting another one if he could be as full of happiness and joy as this little guy. Not sure if this picture is accessible as it’s from Facebook but either way, you can take my word for it. Anyway, here is the latest request for prayers after he’s gotten a staph infection at the hospital. Thanks all, I really appreciate it.
Prayers Needed for JiaHao’s Infection…
Hello All,
Over the past few days JiaHao has developed a staff infection from his time at the hospital (with a weak immune system). His poor little body is covered in sores and under his cast. He is in a lot of discomfort and is itching. It is very contagious and so that brings challenges for our family as well. We are doing our best to help him as the medicines start to work.
Please pray for him and for us. This is not what we had hoped for after surgery. We are just learning exactly what kind of staff infection he has. Pray that the antibiotics that they gave him are the correct ones so we can get this taken care of.
Pray especially for JiaHao’s itching and the cast discomfort. Also that Brett, Mark and I would not get the infection.
Thank you for praying for us,
The Moyers
On it G8trmum!
I add my prayers for this little one and his family. Please keep us posted.
Prayers for this little Angel, and his family!
OK, let’s get with the program, guardian angels. Coffee break’s over. This kid needs some help. Now. Don’t make be go all honey badger on you.
ZurichMike (furiously tapping his foot and sending out some serious prayers)
Prayers for JiaHao – such a cutie!
Prayers added….
What a doll baby. Praying for a quick and complete recovery and for his comfort.
Thanks all…I haven’t gotten an update on how he’s doing and whether the staph infection is getting sufficiently squashed. I’ll keep you posted though.
I forgot that they have a little blog for JiaHao on CaringBridge…anyway, he got terrible boils and blisters from the infection (they assume) and were referred to the ER but they didn’t want to deal with the ER in his condition…so they got him in with a referral from his doctors and here is the latest status posted today…poor little guy…Mom and JiaHao have not gotten much sleep as he is in a lot of discomfort and of course Mom is well…a Mom.
JiaHao was admitted to the Hosiptal this morning, he is doing ok they are giving him medicine, but he has hard veins and they want to put in a pic-line and that wont happen due to a backup until tomorrow. Please pray that somehow he can get moved up that they are able to get an IV and pic-line going. Please pray for all the coordination and wisdom to the doctors. Thank you all
My neighbors needs some prayers. She has non-Hodgkins lymphoma, which can’t be treated right now until she’s off blood thinning medication she took after throwing a clot after emergency surgery last year. This week her husband found out he has a spot on his lung — cancer. They are elderly, have only a few friends nearby, and their families live in the US and Germany — not an easy commute. I brought some brownies and just listened to their tales of hospital visits and bad news. My “project” (while waiting for a job to come through) just presented itself: I will drive them to treatment and doctor’s appointments, and do some cooking for them, and walk the dog if they don’t feel like going out. I also told them I know devout people who will pray for them. I know you won’t let me down.
While you’re praying, I am going to go outside for a minute and curse and scream at the evil of disease and disfigurement.
Thanks from an infuriated ZurichMike
Oh, Mike……I do believe that YOU are an angel. I will pray my hardest for this good couple…..
what WeeWeed said… Mike, you are truly a blessing to so many. Adding my prayers as well.
I’m on it!
Adding to prayers now
I will definitely pray for them!
Prayers for this couple, as well as thankfulness for the gift of your presence in their lives.
You’re a good man, Mike! I will definitely pray for your good neighbors. Getting old sucks! Like my mom used to say, “Getting old isn’t for sissies”.
I add my prayers for this couple, and give thanks for all the assistance you are giving them. I will keep them in my daily prayers. You are such a good man. God bless you.
Thank God for people like you. You have no idea what kind of positive impact this will have on them and YOU. Prayers offered up.
DH had two more biopsies done on his nose/face a week ago yesterday, as they still had not reached the c-cell-free area they are always seeking. Yesterday the surgeon told him they still have not reached cancer-free tissue, either on his nose or on his cheek. Therefore, they move to the next option: he filled a prescription today for a cream that is to be applied 2X daily with the intended purpose of creating a chemical burn over the area. When the skin peels as a result of that burn, it will sometimes then remove all the cancer cells with it. This process takes about a month as we understand it.
Oh Sharon, I’m very sorry to hear that this is still in progress. Always a difficult and gutwrenching thing to go through. Praying now.
DH had some of this done several years ago – it will look terrible for awhile and he initially had a reaction to the salve (in our case, the lymph nodes swelled up in his neck and it looked almost as bad as mumps.) Prayers that it will finish it up for him; it’s been more than 10 years for us!
Ah dear. I’ll be praying for both of you, dear. . .
Ugh…I know the skin cancer well. So sorry to hear this. I just saw some YouTube video posted by one of my anarchist naturalist hippie friends about some salve that works for skin cancer and it sort of sounds like what Wee Weed describes in her post. I think this stuff was called black salve, or something like that. In any case, prayers are forthcoming.
Sharon, I can’t think of anyone with a more solid faith than you have. That said, I’m so sorry that it’s being tested in this way. Offering my own prayers joined with those of everyone here. and cyber hugs for good measure. xx
I pray that he will have a complete and rapid recovery. God bless you both. I know this has been a terrible ordeal for you.
You are all in our prayers for a speedy resolution to this nasty stuff.
What is it with cancer cases these days! Argh! Prayers coming your way . . . .
Thanks, all. DH also appreciates your hearts and prayers very much. We talked about it tonight, along the lines of, Yeah, we don’t like this much, but there will be a way through. Nobody gets to write out perfect details for their lives, and we know we don’t walk it alone. Thanks again.
Right on.
Plus inevitable “AMEN”
Some good news about JiaHao…thanks all…they are definitely feeling your prayers!
Thank you Lord!
Hello all of our amazing and prayerful friends and family!
JiaHao got out of his procedure earlier today with two successes!
They were able to recast him with his hips staying in place. We even got to pick a new color (blue like “Blues Clues”). Now we can be sure that his cast is free from infection.
They also were able to find a strong enough route (vein? artery? I’m not sure what it’s called) to put in a picline.
He woke up out of anestesia very hungry so he ate 2 popsicles and a bag of Goldfish. We were so happy about this.
When we returned to his room he seemed like a new boy. A clean cast a a picline to now get the proper meds that he needs.
The wound care nurse came to give him a bath as well as change his dressings on his leisions.
At this time he is up and down as far as feeling good or not. He told me that it hurts where his picline is. Not at the IV site but where it is placed inside of him (in his chest) close to his heart. The nurse said it was normal to “feel” it inside of your chest. She gave him some Morphine just to help him sleep tonight and for his chest to stop bothering him.
We are so thankful and amazed to all of you who are keeping up on JiaHao and praying for him and loving him from afar. Thank you all so very much for everything!!!!!
When I am overhwhelmed I pray but I also remember all of you who are praying along with us and caring so much about him. A friend sent this verse to me.
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous hand.”. Isaiah 41:10
Thank you all and we will send an update tomorrow.
The Moyers
^__^ Poor kid– I had a pic line once, and it’s a totally weird feeling. You can indeed feel it inside of you, all the way up from the elbow to the chest, and it feels . . . well, danged peculiar. Not right.
Glad he’s getting the treatment he needs, and seems to be responding well to it!
Great news. Glad his guardian angels “got the message” from us!
I haven’t been able to write here often in the last few days, but this little one has been in my prayers. I am so glad he’s responding well to his treatment. Sending more prayers and love on his way.
Today I lay my fathers body to rest. Please say a quick prayer for my mother, that God give her physical strength to carry her through this very tough day. They’ve been married 60 years. God Blessed you All!
I will pray for your mother, for you, and for all in your family on this difficult day.
Prayers to you and yours. I will be thinking of you today.
Prayers for all of you on this long day, GFC.
Prayers for your family today, GFC.
I’m praying there will be some sweet and unexpected breeze of comfort touching your mother’s heart….for yourself and all the other family as well.
My prayers for your mother, and your family. May she find strength and comfort in her family and her faith.
Wow. 60 years together.
Prayers coming your way.
Thank you all and Bless your kind hearts. And so it begins!
Your family will be in my prayers today, GFC. Especially your dear mother.
Prayers up. The Lord’s love is limitless.
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers GFC.
I wanted to thank all of you for sharing your prayers with me and my family We laid to rest my father this past Saturday on our property. I thank you from the depths of my soul for all of your kindness. I also wanted to share with you what my father has been for us as a community. He and my mother have raised “likeminded” children and walked in God’s path throughout my life. They have laid a great foundation for my brothers, sisters and I to, in turn, raise our children to also be “likeminded” in Spirit and soul. May I live to fulfill his legacy.
The following passage from the bible depicts more than any what my Father and Mother have been and done for us .
And I, brethren, when I came to you, came not with excellency of speech or of wisdom, declaring unto you the testimony of God.
For I determined not to know anything among you, except Jesus Christ, and him crucified.
And I was with you in weakness, and in fear, and in much trembling.
And my speech and my preaching were not with enticing words of man’s wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power:
That your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God.
The Wisdom of God’s Spirit
But we speak wisdom among them that are mature: yet not the wisdom of this world, nor of the princes of this world, that come to nothing:
But we speak the wisdom of God in a mystery, even the hidden wisdom, which God ordained before the world unto our glory:
Which none of the princes of this world knew: for had they known it, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory.
But as it is written, Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God has prepared for them that love him.
But God has revealed them unto us by his Spirit: for the Spirit searches all things, yea, the deep things of God.
For what man knows the things of a man, except the spirit of man which is in him? even so the things of God knows no man, but the Spirit of God.
Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is of God; that we might know the things that are freely given to us of God.
Which things also we speak, not in the words which man’s wisdom teaches, but which the Holy Spirit teaches; comparing spiritual things with spiritual.
But the natural man receives not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.
But he that is spiritual judges all things, yet he himself is judged of no man.
For who has known the mind of the Lord, that he may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.
It was our great honor to stand with you spiritually as you and your family paid your final respects to your father. Our prayers continue to be with you all, and especially your mother. God bless you as you complete the journey your father has so successfully completed.
I’m so glad you were able to clear all the permits and make all arrangements to start your family memorial site there on your property. As Menagerie says, it’s been our great honor to stand with you in this time. I will continue to pray that the Lord comforts your good mother. In the weeks after my mother was widowed, we tried to make sure someone was with her all the time, but there were a few days where she was alone. She claims that an experience during that time greatly helped her get through her grief. One morning, she awoke and sat on the edge of the bed, overcome by loneliness, completely unmotivated to pray her morning rosary. She missed him so much that she prayed to be able to know whether he was ok. Immediately a feeling of intense warmth came over her, and she felt the sensation of arms wrapped around her. For a long time, she felt nothing but peace. I pray that your mom gets this kind of comfort and more, in these next years and in the next life as well.
Thank you Grunt! And thank you for your friendship as well. Your mother sounds like a very blessed woman and you must be very proud of her. The Rosary has been a family way of life for us as my parents said one together every day of their married life together from day one. We continue with that as we stongly believe that the family which prays together stays together. My mother will always have one of us beside her all the days of her life. One of the blessings from her many years of raising 15 children to take care of each other as Christians should.
Thak you Menagerie, as well. You have been most kind.
God our Father, we give you thanks
for the gift of marriage: the bond of life and love,
and the font of the family.
The love of husband and wife enriches your Church with children,
fills the world with a multitude of spiritual fruitfulness and service,
and is the sign of the love of your Son, Jesus Christ, for his Church.
The grace of Jesus flowed forth at Cana at the
request of the Blessed Mother. May your Son,
through the intercession of Mary, pour out upon us
a new measure of the Gifts of the Holy Spirit
as we join with all people of good will
to promote and protect the unique beauty of marriage.
May your Holy Spirit enlighten our society
to treasure the heroic love of husband and wife,
and guide our leaders to sustain and protect
the singular place of mothers and fathers
in the lives of their children.
Father, we ask that our prayers
be joined to those of the Virgin Mary,
that your Word may transform our service
so as to safeguard the incomparable splendor of marriage.
We ask all these things through Christ our Lord,
Amen
Amen.
Update on JiaHao…if you are a parent get a tissue…I can’t get through reading it without actually feeling the agony of this Mom. This is a very long and thorough story of what happened with this sweet child but I assure you it has a happy ending (and will uplift your faith for sure)…
Hello Everyone,
Hope this post is not too long or too informative… Hope you can hang in there for the whole thing…
As you know the past two weeks have been so much more than we expected for JiaHao. But as a friend reminded me they were no surprise for God.
Somewhere during the time of JiaHao’s 2nd surgery stay at the hospital he developed a Staph Infection. Unlike his 1st surgery, he was prescribed stool softener (which is supposedly normal after surgery). After 2 days of nonstop diarria Brett was finally able to convince the nurses to stop giving it to JiaHao. Not until we got home did we realize that there were reminisce of stool up inside JiaHao’s cast. Enough that it took me 2 hours to clean. JiaHao had what looked like a diaper rash as a result of this and so that is how I treated it having no idea it was the first stage of a very bad Staph Infection.
We have learned that Staph is all around all of us every day. But when your immune system is weak (Like JiaHao’s was) and you have an open cut or sores (like he did from the stool giving him a very bad rash) than you have a much greater chance of infection getting in.
The next day in every visible location JiaHao had sores developing. I called the surgeon but she said it was unrelated to surgery and to take him to his pediatrician. I did and right away he recognized it as Staph Infection. He started JiaHao on an antibiotic and anti-itch lotion.
The following day the sores were much larger and were multiplying. I called him to ask if it was supposed to get worse before it got better. He said no and scheduled us right away to go to a Pediatric Dermatologist. They also recognized it as Staph and added a couple more antibiotics to our pile of meds. That was Tuesday afternoon.
By Tuesday evening JiaHao’s sores had turned into large bubbles (the size of large grapes sitting on his skin). He was in extreme discomfort and unfortunately we did not have 3-5 days for the antibiotics to kick in. He was going mad for hours wishing we could itch his poor little skin. Brett and I finally (as you know) made the decision to take him to the Emergency Room in the middle of the night. I was afraid that they would question our situation too much and just send us home again with more meds. Thankful they did not. We knew to go to the same hospital where JiaHao had the surgery (and where he developed the infection :p) so that his surgeon at some point could see if his infection was under his cast.
After two hours of people scratching thier heads and the Emergency Room doctors giving JiaHao a drug to help him sleep (he had not slept for about 50 hours) we were admitted to the 9th floor of the hospital.
My father Ken came with me to the Emergency Room so he stayed with JiaHao in the room while doctors and nurses questioned me for nearly 2 hours. By the end of that day JiaHao had not just doctors and nurses coming in but teams of them to figure out exactly what it was and the severity that JiaHao had.
Once the decision was made that JiaHao needed strong antibiotics as well as a prescription anti-itch med the beginnings of trying to get an IV in JiaHao began. From past surgeries we know that it takes an anesthesia team 1 1/2 hours to place an IV on JiaHao when he is UNDER. Imagine trying to get one started on him when he is awake and already in so much pain.
That day JiaHao had suffered so much that I truly was in disbelief that a human could suffer so much and not give up. Honestly. I know it may sound dramatic but his eyes just kept starting at me usually crying in pain like I cannot believe that you are going to let one more person try to put a needle in me or try to shove a syringe down my throat to give me meds. I know that all sounds really detailed but that is how hour after hour was while the doctors and nurses were trying to get meds and IVs in him to stop this infection.
They tried 8 different people to start an IV on him. Even the best nurse they had from the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit and the one of the best anesthesiologists. They said our next step was to put a pic line in JiaHao. It is a long IV that runs from his forearm to his heart. He would have to go under for this and we had to wait in line because the hospital was so busy. The next day (Thursday) they would plan to put a picline in JiaHao. In the meantime we received a visit from his surgeon (who was in disbelief at the intensity of his infection). The Infectious Disease Team happened to be there in the room at the same time and Brett discussed with everyone about replacing JiaHao’s cast to check for infection as well as stool. They said that it was not a bad idea but a decision would have to be made.
Thankfully the next morning the surgeon agreed to squeeze JiaHao in to replace his cast while he was under for the pic line insertion.
As you know he received a new cast as well as a picline that day. They were able to start him on IV meds (which is the strength that he needed) right away. He also awoke to a new clean blue cast which he was happy about. It only took a couple of days for the infection to begin its way out of JiaHao’s body. We were so thankful for that.
Friday was a good day. JiaHao got some rest and was eating. Although he was not able to leave his room the entire stay he seemed to be entertained enough (even with a broken hospital TV). Thanks Dada for the laptop…!
Eventually he began to stop eating and drinking. Not until he started to show me that his stomach hurt did we realize that he was having acid reflux and an upset stomach from all of the meds that had been given in the past few weeks and especially all of the strong ones that he was now on for not only his hip and femur reconstruction but the Staph Infection. They started him on a prescription antacid but he still would not eat or drink for us. As you know he was also getting depressed. I hated to see this because the real JiaHao was long gone. He would just stare at me and hopelessly scratch his little arms and hands out of restlessness and feeling sick.
By Sunday we had to make a decision… Should we go home so that maybe a different atmosphere would help him to eat and drink. The thing was was that he would then have to take ALL of his meds by mouth. By this point JiaHao was so tired of having meds by mouth (it has been since Jan. 11th, his 1st hip surgery). I (mom) was so tired of trying more and more tricks to get him to take his meds. Every nurse he had had their own tricks as well. Everything from putting the syringe all the way down his throat till he was forced to swallow to a drop at a time while hanging out and talking, even if it took an hour per med…
We had the option to go home with the picline still in but I was too afraid the he or Mark may play with it or worse pull it out! Yikes! I did not want to do that.
So that we could go home without the picline we had to prove that JiaHao would take his meds by mouth (so that the Staph Infection would not come back). We had 4 different nurses as well as myself try to get him to take the meds to show that we could go home. All JiaHao ended up doing was throwing up for the next 2 hours because of everyone trying.
Brett was home with Mark when all of this was going on and so I was feeling really overwhelmed. JiaHao was getting depressed so we wanted to go home but we couldn’t unless he could prove that he could take his meds orally. I called Brett and we made the decision to stay one more night so that the doctors could teach us in the morning how to care for JiaHao’s picline at home. We figured we had no choice because we couldn’t get the much needed meds in him by mouth. I was still feeling overwhelmed because JiaHao and I would have one more sleepless night. I asked JiaHao if he wanted to pray with me and he shook his head no. By this point he knew that when we prayed over him something was going on and he was tired of it all. I prayed for God to help me because I was overwhelmed about everything that had happened.
I walked just outside of his room after praying to just call my mom to ask her to pray with me. She said that she had to call me right back not realizing what was going on. By the time I walked back in the room (just minutes later) JiaHao had pulled out his pic line! All 6 layers of bandages, tape AND the actually tube that ran from his forearm to his heart.
I almost passed out from seeing the tube sitting on his chest covered in blood. I got the strength to run out of his room to call for his nurse. When I tried to call her name it was like a dream where you are calling for someone but nothing comes out of your mouth. I finally kept running towards her and calling her name. When she finally looked at me I told her that he had pulled it out! She and about 6 other nurses and one doctor went running into his room. I could hear his nurse saying as she ran to the room, “He’s going to bleed.”
When we all got to his room he looked up at us and said it the happiest voice, “I go Home!”
We all laughed burst out laughing! We all, especially JiaHao needed that laugh. He ended up not bleeding as a result of pulling it out. He kept looking at all of us with a smile (that we had not seen in a long time) like he was so very proud of himself!! It’s like he knew that if he pulled it out, he got to go home! What a little bugger! He has a very good record now… He has pulled out 3 IVs (each one in the middle of the night while Brett and I are sleeping for each of his 3 surgeries) and 1 picline!!!
Needless to say were discharged that night because there was nothing more they could do at the hospital. By the time we got to the lobby of the hospital he was eating a bag of Baked Lays and waving at everyone. There was my JiaHao!!!
We are home now and he is doing wonderfully! The doctors were able to give us as many meds in “powder form” as possible so that we can sneak it in his foods. Even really strong powdered meds I am able to sneak into ice cream. Praise the Lord for powdered meds!!!
Each difficult step that JiaHao had to go through was so unsure and scary for us. Each time we had to depend on God to show us what His decision was. For example it felt like we were running out of options for how to get the meds in him by IV. There was a chance that the picline placement would have been unsuccessful. God made a way for this to happen.
As a mom going through all of this you look at God and say, “Why are we going through this? Look God I am right here begging you to make this pain stop in JiaHao and yet we are running into more and more troubles as we go. I just continue to pray to you Lord even if it’s just thoughts in my head for what I want to happen so that JiaHao can get better.” There is a Christian song that I been listening to this past week that says.
I can’t find the words to say
Life gets in the way
Lord You know my heart’s desire
When it all comes down
To what You are
Words cannot convey
When it all comes down
To who You are
Words get in the way.
That is how I felt. I said, “God it is obvious what JiaHao needs right now. You know that and so do we. Please show us why he is going through this. We know that times like this make us depend on you every minute and that makes us as close to you as we can be.” This is a difficult but such a strong time with God. We don’t know why JiaHao had to go through all of this but maybe someday we will.
Well anyway that is JiaHao’s story from the past couple weeks. If you read all of this thanks and thank you for praying for JiaHao and keeping up with everything going on.
This is the Bible verse that a sweet little friend sent to JiaHao in a card.
Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 5:2
Love,
Julia and Brett
Abbreviated version: Little kid is sick. Doctors do what they can. Not enough without prayers. Treepers pray with concerned family. Kid kicks butt in the hospital and is home. Mom and Dad and kid still need our prayers.
We’re on it.
Amen!
Let’s do it!
Yes, we are indeed on it. So glad that he is better.
Amen!!
Neighbor updates as of 30 minutes ago:
1. Wife’s non-Hodgkins lymphoma is in inactive status after splenectomy, meaning no treatment needed, only check-up every three months. She is also off the blood thinner regime. Yippee! A prayer of thanks, please!
2. Husband has a procedure Monday to open chest, take biopsy of upper chest tissue that had an odd reading from radio isotope test, keep him under anesthesia until biopsy results come back. If results are negative for upper chest tissue, this means cancer has not spread, so continue operation and remove lower lung lobe where the cancer is isolated. If upper chest tissue results are positive for cancer, close chest and arrange chemo / radiation therapy. It’s not the best news, but there is hope and at least progress. He is very upset, and she is upset for him. I did my best to cheer him up and be an optimist. A prayer for healing and strength, please!
ZurichMike update:
Going back for second round of interviews on Monday. A prayer for strength and illumination, please!
Thanks to all you in advance.
ZurichMike
Bunches of prayers headed your direction, ZM!! Good luck to YOU as well on Monday!
As always Mike, praying for the best outcome in all your endeavors.
Prayers coming for you and your neighbors!
Thanks for the updates. Our prayers continue to be with you and your neighbors.
ZMike, you are a prince among men. Prayers for your (lucky to have you) friends and for you as well. Thank you for the updates! I know you’ll be amazing in your interviews!
We’re on it, ZM!
I am asking for prayers for my husband. He has been very sick, and unable to sleep all week. I pray for healing and rest for him. Thanks so much for all your prayers.
Prayers up for both you and your husband.
Prayers for good health for Mr. Menagerie, and peace of mind for you, Menage.
Praying for you both…
I will certainly pray for him!
Thank you for asking Menagerie. I will keep both of you in our prayers.
Was wondering what was keeping you away this week! He may be faking. That’s what I always do when I have to take care of Mrs. Grunt for an extended illness, like your wounded paw. Usually fake a little pneumonia or a minor chainsaw accident afterward to get a little wifey love. He deserves it, though.
Asking for St. Joe’s prayers right now and will say a rosary later after work.
Awww, Menage.. praying for you both.. for healing, for peace of mind, for uninterrupted sleep…..
I am deeply grateful to all of you. Short term, he has a bad cold and cough. He also seems to have some other problems going on too, though, and I am just very worried about him. Thanks for the prayers, and know that I return all of them to you.
Always keep in mind the vital role of faith in healing…
Prayers on the way!
Praying for hubby Menage, and you as well.
Thanks so much Gracie.
O Lord,
The house of my soul is narrow;
enlarge it that you may enter in.
It is ruinous, O repair it!
It displeases Your sight.
I confess it, I know.
But who shall cleanse it,
to whom shall I cry but to you?
Cleanse me from my secret faults, O Lord,
and spare Your servant from strange sins.
–St. Augustine of Hippo (AD 354-430)
How is hubby doing? I hope and pray that he is better.
Yes, it’s important that he be able to enjoy Fat Tues. Prayers for Mr. Menagerie!
Much better on the cold, but the possible gall bladder problem is worse. Trying to work on the diet to improve that. Thanks to all for the prayers. He is in quite a bit of pain.
A friend’s mother was visiting my friend and the mother had what she thought was just a fever and a cold, and then collapsed. Found out she has breast cancer that spread to her lungs. When she was stabilized, my friend flew her home and the doctors are having a “family consultation” tomorrow to discuss next steps. Doesn’t sound good. Just got back from my interview (went well, thank the Lord and you Treepers for your prayers), but haven’t found out how it’s going with the neighbor with the lung cancer spot. I tried calling, and no one is home, which may be a good thing — meaning he had the operation to remove the localized cancerous lobe. Will keep you posted, but I am surrounded by stories of cancer lately, which helps keep my own issues in perspective, but we need a lot of prayers for my friend and her mother and family, as well as the neighbor.
Thanks.
Of Course, ZM. You and all those you care for are in my prayers. The Friend, the friend’s Mom, the neighbor, you. . . I do hope it’s not something in the environment.
I shall do that, ZMike. We’ll offer your dear ones, and every single prayer request here, to the unconditional love and mercy of our Lord.
OK, GREAT NEWS coming your way! Just checked with the neighbor’s wife (wife got good news last week that her non-Hodgkins lymphoma is inactive after the splenectomy, therefore no treatment needed). Her husband had the surgery yesterday afternoon, and the nodule on the lung and the funny-looking tissue at the top of the lung were removed and full biopsy done. It’s not cancer. IT’S NOT CANCER. It’s a rare but easily treated fungal infection that gives a false-positive reading for cancer during radio-isotope tests. They are so happy, and when the wife told me I starting weeping in thanks. This is a wonderful “present” just before Lent. Thank you, Lord Jesus, for getting them (and me) through this. Thank you, dear Treepers, for your prayers.
Praising God…..what wonderful new Mike!
“The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much” (James 5:16).
That is truly wonderful news! You are a good friend and neighbor, Mike.
Extra glad to hear it, Mike! Woot! You’re a good man.
Excellent news, ZM!! I’m so happy for them, and for you getting through your interview. Now to work on prayers for your friend’s mom….
Giving thanks for the blessings to you and your friends and my prayers go out for your friend’s mother. I hope that her news will be just as good. Thanks to you and keep us updated please.
My daughter in law needs prayers please. Her baby is due in less than 3 weeks, and the doctor says she may have to have a C section. This is very upsetting to her, and she is afraid. Please pray for her and the baby and doctor. I myself do not trust that the doctor legitimately has diagnosed a need for this. I pray he will make a correct determination, with the needs of mother and baby first, and for strength and comfort for my DIL.
Oh, Menage…. I am sorry. Prayers of course for all of them, but why, suddenly? It will be so hard on her. She’s in my thoughts daily – now I will pray harder.
Of course will pray for them. So sorry about the worries.
oh gosh, Menage… praying for all of you.
Doctor may have said that as part of a standard “defensive medicine” mindset. Let’s hope (and pray) that is the only reason why the topic came up.
ZM
I shall certainly pray for them. Pregnancy is fretful enough as is. . .
My niece’s daughter is having seizures. Please pray for her, and especially that the doctors will be able to find what is causing the problem.
Prayers up!
We are on it Menagerie (and thank you for asking) to start now….
Of course, Menage – poor baby. Prayers for all of the family.
Will do, Menage. That’s scary stuff. Oldest son had them when he was very young. Had to carry him out of church once during a bad seizure (think it was the choir – they’ve almost given ME a seizure a couple of times). But he stopped having them and hasn’t had one for over 10 years. Hopefully, your niece’s daughter will also grow out of them.
Prayers for you all Menage….
oh gosh… so sorry Menage. adding my prayers to the others
Thank you all so much. I really appreciate it. Remember last year when I asked everyone to pray for my niece because she went into labor early, and Sarah Isabella was born 3 months early? You guys prayed before and after her birth. I’d like to share the results of your efforts now, and thank you again.
Awwwwwwwww.
Just to clarify – the niece with seizures is another child, not Sarah. She is 6 years old. Sorry I did not explain that too well.
That there is a doll.
What a doll-baby! Thanks for the update!!
Please say a quick prayer for my oldest daughter who is having surgery to remove a wisdom tooth with the roots up against that little tube between ear and mouth. It is painful and touchy situation. God Bless You All.
Will do, GFC. Prayers up.
Praying right now. Hope everything goes well for her, and the pain is over soon.
Been there GFC…..prayers on their way.
Prayers up!
Absolutely, GFC. Prayers that it’s easier than it sounds and quick healing!
I’m late to this thread, and hope it was a success.
Update: Thank you all for the quick response of prayers. My daughter’s surgery went very well. She is home and confortable. Infection is the enemy of healing (kinda reminds me of politics) but the good Lord hears all of our prayers. Mahalo, and God Bless You All!
Prayers for a quick recovery!
Is your daughter on antibiotics? I know lots of colleagues consider it overkill but I figure “So What?”. It’s better than getting an infection.
My great niece has been diagnosed with epilepsy. Please pray for her and her family. They are very worried and so upset. Thanks so much.
I’m so sorry to hear this news. Prayers are on their way.
Prayers going up now for the whole family.
Prayers from me, too. At least there is a diagnosis and now it’s a matter of handling it, which is much better these days then it was 30-50 years ago.
Prayers up! Be grateful for this quick and readily managed diagnosis.
Thank you all so much. My brother called me for comfort and reassurance and I pray that I was able to give him words of comfort. They are very afraid, just finding out what they will have to deal with, and of course, everyone fears any trouble for their child or grandchild. Thank you so much for praying for my family.
I’m praying too!
Prayers for all of them, Menagerie. I know they’re worried.
Prayers on the way!
Joining in with my prayers too….
Please pray for a friend of mine. She is undergoing a brain MRI to diagnose possible multiple sclerosis. She has 4 small kids ~and a very tall dh~
Prayers going up now. Immediately for express delivery
OMG. On it! Keep up informed.
9 people in our area sent to the hospital with injuries, one by Lifeforce flight. Many people homeless. I pray for victims of the storms today, wherever they occurred. Many people in other areas were affected, and we had no deaths in our immediate area.
That’s terrible! I will pray for those who are injured, or have lost their homes.
Prayers up for all the storm victims.
Storms Opening Prayer
We come together to pray for our neighbors – south, west, east and north – who are suffering from storms. Yesterday we saw many communities face the fury of wind. May the winds and the rains spare them further trouble as they come to grips with the storms’ aftermath. Today may they know the kindness of strangers, the help of neighbors, and the courage to continue. Amen
Nice prayer. Amen.
Fortitude, please. Trying to help (long distance) guide some elderly guardians of the severely disabled to take legal action to protect their rights against an encroaching liberal state (need I say more?). The state is sending out misinformation by the truckload that only serve to frighten, confuse, and dishearten the guardians about housing choices for their wards. It is shamefully immoral as it is illegal. I know the new rallying cry is “I am Andrew Breitbart” — but I’d rather cry out to these nanny-state do-gooders “Get thee behind me, Satan!” Need some power from on high for that.
On it Mike. Stay strong and God bless.
Oh my– on it! You know we gotcha!
ZM, you are doing God’s work! If you need legwork done in Louisiana, I’m happy to help in any way that I can. Praying for strength for you, and those that you are helping!
I didn’t know where to post this, so I am sharing this here. My talks about Patrician brothers reminded of my years of singing this song at school. Prayer of St. Francis.
One of my all time favorite songs that we sing today. Thanks for sharing it with us.
We are leaving soon for the hospital where Sadie will be born at noon. Her mother is having a C section, and I ask for prayers for a safe procedure for mother and daughter. And could you guys maybe say a little extra prayer that the grandmother will behave well and stay calm? No use wasting your time on dignified.
I pray, in the name of Jesus Christ, for the doctors, nurses, and staff perform their work with wisdom, knowledge, and understanding. I pray that mother and daughter emerge safely from the procedure and that everyone in your family experiences joy today.
Amen.
Amen. And please don’t let them sedate Grandma.
Amen. But maybe a little sedation.
May God Bless the entire family today. Give them all a taste of Your Sweet Milk and allow them to savor it. And medicate Grandma with the perfect joy of her new grandchild, Your Gift to this world. And Bless this child that he/she may carry out your will fervently in life. Amen
Thank you all for your beautiful prayers. Sadie arrived beautiful and perfect, dropped into our lives by the hand of God, who gives gifts beyond measure in their value. Seeing your child holding his baby with wonder and tears swirling together in his eyes is one of them.
That is a sweet and tender moment! I look forward to many stories about Sadie in the months/years to come.
Such a blessed thing, Menage. God be praised.
Congratulations to the whole family!
Will you please add my sister Tracy to your prayer list. She is fixing to have spinal surgery and has been told that if she even moves wrong she could be paralyzed from the neck down. They are going to remove part of her spinal column. She is 55 years old. Thank you! Loopyloo305
You got it. Please keep us posted. Positive vibes going out right now.
You betcha. Oh noes that doesn’t sound anything except scary. Will add her to our prayer list for sure. The cracker family will all be sending up thoughts and prayers for your dear Tracy, and she will remain in our prayers for as long as it takes.
Please keep us updated. God bless you and your families.
Will certainly pray for Tracy, Loops. I’m glad you are there for her.
On it right away. God is Good
Adding my prayers as well loopy….
Praying for Tracy!
Absolutely, Loopy – prayers for Tracy and the whole family.
Please keep up posted. Prayers for steady hands and quick healing. Archangel Raphael (healing) and St. Luke (surgeons), call your offices.
adding my prayers as well…
I add my prayers too. May she have a successful surgery and heal fast and well.
We awoke to this dreadful news. I have been weeping a lot. Please pray for them and their families.
http://news.yahoo.com/swiss-bus-crash-kills-28-including-22-children-093145740.html
I just saw this, too – heartfelt prayers for all of them and their grieving families…
Praying for all these families.
oh, so heartbreaking! praying for all
Oh, so tragic. My prayers go up for these families who have lost so much.
Prayers for all those involved in this senseless and horrific crash.
Thank you all for prayers and I will keep you updated. God bless!
Keeping your Tracy in my thoughts and prayers as her surgery nears. I have a SIL named Tracy…almost the same age.
I just learned from her daughter on Facebook that my cousin Elaine had a bad fall and broke her leg, requiring surgery. Please say a prayer for Elaine, and for her daughters, Ann, Laurie, Marcie, and Ruthie. Ruthie is a special needs adult who lives with her mother.
Praying for Elaine and her daughters now. Please keep us posted.
Absolutely – prayers for all of them.
Thanks, guys! Elaine is a good egg who has had a tough life, but she never complains! She lost her husband quite young to a heart attack, and she raised those girls on her own, including a special needs child. She’s a good Christian woman, who lives in an evil liberal town, Davis, CA.
Not just evil and liberal. Davis is situated very close to Hell. That’s why it averages about 200 degrees in the summer time. Will pray for poor Elaine. Thank goodness Obamacare isn’t fully implemented. Pretty sure a broken leg is treated as a “lead deficiency” under Obamacare.
She is in my prayers, God bless you all and just an update, my sister, Tracy, will have her spinal surgery on the 30th!
Praying for Tracy too!
Thank you my friend, it is greatly appreciated.
From cousin Anne, about an hour ago regarding her mom, Elaine:
“Please pray she is in surgery right now. It will be 3 to 4 hours surgery, recovery could be as long as 6 months or longer. Please pray for wisdom for my sisters and I.”
Thanks, Friends, for your prayers.
Will do, Pat. Prayers for Elaine, her daughters and Loopy’s sister, as well.
There is a small devotional book, named ‘God Calling’, that I read whenever I feel the need to comforted and encouraged. I got this message while praying for Elaine and Tracy.
Gleams of Sunlight
Because you have both longed to save My World I let you have that training that shall fit you to save.
Take your pains and sufferings, difficulties and hardships — each day, both of you, and offer them up for one troubled soul, or for some prayer specially needed to be answered.
So the beauty of each day will live on after the trouble and distress, difficulty and pain of the day have passed.
Learn from My Life of the suffering that saves others. So, you will sing in your pain. Across the grayest days there are the gleams of Sunlight.
God is in incharge. Rest assured.
Thank you so much, Shalini.
I will continue my prayers, Pat.
Prayers up! God has your back.
Prayers please for my little sister…she has an infection from the c-section so she has to spend the weekend in the hospital. It’s hard for her to have to spend this time away from her brand new little guy (though her fiancee can bring the baby to the hospital during the day). Throw in a little prayer for the new daddy too, he’s got a lot on his shoulders!
Aww, Tils – poor sis. Of course. Prayers up for all!
I will add them all to my prayers! God bless you all and thank you!
Praying for her right now! Your emotions are all over the place as it is right after your baby is born, and this will just make it harder. The new dad may discover new talents and new pride through it all! I’ll pray for that for him.
Saying prayers now. Be sure to let us know how they are doing.
Ouch…as someone who has had 3 c-sections even without an infection they are not fun to recover from…with an infection I can’t imagine. Hope she gets treated and all better soon! Sorry if I’m late.
Absolutely, Tilda! Praying for sis amd fiancee.
My cuz Elaine had her surgery, and is in the recovery phase now. Here’s the report from daughter Laurie:
“Mom is out of surgery. A lot out of it but doing well. They have her on oxygen and she is sleeping. Doctor said the surgery went well. Her bones were shattered but they were able to put in a rod and plate. Long recovery.”
I think I’ll send her flowers this morning. Thank you everyone for your prayers.
Latest report from my cousin Laurie:
Mom stood up on one foot with a walker 3 times this morning. The doctor is having to re-evaluated his plan for her because she is doing so well. I believe she is being lifted up by your prayers.
They are moving her to skilled nursing today.
Ruthie and I did exercises with her this morning. She is going strong and we are wiped out. Way to go Mom!
Thanks for your continued prayers!
Good news indeed!
“But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.”
Isaiah 40:31
I am at the hospital where my son David is having emergency surgery for gallstones. He also has an infection and some type of calcium deposit. I don’t knoe if that is in the gallbladder yet. Appreciate prayers.
Saying prayers for David while in a meeting. I hope those don’t get canceled out by the evil bureaucratic mojo! Hang in there.
Praying hard here, Menage! Let us know when you can….
Saying prayers, God bless!!
Thanks everyone. He came out of the surgery fine, and he is in the room now. He was able to get down some liquids and also eat lunch. Now he needs to walk a little and keep ice on the incision. He’s doing really well for now.
Ouch. Glad things went well. Here’s a crackerville wish for a speedy recovery. Jello is your friend, and nothing is more fun than slurping jello. Well, maybe cherry flavored pez from a spiderman dispenser, or really fresh McDonalds french fries, or…. well, nevermind.
Tell David, Get well soon.
Just saw this Menage. So glad that he is doing well. He’ll be better in no time! My Jen had that surgery a number of years ago. Gall stones really hurt, I know!
I’ll pray for a quick recovery.
Oh, good to hear Menage. will continue to pray that all goes well with his recovery.
I don’t feel comfortable asking for prayers from you guys because I don’t know you and you don’t know me. But I want to pray that I find people like you in my life that understand what love means. You guys get it.
Dude, I pray that you find them too. Hang around with us, if you want to. I have found that even “imaginary friends” (not really, of course) make the world a better place. People here will befriend you, pray for you if you ask (and even if you don’t), share your happy and sad times with you. Seriously, I will pray for you.
I will pray for you as well!
That’s a wonderful thing to say. We hope you will stick around. Many of us feel as close to our internet friends as to someone next door. We will pray for you as well.
Welcome to the Treehouse, Dude. .. will include you in my prayers as well.
We all need such people, Dude. When they’re absent, the hole is deep indeed. I’ll pray for good friends for you.
Let us pray to our dear Lord that the evil that has sunk it’s teeth into our beloved America is soon defeated. Let us return to the freedom and liberty our Forefathers intended.
Amen, Sherri. From your lips!
Amen and amen!
An update on my sister Tracy, they changed her date of surgery to April 3rd. Thanks for all the prayers and God bless you all!
We’ll keep praying.
Oh, AMEN!!
While my situation isn’t as serious as most I see here, I would ask you to say a quick prayer for my baby sis. She was diagnosed with Bell’s Palsy a few weeks ago. Nothing life-threatening but I am more concerned than she is.
It’s a distressing thing to have happen to you. My daughter had it when she was first married, and thought at first that she had a stroke or something. Your sis will be okay, but it will be a little while, probably. Women are more worried about how they look, too. I’ll pray for her!
Prayers, here, T. Keep us informed.
Amen. Please keep us posted.
Thanks all.
Oh, gosh Tex… adding my prayers for your sister, for you, and for the rest of your family.
Prayers are on their way for you, your sister, and the entire Texan clan.
Tex, count on our prayers for your sister, too. Hang in there with her.
Added her to my prayers as well. God bless you!
I wanted to let you know that my sister Tracy came through her surgery pretty good today. They had to keep her in recovery for three hours because they couldn’t get her blood pressure down, but she is finally in her room and resting. Thank you again for all your prayers. They are greatly appreciated.
God Be Praised loopyloo305! And we are all Blessed here for the thoughtfulness and prayers of all.
Good news, loopyloo!
Indeed it is.
Praying for Tilda’s sister as well. God bless!
I pray daily for y’all. It is good to know such a caring bunch of people!
My 77 yr old sister is spiraling downward and out of control with her anger, dementia and isolation, refusal to allow her 50′s-age loving daughter and son to help. Again this week, the ambulance took her to the hospital after she called 911 and they figured out she had not been eating or taking her meds for several days. Again the hospital could not identify a reason to keep her so sent her back home. So now the guardianship process that was already in place has been put on the fast track. She has repeatedly called 911 for nonsense situations–so I do NOT understand why they can’t act on that aside from family directives. She has screamed at the police — actually hit the one that came to her condo on Flathead Lake in the last couple days….hit him, and told him he was too fat! My niece has done terrific loving service, but is exhausted. My brother (a widower) is a terrific resource for niece as well, so all the pieces are in place to move the situation along. It’s just distressing–big sis who told me stories and funny things when I was 7 and 8 and 9 is losing her life irreparably and irretrievably. Please pray for her and my niece. Niece’s husband is a fine, fine man, and is currently recovering from an extensive surgery required to repair a seriously broken wrist, so niece has had a lot to walk through. She’s doing it. God bless her. In a note from my brother this morning, he did share a lighter thought: His 4 year old granddaughter brought the following bit of praise liturgy home from nursery school this week: “Hosanna Bananas, Jesus is coming!!” My brother acknowledged that his Grandpa status perhaps colors his undiscriminating enjoyment of the line, but he loves the Lord as well. Actually, I think it’s a pretty good line. About as complicated as I can deal with today anyway.
Sharon, I can’t offer advice on this difficult situation. All I can do is pray, and pray I will.
Praying Sharon, God is with you!
We’ll certainly pray for your big sis and your niece, Sharon, and for you.
Yikes! What a full plate. We’re on it.
My prayers are with your sister and her family, as well as you. I hope that your sister will find some peace, and her daughter rest and strength.
This is a heartbreaking situation for you all. I am praying.
Sharon,
i will add all of you in my prayers.
What a heartbreaking situation! I’m adding my prayers to the others – for all of you.
Absolutely – prayers for the entire family.
My sister is 10 weeks pregnant with her second child and her manager is a being a veritable she-dog! (Pardon my language, especially in a prayer thread but I don’t know what else to say!) My sister has always had difficulties in pregnancy. She couldn’t get conceived for a long time and when she finally did, we were so happy for her. But it didn’t last long. She had two miscarriages and the third time it was an ectopic pregnancy to which she lost the baby and one of her fallopian tubes. It was one of the most horrible days of our lives, not only because of her loss of child but she almost lost her faith. After years of prayers (especially my wonderful mother’s), she finally had her first son. Sunny is special because he was a miracle child. A pastor told my sis she would have a son but she had no hope. It was my mother who kept the faith and soon my sis found out she was pregnant. Even that pregnancy wasn’t an easy on as she started bleeding profusely around the 7th week, like every other time. She hadn’t told us, as she was scared and depressed. But my mom subscribes to a Jesuit priest’s magazine and he always has a special prayer for the month. That month it was pregnant mothers and the unborn babies. We said the prayer regularly without knowing my sister’s condition. My sister had gone to her regular ultrasound check-up, fearing the worst but only to found out that not only was the baby’s heart-beat was normal but also that he was so energetic!!
God always keeps His promises. Little Sunny is our own Samuel.
Sorry for the back story! But as I mentioned my sister’s troubles with pregnancies has been many. She’s had a miscarriage since Sunny. But now he boss is deliberately making her life hell. She’s had heavy work for the past month and the boss for seems to like to yell at her for no apparent reason at all. Ever since my sis told her that she’s pregnant and though she doesn’t mind the work she could do without the yelling, her boss made it a point to yell at her all the more.
I did ask my sis to complain to the HR but she’s not willing to risk the confrontation that would follow. Her boss is a vindictive lady who even calls workplaces of people who had quit and joined different companies, just to complain about them.
I am troubled for her but unable to to anything beyond praying for her. I am utterly useless. We can’t tell our mother right now, for reasons some of you know, and she has only told me so far. I know, I can’t give her the comfort of our mother. Would you all be so kind to pray for her? She could do with the comfort of your prayers while we wait for our own mother’s comfort.
Thank you.
Will absolutely pray for your sister, the baby, her doctors, your family, and for the boss – that she may, by the grace of God, have a personality transformation.
We’re on it. And a special prayer to St. Michael to defend your sister against all demons, human or spiritual.
Amen to that.
I will pray for all of you, Shalini. My heart hurts for you and for her.
I pray for comfort and relief for you all, and protection for the baby. I’m sorry for your pain in this.
Praying for your sister, God bless you all!
Today, right now, I am going to stop and say a rosary for your sister and her baby, and for a conversion of heart for her boss. Thank you for sharing this need with us, and please give us updates on your sister’s health.
I will, Menagerie. Thank you all for your kindness and prayers. I can’t explain how much they are appreciated. My sister will be most grateful.
Shalini,
I don’t think you could ever be “useless” especially because of your Trust and Faith in God. I will add your request to my prayers gladly. Thank you for askin and sharing that beautiful occasion in your life with all of us here. God Bless and Keep You and Yours Always.
Amen to that, Shalini! Prayers for your sister and the baby.
I will pray that God watches over the unborn life of the child, and that He will also grant her the poise and serenity to remain calm during these confrontations.
Me, too.
Shalini, Since Gerard is my middle name I offer this prayer for your sister.
Prayer to St. Gerard Majella for a Safe Delivery
Saint Gerard Majella is the Patron & Protector of Expectant Mothers. The Feast of Saint Gerard is celebrated on October 16. Here is a prayer to St. Gerard which can be used by expectant mothers for a healthy & safe delivery.
O great Saint Gerard, beloved servant of Jesus Christ, perfect imitator of thy meek and humble Savior, and devoted child of the Mother of God, enkindle within my heart one spark of that heavenly fire of charity which glowed in thee and made thee a seraph of love.
O glorious Saint Gerard, because when falsely accused of crime, thou didst bear, like thy Divine Master, without murmur or complaint, the calumnies of wicked men, thou hast been raised up by God as the patron and protector of expectant mothers. Preserve me from danger and from the excessive pains accompanying childbirth, and shield the child which I now carry, that it may see the light of day and receive the lustrial waters of baptism, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Recite Nine Hail Marys.
I will continue to pray for your sister and that God grant our request and let His Will be done.
pleading the Blood of Jesus over your situation.
Shalini…praying for your sister these days. May God cause her to know strength and peace, and protect the life of the wee won.
UPDATE on my sis: today the Montana courts have approved an emergency/temporary guardianship (which simply expedites the inevitable). She has a couple of days to “prove them wrong” and it may be as early as this Wednesday that they will be coming to her door and literally taking her away. My brother is going to be with my niece as it all unfolds on the scene.
It is what it is, and the entire situation is now long past the handwringing/”do you think we should” stage. It is now out of the hands of anyone who cares about her (and many do). Pray for grace and peace and strength for them as they walk these events out.
All of your notes a couple days ago were a comfort–even though I’m not “in the midst of it” like my niece or brother, I’m better able to pray myself for them if I don’t feel quite so alone. Thank you.
UPDATE: Today (Thursday 4/11) was the day they went with the court orders and support from various agencies and it all went very badly. My sister was profane and violent and horrible. The end of the day was that she was taken by force, by the police, to an ambulance and transported to a psychiatric facility in a town about 65 miles away. She will very likely end up being admitted to some type of locked facility before the weekend’s over. Thanks for your thoughts.
UPDATE: Yesterday (Saturday 4/14) the situation finally came to a resting place. She was hospitalized for assessment for 2 1/2 days, released yesterday morning after being placed on long term (and additional for short term need) anti-psychotic meds. After much checking and evaluation, my brother and niece found a beautiful senior care/dementia facility in Kalispell (MT) and spent Friday night disassembling her condo on Flathead Lake, moving her treasured (and valuable) art prints, books, personal belongings to her room at the Kalispell facility, actually not knowing as they did that how she was going to be functioning yesterday. By 11 yesterday morning, they had her new room perfectly arranged and appointed, familiar things all around, and had left town headed south. Per the staff and doctors, it was better for them not to be around when she was transferred there.
Late in the day yesterday, my niece got a text from the facility saying that her mother had been released from the hospital, transported by ambulance, arrived in the facility smiling, had absolutely loved her new room with private bath and all, and was getting ready for dinner. This is the mercy of God. This is all mercy…mercy for her and for all of us. Niece said that when that text came, niece, niece’s husband and my brother just all broke down crying. She related how she had had to stand through Thursday, being screamed at as a group (“You bastards!”) and directed at her “You bitch!”) again and again. That is pain. Utter pain. She said that yesterday was, finally, their Easter. She describe Thursday as a day of facing the fury and the pain “because we were there for love and justice.” Now, knowing my niece’s tender heart and trust in the Almighty—that right there is a RED HOT POKER that could be poked in the eye of the left—they know NOTHING of such love and justice. Nothing. (And by “justice” she simply meant that even when your mother hates your guts and screams profanities at you, if you are standing in the right place, you simply keep standing there, because it is right.)
They are all utterly depleted and driving home to Utah today. It is mercy also for our nephew, who loves his mom and because of his proximity has had the responsibility of trying to manage the week to week destruction and hostility for the last 6 months as he has been the “family contact” for the home care workers whom she finally locked out a couple of weeks back. Nephew was not on the scene this week because he just started a new job about two weeks and it was not possible for him to be absent. In any event, it was better for him not to have to deal with this, and all the family was in full support of him NOT having to be there. He would have been bitterly targeted, and it just may be that he could not have sustained through those three days.
My brother relates this morning that even though he has assisted with other parental situations which were similar….they were nothing like this. “It’s different when it’s a sister,” of course, and he also said, “This was in a class by itself.”
He’s my bestest closest brother (he’s actually perfect
) and I’m so grateful for is care for her and so grateful that now it is past and he can begin to rest and recover in the secret place, under the shadow of the Almight. (Ps. 91:1).
Sorry for such a long narrative, but there it is.
Forgot to include–this is a facility that has closed circuit wired in for the families, so they provide an access code, and we can go online at any time and watch the activities they are doing and watch for her involvement and see her. That just makes me cry, that finally I can look in on her and lovingly watch–because I have not been able to have any contact with her at all for the last two years. Any contact at all just made her so angry, and then my niece would get a screaming phone call from her, demanding to know “what the hell Sharon thought she was doing”…..that as a result of a 10 minute generic phone conversation. Dementia is not for the fainthearted, I’ll tell you that!~
Sharon, Thank God that your sister, brother, niece, and the rest of the family have come to a better place. I am hopeful that this is a good thing for all of you. It must be devastating to have a dear loved one “leave” you like this. I don’t know that I could deal with it, and I am so grateful that I never had to find out.
Sharon,
Thank you for sharing the update. God be Praised for His Mercy. And what a great sign of His Mercy on this Mercy Sunday. I am HAPPY that they have dome peace and will continue the prayers for everyones HEALING.
Sounds really positive – and what a neat thing for the family, to be able to look in on her daily!! I’m so glad that things are better and calming down for all of them.
I am delighted it ended as well as it did. Your niece must have the fortitude of St. George.
Please pray for my BIL’s mother-in-law. The family has been told that she’s not expected to live to see tomorrow. Thanks.
Praying for her. God less you all!
Our prayers and hearts go out for all of you. God keep all of you close to Himself.
GFC
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and the family freedom.
Amen, Freedom, for all of you.
My prayers for your family freedom.
Sharon –
I apologize for not having stopped in here lately to let you all know that – in spite of appearances to the contrary – I do keep you all in my prayers daily – with the petition that the Lord be mindful of the specific requests that each of you have laid before HIm.
God bless you and keep you and all your loved ones in His tender care. Love you!!!
A prayer of thanksgiving. A long-term freelance position has opened up for me, and it will give me a bit of breathing room, and — who knows? — perhaps a new career direction as I make contacts.
Thanks to my online legion of guardian angels’ helpers for seeing me through my whining and complaining (you were at least spared the caterwauling, gnashing of teeth, and rending of clothes).
Wonderful news Mike. I hope this will be enjoyable for you, and lead to something more permanent. Go easy on the wardrobe now.
Excellent! What great news to start the day!!
Good news Mile! (BTW…..caterwauling has gotten a bad rap…meow.)
Please join me in prayer for a family member with cancer, just diagnosed. We will find out whether it has spread this week.
Will be praying it turns out to be localized…
I’m praying with you, Menage, and looking forward to a good result.
I am asking for the prayers from all here for a good friend who is suffering from cancer. My friend, a man who devoted his life to the service of our nation (career Air Force), who has always been the first to show up for anyone who needed help and the last one to leave, who has devoted his “retirement” years to educating others on the greatness of this nation and who has been the driving force in getting, and keeping, our high school Navy ROTC, needs our prayers for a total recovery.
There are few people in this world that I think will truely be missed. He is one of them.
I will certainly add your friend to my prayers. Thank you for asking!
Prayers up for an American eagle!
Absolutely, Zane. And please give him our thanks.
He will be in my prayers as well!
Prayers for one of our finest Zane. Will do.
Just found youse guys. I will have to make an encampment here, set up a firepit, get the cast iron dutch ovens going and dole out the beans and bacon the good Lord has given me. I likes the tilt of your hats, the tenor of your voices and your all around good cheer as you do a bodily function from a great height on the devil. Giddyup, ya’ll.
Welcome, RancherJack! Pick a branch, and settle in. Can’t wait to try your beans and bacon, if you’re willing to share.
Yay!!! It looks like the chuckwagon caught up to us! Welcome, sir, welcome!!
Well, I’ll let someone else have my share of the beans, as the Good Lord did not see fit to give me a liking for them. The bacon however, I shall enjoy with great relish!! Welcome!
Well, shoot, I like the tilt of your hat, too!! We must have good cheer while dispensing genuine justice for the American Way. Welcome! ‘smores around the campfire of an evening….
I’m requesting prayer for my cousin, Elaine. She’s the one who had surgery for a broken leg a while ago. She’s in a rehabilitation facility, and has contracted an infection of some kind.
Will do, Stellap. May the Lord provide what she needs. . .
Prayers and hope for a rapid recovery for Elaine.
Elaine has been taken to the hospital from the rehabilitation center. She has some kind of septic infection, and it may be very serious, from what I was able to gather from her daughters. Please pray with me. She is such a sweet person.
Absolutely – and please keep us posted.
Daughters report that Elaine is much better after a couple of days in the hospital. Thanks for your prayers!
That’s wonderful!! May she continue to restored good health.
Glad Elaine is improving. God is good!
Sorry to be so late in sending my prayers Pat.
My heart is heavy, my BGF’s Daddy went home Sunday. We knew it was coming, but that does not make it any easier. Please keep Terri and her family in your prayers.
Will do Gracie.
I’ll keep them in my prayers.
Will do.
Thanks y’all!
Aw, Gracie. That’s too bad – prayers for them from me, too.
Prayers going out for you all Gracie.
Definitely.
Just a short update on my sister. She has finally found the courage to talk to her director about the emotional abuse and now she’s been shifted to a different department. She sounded so happy and relieved but still a little wary as her previous manager is a little vindictive. That lady had called a former employee’s new work place to complain about her. But I am not too bothered. I am pretty sure my sister did the right thing and is now in a better place. Thank you all for the prayers. She read them and is very grateful.
But there’s this thing. I don’t know why, but my sister’s colleagues who worked under previous boss seem too scared to take the step my sister did. There’s another lady who suffered a miscarriage because of constant emotional abuse who’s service was terminated by this manager when she was recovering at the hospital. Another of my sister’s colleagues confided in my sister about attempted suicide. My sis has talked her out of it. But there are these people for some reason too scared to get out of there. I’d appreciate it if we can all pray for them to find the strength and courage to deal with this like my sister did.
I will continue to pray for your sister, and add her colleagues as well. I am very glad that she was able to talk someone out of suicide. Perhaps we must pray for this manager as well, that she will find it in her heart to care for the well being of those entrusted to her supervision.
You are a better person than I am, Menage. Right now I can’t bring myself to forgive her but I hope God gives me the strength to pray for her.
Woman can be some of the hardest people to work for….been there. Is there perhaps a person ABOVE this manager that your sister could confide in? It would help your sister to have someone acting as a “mentor” in order to keep this other woman in line. Will continue to keep her and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Will continue to pray for all of them.
Hey Grunt! Can you please do me a favour? Can you check with GFC and give me his email id, if it’s okay with him. I need to share something with him.
Absolutely, Shal. I just sent the email request to GFC.
I will pray for them all, as well, Shalini. And for the Karma bus to show up asap for the boss.